Blackpill Men more likely to leave Women after they get sick - Feminist Lies Debunked

[GeckoBus]

Was watching foids cancer vlog when my Orgasm was spoiled by this comment:

From experience, this is the polar opposite of reality.
Further down, foids were pointing to studies claiming men are more likely to divorce when their wife gets cancer.
I looked it up and there is a study on it:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4857885/

Because I am aware of anti-male bias in academia (thread), I immediately tried to find someone examining the study critically.
The google front page was full of articles and reddit threads repeating this horse shit.

Especially this reddit thread reads like something outta bizarro world:

Spoiler: thread

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/16tna55/men_are_six_times_more_likely_to_leave_their/

If this is how women see reality, then I don't know anymore. Some of this shit is clearly larp.

Quotes from that thread:

My long term boyfriend that I lived with came in to me crying, asked what was wrong, I told him the diagnosis and he took a minute to respond before saying "I need to think about if I want to stay in this relationship. It's really selfish to ask me to keep loving you if you'll never get better"

Straight outta RomCom or something. No human talks like this,complete larp.
These cunts are raised on Soaps and this is how they see reality.

I watched a colleague go the whole nine yards on this: he divorced his wife when she got breast cancer. They had 4 adult kids. Then he married a coworker who is 25 years younger & had two more kids with her. I can’t even look at the guy.

We know that this can't be true because a man, especially a middle aged betabuxxer, simply can't get a 25 year younger wife. Men don't have this option. Again, these are soap opera plots.

Another Thing I will throw into the mix before linking the big Whammy:

"Dying for Sex."
This is a podcast I discovered a while back. This 40 year old roastie got diagnosed with deadly cancer.
She divorced, went on a fuck spree and documented it in a series of podcasts.
I have listened to some of them, they are for free.

Highlights:
1. Bitch went on tinder after "elaborately engineering her profile with a friend." She didn't like the people she met (couple, bitch went for threesome right away).
Then she went on tinder again, 10 minutes later, matched, and fucked a dude on the toilet. No comment.

2. Another time she ended up fucking this dude who worked in a garage that services cars for celebrities. She said she got fucked in the backseat of one of the cars.
Reminder, she was a 40 year old dried up roastie with cancer.

Her on the right, left is the foid she made podcast with:

Here is the podcast. You can find it for full online:

Google Podcasts is niet meer beschikbaar

podcasts.google.com

Just scroll down, its six episodes, its all the ones with "Molly" (her).

There is also a book:
Amazon product ASIN B08FXVPQRCView: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08FXVPQRC/ref=as_sl_pc_qf_sp_asin_til?tag=dfsbook-20&linkCode=w00&linkId=9c0b7a6cc1fe2174c8c4d13fdf5a1df1&creativeASIN=B08FXVPQRC


Now, back to the Title of this Thread.
Drumroll

The study was bullshit.
WHAAAAAAAAAAAT?!?! NO WAY JOSE!

It was redacted later, they made a "coding error"

The Washington Post, which also covered the initial findings, said "when researchers at Bowling Green State tried to replicate the study results, they discovered the results were skewed by a mistake in the data, which counted people who left the study as divorces."

"They pointed out to us, to our horror, that we had miscoded the dependent variable," study author Amelia Karraker, professor at Iowa State University, told Retraction Watch. "As soon as we realized we made the mistake, we contacted the editor and told him what was happening, and said we made a mistake, we accept responsibility for it."

Study that found husbands prone to leave sick wives was flawed, researchers say

A coding error created a false conclusion in a study that found men may be more likely to bail on a marriage if the wife becomes sick, compared to if she's well. Researchers retracted the study.

www.deseret.com

So:
1. The researchers themselves did not detect the error, someone else did.
2. Intentional skewing of data, probably @WorthlessSlavicShit

That's it for now, have a good day everyone.

 

[Lonelyus]

Was watching foids cancer vlog when my Orgasm was spoiled by this comment:

View attachment 951960



From experience, this is the polar opposite of reality.
Further down, foids were pointing to studies claiming men are more likely to divorce when their wife gets cancer.
I looked it up and there is a study on it:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4857885/

Because I am aware of anti-male bias in academia (thread), I immediately tried to find someone examining the study critically.
The google front page was full of articles and reddit threads repeating this horse shit.

