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Serious Mentalceldom is a real thing, it just doesn't apply to chad or chadlite

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When I was thinking about how even if I weren't below average, that I'd still be incel with my problems, it occurred to me mentalcels are real but probably somewhat rare. Most men who have issues severe enough to prevent them from having sex are also ugly, and it's likely that many of their problems are a result of how others treated them due to being ugly. But 5/10 mentalcels absolutely must exist, as like I said, a 5/10 in my shoes would 100% be incel. I'm uncomfortable outside of my house, essentially unable to have a normal job due to social phobia combined with next to no work history sabotaging me, and I have no idea how to be an adult because my parents literally didn't teach me how. Phone calls stress me out, I worry about upcoming appointments for weeks in advance, and I can barely drive due to anxiety, just for some examples. It's hard to explain but basically things which would be nothing to most people are a ridiculous drain on me mentally, and I've been like this for a very long time.

I believe that this forum is far too dogmatic when it comes to this topic, although at lot of this is justifiable. After all many who claim to be mentalcel go on to ascend rather easily, or are revealed to have been larpers all along. But it's ridiculous to claim that mental issues can't cause someone at a normie PSL to be incel. An obvious example is someone with autism, sure chadlite might be able to get away with it, but 5-6/10 who would normally have to socialcirclemaxx and jestermaxx to get a foid? JFL.
 
i totally agree mentalcels generally exist for sure,if this forum had some larpers is a whole different subject
 
just be confident bro
 
I'd say it can happen if you grow up ugly and then looksmax to normie tier, because you end up with all the mental damage from previous years as well as very low social status. Can also happen if you're born autistic.
 
No no 5/10 so called mentalcels are coping. They know their mental problems were brought about by poor looks and hypergamy
 
I'd say it can happen if you grow up ugly and then looksmax to normie tier, because you end up with all the mental damage from previous years as well as very low social status. Can also happen if you're born autistic.
Do u believe that normie people (in terms of looks) can't face mental damage?
 
Do u believe that normie people (in terms of looks) can't face mental damage?
they can in some ways, although it would have to be through something like abusive parents or being bullied for race, etc
 
they can in some ways, although it would have to be through something like abusive parents or being bullied for race, etc
Yeah.... Imagine going through all that...
 
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No no 5/10 so called mentalcels are coping. They know their mental problems were brought about by poor looks and hypergamy
I agree, it's just cope. Mentalcels can't admit they're ugly so they say but m-muh shyness muh autism! And what do you think brought that about, exactly, genius buddy retard?

Inb4 that one guy posts that extremely cherry picked video :lul:
 
It's the fakecels who are usually against the points you made. Mentalcels definitely exist within a certain PSL range.
 
No no 5/10 so called mentalcels are coping. They know their mental problems were brought about by poor looks and hypergamy
what about 6/10

i agree 5/10 might just be ugly but 6/10 might be that sweet spot for potential mentalceldom
 
what about 6/10

i agree 5/10 might just be ugly but 6/10 might be that sweet spot for potential mentalceldom
I still doubt that real 6/10s couldn't get any if they didn't cop out because they are above average by definition. Fake 6/10s who are actually 5s or 4s are extremely common, mind you. Especially those who seek ratings from men.
 
I still doubt that real 6/10s couldn't get any if they didn't cop out because they are above average by definition. Fake 6/10s who are actually 5s or 4s are extremely common, mind you. Especially those who seek ratings from men.
You might have a point. Idk it depends upon if you could have success with dating apps at 6/10, so we'd need more information. Location is important, and of course if you're mentalcel, you might not be able to move to a better location.
 
Being ugly and therefore rejected left and right for all your life also statistically causes mentalceldom, os the term is moot to an extent.

I believe many people like to attach themselves to the mentalceldom idea because it's also more pleasing to the ego to say "I'm a mentalcel" than to admit "yeah, I'm ugly and repulsive to women".

Also, as a guy who approached hundreds of women, I'll say this: it's not supposed to be comfortable. You will feel a ton of anxiety, discomfort and fear while doing it.
 
I'd say it can happen if you grow up ugly and then looksmax to normie tier, because you end up with all the mental damage from previous years as well as very low social status. Can also happen if you're born autistic.
Fuck, this is way too relateable tbh.
 
I believe many people like to attach themselves to the mentalceldom idea because it's also more pleasing to the ego to say "I'm a mentalcel" than to admit "yeah, I'm ugly and repulsive to women".
I couldn't really cope like this because women have made it very obvious to me that I repulse them, jfl. They even used to tell me so, when I was still in school.
Also, as a guy who approached hundreds of women, I'll say this: it's not supposed to be comfortable. You will feel a ton of anxiety, discomfort and fear while doing it.
I can barely ask for a job application, how am I going to approach women? It feels like I'm unable to go through with it, like I can't actually will myself to do it.
This thread partially explains what I mean, but it doesn't just apply to approaching women.
 
and I have no idea how to be an adult because my parents literally didn't teach me how.
We were tought to be good behaving, compliant and polite boys, but then adulthood hits and the complete opposite traits are more sought after.
 

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