Mom always wants me to be a doormat.

[ionlycopenow]

She keeps telling me I'm a piece of shit for not doing things like tipping any female waiters or holding doors open for women or something. I tell her I'm not a doormat and they can do all that shit on their own and she hits me with the "if you were one then people would like you more" and that men should be doormats. JFL it's be a cuck or rot alone I guess truly

 

[Deleted member 14577]

she's bluepilled and thinks that your good deeds would come back to you

 

[ionlycopenow]

she's bluepilled and thinks that your good deeds would come back to you

Believing in the just world fallacy is the mark of a moron

 

[speedtypingincel]

She keeps telling me I'm a piece of shit for not doing things like tipping any female waiters or holding doors open for women or something.

As an ugly male, yes. If you are attractive then it will be seen as masculine.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

just say that you do them. but don't actually do it.

 

[speedtypingincel]

It just hit me btw:
unattractive: doormat
attractive: respectful guy.

 

[ionlycopenow]

It just hit me btw:
unattractive: doormat
attractive: respectful guy.

I'd rather be asshole than doormat so I can't be a "respectful guy".

 

[speedtypingincel]

I'd rather be asshole than doormat so I can't be a "respectful guy".

Asshole: unattractive.
Confident: attractive.

 

[ionlycopenow]

Asshole: unattractive.
Confident: attractive.

You can't win either way as an uflt male