Especially this reddit thread reads like something outta bizarro world:

Spoiler: thread

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/16tna55/men_are_six_times_more_likely_to_leave_their/

If this is how women see reality, then I don't know anymore. Some of this shit is clearly larp.

Quotes from that thread:


Straight outta RomCom or something. No human talks like this,complete larp.
These cunts are raised on Soaps and this is how they see reality.


We know that this can't be true because a man, especially a middle aged betabuxxer, simply can't get a 25 year younger wife. Men don't have this option. Again, these are soap opera plots.

Another Thing I will throw into the mix before linking the big Whammy:

"Dying for Sex."
This is a podcast I discovered a while back. This 40 year old roastie got diagnosed with deadly cancer.
She divorced, went on a fuck spree and documented it in a series of podcasts.
I have listened to some of them, they are for free.

Highlights:
1. Bitch went on tinder after "elaborately engineering her profile with a friend." She didn't like the people she met (couple, bitch went for threesome right away).
Then she went on tinder again, 10 minutes later, matched, and fucked a dude on the toilet. No comment.

2. Another time she ended up fucking this dude who worked in a garage that services cars for celebrities. She said she got fucked in the backseat of one of the cars.
Reminder, she was a 40 year old dried up roastie with cancer.

Her on the right, left is the foid she made podcast with:

Here is the podcast. You can find it for full online:

Google Podcasts is niet meer beschikbaar

podcasts.google.com

Just scroll down, its six episodes, its all the ones with "Molly" (her).

There is also a book:
Amazon product ASIN B08FXVPQRCView: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08FXVPQRC/ref=as_sl_pc_qf_sp_asin_til?tag=dfsbook-20&linkCode=w00&linkId=9c0b7a6cc1fe2174c8c4d13fdf5a1df1&creativeASIN=B08FXVPQRC


Now, back to the Title of this Thread.
Drumroll

The study was bullshit.
WHAAAAAAAAAAAT?!?! NO WAY JOSE!

It was redacted later, they made a "coding error"

Study that found husbands prone to leave sick wives was flawed, researchers say

A coding error created a false conclusion in a study that found men may be more likely to bail on a marriage if the wife becomes sick, compared to if she's well. Researchers retracted the study.

www.deseret.com

So:
1. The researchers themselves did not detect the error, someone else did.
2. Intentional skewing of data, probably @WorthlessSlavicShit

That's it for now, have a good day everyone.

Actually its women that leave men because its an ick now that hes in hospital

 

[GeckoBus]

Actually its women that leave men because its an ick now that hes in hospital

that is also my experience from 13 years of being online and looking into this.
I have never heard of a husband dumping his gf or wife.
Men simply dont have the options to make such a movie, as they cant easily get another gf or wife.
From a mans perspective, dumping your gf is retarded.

All I ever hear about is women initiating divorce and shit. Not men.

 

[Lonelyus]

that is also my experience from 13 years of being online and looking into this.
I have never heard of a husband dumping his gf or wife.
Men simply dont have the options to make such a movie, as they cant easily get another gf or wife.
From a mans perspective, dumping your gf is retarded.

All I ever hear about is women initiating divorce and shit. Not men.

If you truly love her you wont leave, Same goes for woman

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

Yeah, in a minute I found five threads on r/MensRights pointing out that this was debunked. It's like with the "wage-gap." Debunked to death and back, but feminists still happily and unironically repeat it because it's one of the few things they have that proves their delusions of oppression.

 

[GeckoBus]

Yeah, in a minute I found five threads on r/MensRights pointing out that this was debunked. It's like with the "wage-gap." Debunked to death and back, but feminists still happily and unironically repeat it because it's one of the few things they have that proves their delusions of oppression.

yes, I also found the article about it being redacted on r/MensRights. Could not find anything on google.
Women project so much, its amazing. Everything is upside down. Everything they accuse off turns out to be the opposite and its empirically verifiable.

 

[The Darkcel]

Lol, typical foid delusions. Pretty sure women leave their bf's / husbands as soon as they lose their job, get sick or even just go bald. Foids are the most untrustworthy disloyal squids.

