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Serious Mental Illness holds us back more then we give it credit for

Misogynist Vegeta

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It has been long believed by many in this community that most of us are solely held back by our looks that even if most of us were mentally healthy that we'd still never have a chance at ever landing a girlfriend but it that really the case? Are most of us really that ugly? None of us are attractive otherwise we would have found gfs regardless of our poor mental state but are we that ugly?

I'd say for most of us it's not the case it's the combination of being below the average attractiveness combined with the mental illnesses we suffer from being the deadly combination that has made us unlovable preventing us from even having a chance of being in the edge case of finding the one woman who may find us attractive because our mental illnesses make us unbearable to be around and there is always more attractive men who are more mentally well that she will be also attracted too. We may have actually had a chance even if it was a small 1/10000 chance to actually find love if we weren't so mentally broken.

But we who we are and there is no realistic way we are changing that despite what normalfags may believe, Pills are not magic that suddenly make mental illnesses disappear and neither is therapy. They can have some positive effects but it's never going to be enough to bring you to the level of a normal person as you will always be below them in every social aspect.
 
Mental illness is #1 in inhibiting our potential
 
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Another trvke. Not only do we suffer from being ugly as hell, even if we do get a woman, we a covered in all sorts of mental disorder grease from years of abuse, neglect, and cope. Women wouldn't feel safe around us.

It's fucking over.
 
Mental illness isn't real, it's just that this life is utter dogshit and you're smart enough to see that.
 
I am proof of that, unfortunately. I have been rejected by everyone specifically because I have a serious psychiatric illness that inevitably comes up and nobody wants to get involved with a "damaged" person, even though I regularly take medication for it.
 
I wish inceldom was my only problem
 
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Another trvke. Not only do we suffer from being ugly as hell, even if we do get a woman, we a covered in all sorts of mental disorder grease from years of abuse, neglect, and cope. Women wouldn't feel safe around us.

It's fucking over.
That's cope. Meeks nor Ramirez also weren't mentally stable.
 
It has been long believed by many in this community that most of us are solely held back by our looks that even if most of us were mentally healthy that we'd still never have a chance at ever landing a girlfriend but it that really the case? Are most of us really that ugly? None of us are attractive otherwise we would have found gfs regardless of our poor mental state but are we that ugly?

I'd say for most of us it's not the case it's the combination of being below the average attractiveness combined with the mental illnesses we suffer from being the deadly combination that has made us unlovable preventing us from even having a chance of being in the edge case of finding the one woman who may find us attractive because our mental illnesses make us unbearable to be around and there is always more attractive men who are more mentally well that she will be also attracted too. We may have actually had a chance even if it was a small 1/10000 chance to actually find love if we weren't so mentally broken.

But we who we are and there is no realistic way we are changing that despite what normalfags may believe, Pills are not magic that suddenly make mental illnesses disappear and neither is therapy. They can have some positive effects but it's never going to be enough to bring you to the level of a normal person as you will always be below them in every social aspect.
I acted like a whiny depressed guy and it was somewhat fine unless i showed my face. But dunno, maybe with NT i could at least be able to betabuxx some becky
 
But we who we are and there is no realistic way we are changing that despite what normalfags may believe, Pills are not magic that suddenly make mental illnesses disappear and neither is therapy. They can have some positive effects but it's never going to be enough to bring you to the level of a normal person as you will always be below them in every social aspect.
Facts. This was hard to swallow after me hoping I’d be less ND on 200 mg TRT per week and Nardil (an MAOI, antidepressant/anxiolytic). I came to the conclusion that the human brain is not advanced enough to compensate for bad parenting, childhood trauma, a lonely youth etc. There’s nothing I can do about it. Nothing. And it indeed held me back in life and prevented me from having a social life and, honestly, also a girlfriend. Having mid height, a bad frame, small wrists, and a bad voice also didn’t help either, though.
 
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i'm so lonely and isolated i talk to myself

im not okay

if i had friends and a gf i wouldnt be mentally ill
 
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Another trvke. Not only do we suffer from being ugly as hell, even if we do get a woman, we a covered in all sorts of mental disorder grease from years of abuse, neglect, and cope. Women wouldn't feel safe around us.

It's fucking over.
Devastating but true, I’d be too socially inept to make a relationship go anywhere if I got a girlfriend. I think all of us wish we met some angel of a woman that was so forgiving and understanding that it would seem unbelievable. Our depression stems from knowing meeting a woman like that is next to impossible.
 
Women actually like and fetishize mentally ill guys like Richard Ramirez, wade wilson, serial killers, ETC. Being mentally ill only starts to affect you if you’re below a certain looks threshold LTN- ik you may think that being high inhibition is totally ruining your chances, but its not. Being high inhibition/mentally ill is only see as creepy if you’re sub5. It all leads back to your looks in the end sadly.

If you’re below the looks threshold then you’re not going to have women interested in you and if you do its not for the right reasons. And plus most ugly men who do get into relationships usually end up betabuxxing

Its sad to think about but its true. I tried my hardest to be a normie in society and tried my hardest to be low inhibition and it never worked out for me. I can attest that just being NT isnt enough for a good life and that you need the looks to accompany it
 
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