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>The REAL REASON IS MEN THEMSELVES
>Specifically the obsolete patriarchal expectations that taught a generation of men that they shouldn't show emotion, or check in on their fellow men, or express themselves in any way that's remotely conventionally feminine.
So called "patriarchal expectations" literally haven't been a thing for a long time, my generation didn't have those expectations. No one checks up on strangers anymore, not men not women, We live in the age of apathy and that is due to many different factors from normalization of phone scrolling to the raise of multiculturalism. you won't admit this because you have a desire to blame incels for all of their shortcomings, you think this is justified because you never were a real incel and your shortcomings were actually on you.
>This has embittered a massive portion of men who have spent their whole lives believing that if they followed a set of rules they'd eventually find a woman, without being taught that WOMEN AREN'T A MONOLITH. They are highly variable individuals with their own preferences and turnoffs, and the fact that their "dream woman" hasn't instantly swooned for them for following these rules confuses and upsets them, and this causes a shifting of the blame onto women. In their minds, they did everything they were told to, they played by the rules, but they're being denied their "prize", yet another harmful myth propagated by toxic masculinity.
Yup this little paragraph proves that you were a fakecel, If this your idea of how incels operate you were never a real incel. Real incels have proven the blackpill to themselves by constantly trying, We have tried to improve ourselves to be "worthy" of a woman's love to be rejected anyways, We tried approaching women in many different ways at many different times in our lives, we tried all the little tips that women gave us for a dating profile, we've done everything we can to find love and we were consistently rejected. You claim that women are "highly variable individuals" yet you act like all incels are the same. Many incels have different beliefs on what the blackpill even is, we apply the blackpill differently and who we blame isn't just women, many of us blame society more then we blame women and sometimes we blame ourselves, We are as "highly variable" as you claim women to be.
>So yes, there is an overwhelming majority of lonely men. Men who're confused and frustrated and (although they won't mention it) scared, because they simply don't understand why they're wrong. And it certainly doesn't help that Red Pill parasites and podcasters are leeching off their vulnerability and using it to stoke their fire for their own profit.
Yea you know what, you weren't even an fakecel who thought they were an incel you're just a faggot larper. It's so obvious because nobody who has actually spent time in any incel space mistakes the red pill with the black pill.
>If you're one of those men who believe that they'll never find someone and don't understand why, trust me when I say that I see you, and I believe you. BUT WOMEN ARE NOT THE PROBLEM, THE MEN THAT FORCED YOU TO BE "MASCULINE, RUGGED, REAL" MEN ARE.
There are no men that forced me or any other incel to be "Masculine, rugged, real man" you're just a retard regurgitating feminist talking points
>A REAL man isn't someone who hides their feelings and mocks others for not reaching their impossible standards, a real man is someone who accepts and embraces his emotions. He should be in tune with his emotions, builds upon his strengths and works on his flaws. A REAL MAN IS NOT A BRICK WALL THAT CRUMBLES AGAINST RESISTANCE, A REAL MAN IS A WILLOW TREE THAT BENDS WITH THE WIND AND LEARNS TO BE STRONGER AND MORE GENTLE.
More feministic coded speak, "a real man is somebody who is gentle for women and fights for them" you may have not said it but it's so obvious what your trying to imply
>This is my view on the whole situation, and I think the more sane incels will agree with some of these points it they really give it some thought. I'd love to hear your views on it, whether you agree/disagree and why. Life's all about constantly growing, and I'd love to learn if I'm wrong about something and work on it.
My view on this whole situation, is that you're a feminist larper. It's possible that you were once "lonely" but you never actually believed you were an incel so you're bending your own experience to try to make a point here, IT of course ate this up because they don't understand inceldom either. But we incels see through your façade, You never were an incel you never thought you were incel, you were never in incel spaces. You never even mentioned the black pill, you are a fucking fraud and your feministic talking points have been consistently debunked on this website.