 

[The Darkcel]

Yeah, in a minute I found five threads on r/MensRights pointing out that this was debunked. It's like with the "wage-gap." Debunked to death and back, but feminists still happily and unironically repeat it because it's one of the few things they have that proves their delusions of oppression.

The sad part is, these delusions are mainstream and what are taught in schools across the globe. Nobody wants to know the truth, because it would go against their brainwashed narrative. Feminism is literal cancer of the world.

 

[CantEscapeYourFate]

Just proves the point that every negative thing that females say about men is projection of their own bad attributes.

 

[Riinku]

Female projection

Always has been

 

[Epedaphic]

Good post. Thanks for the presentation and analysis of this.

 

[kay']

That's it for now, have a good day everyone.

 

[kay']

Cant disrespec the greckobuss with a dnr

 

[GeckoBus]

Good post. Thanks for the presentation and analysis of this.

 

[GeckoBus]

Cant disrespec the greckobuss with a dnr

 

[cvh1991]

Was watching foids cancer vlog when my Orgasm was spoiled by this comment:

View attachment 951960



From experience, this is the polar opposite of reality.
Further down, foids were pointing to studies claiming men are more likely to divorce when their wife gets cancer.
I looked it up and there is a study on it:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4857885/

Because I am aware of anti-male bias in academia (thread), I immediately tried to find someone examining the study critically.
The google front page was full of articles and reddit threads repeating this horse shit.

Especially this reddit thread reads like something outta bizarro world:

Spoiler: thread

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/16tna55/men_are_six_times_more_likely_to_leave_their/

If this is how women see reality, then I don't know anymore. Some of this shit is clearly larp.

Quotes from that thread:


Straight outta RomCom or something. No human talks like this,complete larp.
These cunts are raised on Soaps and this is how they see reality.


We know that this can't be true because a man, especially a middle aged betabuxxer, simply can't get a 25 year younger wife. Men don't have this option. Again, these are soap opera plots.

Another Thing I will throw into the mix before linking the big Whammy:

"Dying for Sex."
This is a podcast I discovered a while back. This 40 year old roastie got diagnosed with deadly cancer.
She divorced, went on a fuck spree and documented it in a series of podcasts.
I have listened to some of them, they are for free.

Highlights:
1. Bitch went on tinder after "elaborately engineering her profile with a friend." She didn't like the people she met (couple, bitch went for threesome right away).
Then she went on tinder again, 10 minutes later, matched, and fucked a dude on the toilet. No comment.

2. Another time she ended up fucking this dude who worked in a garage that services cars for celebrities. She said she got fucked in the backseat of one of the cars.
Reminder, she was a 40 year old dried up roastie with cancer.

Her on the right, left is the foid she made podcast with:

Here is the podcast. You can find it for full online:

Google Podcasts is niet meer beschikbaar

podcasts.google.com

Just scroll down, its six episodes, its all the ones with "Molly" (her).

There is also a book:
Amazon product ASIN B08FXVPQRCView: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08FXVPQRC/ref=as_sl_pc_qf_sp_asin_til?tag=dfsbook-20&linkCode=w00&linkId=9c0b7a6cc1fe2174c8c4d13fdf5a1df1&creativeASIN=B08FXVPQRC


Now, back to the Title of this Thread.
Drumroll

The study was bullshit.
WHAAAAAAAAAAAT?!?! NO WAY JOSE!

It was redacted later, they made a "coding error"

Study that found husbands prone to leave sick wives was flawed, researchers say

A coding error created a false conclusion in a study that found men may be more likely to bail on a marriage if the wife becomes sick, compared to if she's well. Researchers retracted the study.

www.deseret.com

So:
1. The researchers themselves did not detect the error, someone else did.
2. Intentional skewing of data, probably @WorthlessSlavicShit

That's it for now, have a good day everyone.

Good find good work mate

 

[SmhChan]

Just proves the point that every negative thing that females say about men is projection of their own bad attributes.

More like ego. They are too sociopathic to care about their wrongdoings. They have no qualms about justifying murders. It's just that they can't stand men, who they treat like second-class citizen, having a moral upper hand.

