Discussion Most incels have no idea how much energy and motivation ones gets from a relationship

[Ellsworth]

As incels every task is brutal and difficult because we are alone and have few rewards in life. Additionally we are missing a huge chunk of what makes a person human. (Maslow anyone). So tasks such as having energy to go to work and actually do a good job can be rather difficult for us. Not to mention all the other tasks involved in daily life.

But for men in relationships they have the energy and motivation to work and then still have energy to participate in other daily activities as well as constantly improve themselves. All because they know they have someone who cares about them and have sex with and share a life with.

Tldr; normies in relationships have more energy than us because they have a complete life.

 

[NiggerSlayer]

Very true. People love to say "a gf won't fix you!!!!" But for the most part, it actually will. I remember when I had a huge crush on this one girl in high school, I was head over heels, and no joke it actually changed my life. Suddenly I had motivation in life, I was happy, I was waking up and falling asleep at normal times instead of at degen hours, I wanted to get up and do stuff instead of just sitting around the house, etc. And keep in mind she literally didn't even care for my existence. She had never even talked to me before. But I was SO happy just because my brain was giving me the happy chemicals. If that was the boost I got just from liking her, can you image how much of a boost normies get when a foid actually likes them back???

The entirety of normies, as well as many incels, love to say a gf won't fix you, but in reality that's a complete lie. A gf would change your life entirely. They all just refuse to admit it

 

[Ellsworth]

Very true. People love to say "a gf won't fix you!!!!" But for the most part, it actually will. I remember when I had a huge crush on this one girl in high school, I was head over heels, and no joke it actually changed my life. Suddenly I had motivation in life, I was happy, I was waking up and falling asleep at normal times instead of at degen hours, I wanted to get up and do stuff instead of just sitting around the house, etc. And keep in mind she literally didn't even care for my existence. She had never even talked to me before. But I was SO happy just because my brain was giving me the happy chemicals. If that was the boost I got just from liking her, can you image how much of a boost normies get when a foid actually likes them back???

The entirety of normies, as well as many incels, love to say a gf won't fix you, but in reality that's a complete lie. A gf would change your life entirely. They all just refuse to admit it

You explained it far better than me. I have had a similar experience a couple times when I felt I was close to having a relationship.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Can't remember this one guy's name, he was a blackpilled youtuber who finally found a gf, maybe his name was something like FA Monday. Anyway he said that the first time he had sex with a girl he felt this wave of relief, like he was finally accepted as a human being and how it made his stress levels go down.

Basically he finally felt like he had any sort of value. And it increased his self-esteem.

Also he noticed that women waiters on restaurants would flirt with him when he was with his girlfriend there, and that the service was better and people in general were much more kinder to him. Further increasing his self-esteem.

The world hates single men. Especially single virgin men.

 

[just another koala]

ery true. People love to say "a gf won't fix you!!!!" But for the most part, it actually will

Why should we be fixated by anything? We are not the problem, but women and their unfulfillable demands. We are perfect the way we are. In terms of character, we even have better personalities than any chad or normie. It's not our fault that these whores don't want to see it.

 

[NiggerSlayer]

Why should we be fixated by anything? We are not the problem, but women and their unfulfillable demands. We are perfect the way we are. In terms of character, we even have better personalities than any chad or normie. It's not our fault that these whores don't want to see it.

True, but what I was getting at is that regardless of what some whore thinks of you, if you have a gf your brain will drug you into being happy and motivated, and that will largely improve the quality of your life

 

[Gott _mit _uns94]

w0men in the past actually complimented man, all of those legends about the beauty and the beast, and the princess and the frog literally address this issue. Women when they were women and not w0men complimanted man and gave him stablity, if feminism exsisted in the form it is exsisting today all over the world, then today humanity would be extinct.

 

[just another koala]

True, but what I was getting at is that regardless of what some whore thinks of you, if you have a gf your brain will drug you into being happy and motivated, and that will largely improve the quality of your life

Or it will become hell. People like us know the opposite and would live in constant panic about losing the bitch again. And these bitches can sense that and take advantage of it.

 

[NiggerSlayer]

Or it will become hell. People like us know the opposite and would live in constant panic about losing the bitch again. And these bitches can sense that and take advantage of it.

Damn, I didn't even think about it from that perspective

 

[CobsonCel]

Everyone who says external love intimacy and validation wont fix you need their face to be burned

 

[just another koala]

Damn, I didn't even think about it from that perspective

It's part of a relationship that you tell each other what you did in your life before the relationship. If it turns out that we are unfucked socially isolated people who were just extras in other people's lives but never had a life of our own, then the woman knows immediately. Let's be honest: how many photos do you have of you from the last 5-10 years? I'm turning 32 in a few weeks and there are maybe 3 or 4 photos of me since I was in high school. The reason is, I don't have any friends, I don't do anything. I rot in loneliness. I practically didn't exist. What should I tell a woman what I've been doing for the last 15 years? I don't even know myself because every day was identical.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Exactly. Having a wife/gf gives you purpose.

-You go to work for eight hours, come home, have sex with your wife, take care of the kids, your wife makes dinner for you, then you go to bed and cuddle your wife.

-As an incel, you work eight hours, come home, jerk off to porn and feel empty, prepare your goyslop frozen meal, then go to bed alone.

Having a wife gives you the energy to do the normoid task of working long hours. Without it, what's the fucking point of living?

 

[R(p)apist1488]

Very true. People love to say "a gf won't fix you!!!!" But for the most part, it actually will. I remember when I had a huge crush on this one girl in high school, I was head over heels, and no joke it actually changed my life. Suddenly I had motivation in life, I was happy, I was waking up and falling asleep at normal times instead of at degen hours, I wanted to get up and do stuff instead of just sitting around the house, etc. And keep in mind she literally didn't even care for my existence. She had never even talked to me before. But I was SO happy just because my brain was giving me the happy chemicals. If that was the boost I got just from liking her, can you image how much of a boost normies get when a foid actually likes them back???

The entirety of normies, as well as many incels, love to say a gf won't fix you, but in reality that's a complete lie. A gf would change your life entirely. They all just refuse to admit it

This is so true.

 

[Dusk]

I want a cuddly wife waiting for me after working hard.
Right now there's nothing to look forward to even if I try my hardest to be productive there is nothing but the same bleak isolation that normally pervades my existence. Also if you're alone for a long time your hormones become fucked because of a deficiency in serotonin and other hormones. For more information on how inceldom affects a man's health you can read the wiki:

Scientific Blackpill

The Scientific Blackpill is about understanding the nature of human social and sexual behavior with a particular focus on evolutionary psychological perspectives...

incels.wiki

 

[JudeoBiden]

What is this bitchsimp thread? You won't get more energy, and the foid will drain more energy from you with her nonstop faggotry. Have you ever seen a couple IRL? Does that look like a man with more energy? No, he looks run down and put on a leash.

 

[XtremeMax]

I would be much happier and have better social skills I think

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I was thinking about this a while ago, and yeah I don't think we realize how much energy that shit takes.