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I think the most common female responses to incels I generally see could be interpreted as blatant projections.
•1) "You're only an incel because you are going for hot models. Lower your standards."
Blatant projection. Obviously, women are the ones who are only going for the "hot models" and most men are swiping right on everything while getting nothing. Women can improve their outcomes by lowering their ridiculous standards. Men usually have no standards at all, and lowering them even further usually doesn't help
•2) "You just need to shower more and take better care of yourself."
I never understood why women were so obsessed with our shower routines. Almost all of us have normal shower habits in surveys. So why do women fixate on it? Well it turns out a considerable amount of women don't shower daily, and 33% go up to 3 days without showering. Two thirds of young woman are so self-conscious of their vaginal odor they have refused to have sex because of it.
•3) "You're an incel because you only want white women!"
Oh boy, this is the best one so far. The data shows women are far more obsessed with chasing white men than men are with chasing white women. And even women of ethnic races prefer white men by a massive margin. Lots of incel men are swiping on every type of girl. Many ethnic men would prefer a girl of their own race.
•4) "You just need to work on your personality and be a better person."
Men reward women that have "nice" personalities. Women do not for nice men. I have seen loads of studies where women sexually reward criminals, narcissists, and sociopaths. One study specifically demonstrated male "niceness" was not at all valued by women. So "being a better person" will make a woman more attractive to a man, and they know it's something they need to do. Again, this is a projection that is more relevant to them not us.
•1) "You're only an incel because you are going for hot models. Lower your standards."
Blatant projection. Obviously, women are the ones who are only going for the "hot models" and most men are swiping right on everything while getting nothing. Women can improve their outcomes by lowering their ridiculous standards. Men usually have no standards at all, and lowering them even further usually doesn't help
•2) "You just need to shower more and take better care of yourself."
I never understood why women were so obsessed with our shower routines. Almost all of us have normal shower habits in surveys. So why do women fixate on it? Well it turns out a considerable amount of women don't shower daily, and 33% go up to 3 days without showering. Two thirds of young woman are so self-conscious of their vaginal odor they have refused to have sex because of it.
•3) "You're an incel because you only want white women!"
Oh boy, this is the best one so far. The data shows women are far more obsessed with chasing white men than men are with chasing white women. And even women of ethnic races prefer white men by a massive margin. Lots of incel men are swiping on every type of girl. Many ethnic men would prefer a girl of their own race.
•4) "You just need to work on your personality and be a better person."
Men reward women that have "nice" personalities. Women do not for nice men. I have seen loads of studies where women sexually reward criminals, narcissists, and sociopaths. One study specifically demonstrated male "niceness" was not at all valued by women. So "being a better person" will make a woman more attractive to a man, and they know it's something they need to do. Again, this is a projection that is more relevant to them not us.