 

[SmhChan]

yes, I also found the article about it being redacted on r/MensRights. Could not find anything on google.
Women project so much, its amazing. Everything is upside down. Everything they accuse off turns out to be the opposite and its empirically verifiable.

Repeat until it becomes the 'established' truth, just like foids sexualizing good but men doing the same bad. It's worse than dystopia.

 

[Chudpreet]

Excellent post as usual

 

[PresidentCel]

Women initiate nearly all breakups and divorces (often for completely frivolous reasons), but we’re supposed to believe they are the ones that will stay when a partner gets sick and that it’s men who leave? That doesn’t even make any sense. Lesbian relationships have the highest divorce rate of any relationship type. That makes it pretty obvious that it’s usually women who are responsible for relationships falling apart. Most men don’t have many dating options. They’re going to stay and try to make things work in nearly all cases.

 

[darkdungeon]

Should be a must read

 

[GeckoBus]

Good find good work mate

Excellent post as usual

thx brocels!

 

[GeckoBus]

Women initiate nearly all breakups and divorces (often for completely frivolous reasons), but we’re supposed to believe they are the ones that will stay when a partner gets sick and that it’s men who leave? That doesn’t even make any sense. Lesbian relationships have the highest divorce rate of any relationship type. That makes it pretty obvious that it’s usually women who are responsible for relationships falling apart. Most men don’t have many dating options. They’re going to stay and try to make things work in nearly all cases.

Yes! Exactly my thoughts, which was why I immediately question it!

 

[GeckoBus]

Repeat until it becomes the 'established' truth, just like foids sexualizing good but men doing the same bad. It's worse than dystopia.

When I tried to find info debunking the claims made by these feminists, all google gave me was repeats of "men are six times more likely to abandon women when they get cancer." They have total media control.

 

[cvh1991]

Women initiate nearly all breakups and divorces (often for completely frivolous reasons), but we’re supposed to believe they are the ones that will stay when a partner gets sick and that it’s men who leave? That doesn’t even make any sense. Lesbian relationships have the highest divorce rate of any relationship type. That makes it pretty obvious that it’s usually women who are responsible for relationships falling apart. Most men don’t have many dating options. They’re going to stay and try to make things work in nearly all cases.

Perfectly said fren, nail head hit dead on

It’s incredible how studies and surveys are poisoned with “the end in mind” before they’re even begun.

There are exceptions to this, sure, in the sense that some women make for good workers, but net/taken as a whole honestly it was a big mistake to start letting women fulfill jobs in society as scientists, especially social scientists where outcomes can be more hazy. Most lack the desire or willingness to let go of their preconceived notions and “””idealism”””/beliefs on how things “should” be in their perfect world and that bias tends to bleed hard into whatever “science” they put their hand to. I’ve seen it again and again even where I work IRL.

The fact of it is that women will never put the interests of men above their own whereas men do put the interests of women above our own en masse and that matter a lot when you think about letting women steer the decision making ship of society.

Honestly just the core fact alone that women who pursue higher education and careers have dramatically fewer to no children should’ve been reason enough to keep the nuclear family structure. This experiment where everyone is expected to believe men and women share the same psychology and are just as well suited as each other to every kind of task is asinine. It’s just plain retarded and always was.

Side note online dating / speed dating / dating apps should be fucking banned and social media giants should be forced by the government to platform speech they don’t like or disagree with. But that’s another topic for another day.

 

[cvh1991]

Women project so much, its amazing. Everything is upside down. Everything they accuse off turns out to be the opposite and its empirically verifiable.

Well put mate. It doesn’t help that outlets like Google actively hide and warp search results to make push their own globohomo world view and a lot of wrong info like this is easy to find as a result whole counter arguments are difficult to find. Lately I’ve been finding Yandex is the only accurate search engine for controversial things left ironically enough.

 

[Made in Heaven]

Pure kekfuel.

Women initiate nearly all breakups and divorces (often for completely frivolous reasons), but we’re supposed to believe they are the ones that will stay when a partner gets sick and that it’s men who leave? That doesn’t even make any sense. Lesbian relationships have the highest divorce rate of any relationship type. That makes it pretty obvious that it’s usually women who are responsible for relationships falling apart. Most men don’t have many dating options. They’re going to stay and try to make things work in nearly all cases.

There's a damn good reason why in islam men can divorce whenever they want, but a woman must seek permission from a sheik first. It's because when a man breaks up a relationship, he usually does it for rational reasons. Women on the other hand do it because they have fickle hearts

 

[Raraloser]

If the woman is sick in relationship she is weaker and relies on the man more = no problem both are happy
If the man is sick in relationship he is weaker and may need to rely on the woman more = disgusting and grounds for the woman to cheat

 

[PatheticOldCel]

The Internet was the worse thing to happen to humanity, i feel the next centuries will be just disinformation wars on the Internet, dividing and atomizing groups. Everyone gets to have their eco chamber. This is just another sick example of mentally ill people that should not even have a reddit account, just think how many impressionable young kids can start believe this shit and grow jaded, these dykes even if few can have a pernacious effect on society, i can only hope no one falls for this stupid shit.

Not even this website is immune to that, people will keep being atomized, falling in extremes, while moderate people commit the sin of not being vocal and....being moderate.Before Reagan era these people would be locked up in mental asylums.

 

[SmhChan]

in the sense that some women make for good workers

Foids' behaviour in workplace is fucking horrible. They usually are on their power-trip while dealing with people. A good behaviour is essential to a working environment. So much for socialising. Yet, they are still lauded as better workers. Why? Because people like the company of foids, from kids to old people, everyone. The repairs guys are far better to interact with. Tbh, interacting with male workers is a better experience in general. Better at socialising, my ass. Their socialising is always text-book. They are fucking miserable at small-talks. After all, they are foids. Even as workers, they think that customers should cater to them, not the other way around.

 

[PatheticOldCel]

Foids' behaviour in workplace is fucking horrible. They usually are on their power-trip while dealing with people. A good behaviour is essential to a working environment. So much for socialising. Yet, they are still lauded as better workers. Why? Because people like the company of foids, from kids to old people, everyone. The repairs guys are far better to interact with. Tbh, interacting with male workers is a better experience in general. Better at socialising, my ass. Their socialising is always text-book. They are fucking miserable at small-talks. After all, they are foids. Even as workers, they think that customers should cater to them, not the other way around.

From my observations lately in many companies, there is this trend that they prefer to just hire woman lately, hiring men means they will hit on every woman and be frustrated they cant get anything, so some bosses are outright refusing hiring men.

 

[BrootalPill]

Foids' behaviour in workplace is fucking horrible. They usually are on their power-trip while dealing with people. A good behaviour is essential to a working environment. So much for socialising. Yet, they are still lauded as better workers. Why? Because people like the company of foids, from kids to old people, everyone. The repairs guys are far better to interact with. Tbh, interacting with male workers is a better experience in general. Better at socialising, my ass. Their socialising is always text-book. They are fucking miserable at small-talks. After all, they are foids. Even as workers, they think that customers should cater to them, not the other way around.

I work at an environment where it's mixed with foids and men, and i can 100% agree with you! One time a group of foids pissed me off and i told them that they are all crazy, luckily they didn't call HR

 

[RegularManlet]

Was watching foids cancer vlog when my Orgasm was spoiled by this comment:

Not sure if real or not

Straight outta RomCom or something. No human talks like this,complete larp.

Yeah that sentence is really weird, he came to her crying, a minute pause of silence and then he springs that randomly?

We know that this can't be true because a man, especially a middle aged betabuxxer, simply can't get a 25 year younger wife. Men don't have this option. Again, these are soap opera plots.

This second anecdote is just that an anecdote, he probably had an opportunity to leave his old roastie wife for a young healthy woman, it just proves that we like younger foids not that we leave due to some sort of "ick" like cancer, if he left his roastie for another roastie then I would view this idfferently

Actually its women that leave men because its an ick now that hes in hospital

Yeah its unironically an ick to them since you are weak and not strong

Cant disrespec the greckobuss with a dnr

The best compliment in the observable universe

i feel the next centuries will be just disinformation wars on the Internet

Yeah, there is already a fair amount of disinformation on and offline.
Ultimately though I think it comes down to common sense/intelligence.
My first thoughts a few seconds into reading this were "oh well this can't be true, foids initiate more divorces than men for centuries, they find being sick unattractive and they have way more options than men, foids also deal with being widowed better where as men are more attached to a dying/dead partner" And I deduced fairly quickly that this would not be true.

However I find life is filled with sort of mental taxes, even deciding what to wear can impact your brain function so disinformation can be annoying because of this reason.

 

[SmhChan]

From my observations lately in many companies, there is this trend that they prefer to just hire woman lately, hiring men means they will hit on every woman and be frustrated they cant get anything, so some bosses are outright refusing hiring men.

But they aren't men only huh? Predictable. If society can make excuses for foids' baby-killing, they can shit out any excuse on foids' behalves. That excuse is so laughable that it can only apply to this clown world. Anyway, like I already said, people like the company of foids. So, they are willing to put up with all their horrible shits.

 

[PatheticOldCel]

But they aren't men only huh? Predictable. If society can make excuses for foids' baby-killing, they can shit out any excuse on foids' behalves. That excuse is so laughable that it can only apply to this clown world. Anyway, like I already said, people like the company of foids. So, they are willing to put up with all their horrible shits.

True, but these bosses hiring are men, and they enjoy having their illusion of an harem. Either if they bang their employees or not, it gives them a power trip.

You cant just blame foids for this. Theres something fundamentally wrong with humanity.

 

[Lonelyus]

Not sure if real or not

Yeah that sentence is really weird, he came to her crying, a minute pause of silence and then he springs that randomly?

This second anecdote is just that an anecdote, he probably had an opportunity to leave his old roastie wife for a young healthy woman, it just proves that we like younger foids not that we leave due to some sort of "ick" like cancer, if he left his roastie for another roastie then I would view this idfferently

Yeah its unironically an ick to them since you are weak and not strong

The best compliment in the observable universe

Yeah, there is already a fair amount of disinformation on and offline.
Ultimately though I think it comes down to common sense/intelligence.
My first thoughts a few seconds into reading this were "oh well this can't be true, foids initiate more divorces than men for centuries, they find being sick unattractive and they have way more options than men, foids also deal with being widowed better where as men are more attached to a dying/dead partner" And I deduced fairly quickly that this would not be true.

However I find life is filled with sort of mental taxes, even deciding what to wear can impact your brain function so disinformation can be annoying because of this reason.

Dudes fucking hurt what you expect

 

[telamon]

I know its the elephant in the room but given she was going to die anyway she whored around due to there being 0 consequences.

 

[3000showers]

Once they get truly sick they will always play the needy victim even if they heal

 

[Regenerator]

Just proves the point that every negative thing that females say about men is projection of their own bad attributes.

 

[Regenerator]

Men don't have the option to just dumb their wife and get some other woman. Feminists literally make shit up to push false female victimhood.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Based debunking foid lies.

 

[cvh1991]

From my observations lately in many companies, there is this trend that they prefer to just hire woman

Your observation is correct. Corporations are discriminating based on race and sex a ton these days and it should obviously be illegal to do what they’re doing

 

[BPJ]

I hate foids with every fibre of my being.

 

[Awake]

I hate foids with every fibre of my being.

same brocel death to all foids!!!

 

[LeatherJacket]

This is literally "This is impossible because I said so." lol!!!

Edit: Now I admit I do believe the study has a bias towards men, but I would say there may be something there with people leaving their spouse when they have cancer. Regardless if they're a man or woman.

 

[GeckoBus]

This is literally "This is impossible because I said so." lol!!!

Study that found husbands prone to leave sick wives was flawed, researchers say

A coding error created a false conclusion in a study that found men may be more likely to bail on a marriage if the wife becomes sick, compared to if she's well. Researchers retracted the study.

www.deseret.com

 

[FakeFakecel]

100 bucks says it was an intentional "error".

 

[GeckoBus]

109 bucks says it was an intentional "error".

if you read the article about how it was redacted, the researches themselves did not find the error.
An external team investigated the study and tried to replicate it but could not, because of a "coding error."
After that the study was pulled.
My bet is intentional error.

 

[FakeFakecel]

if you read the article about how it was redacted, the researches themselves did not find the error.
An external team investigated the study and tried to replicate it but could not, because of a "coding error."
After that the study was pulled.
My bet is intentional error.

What a fucking clown world

 

[OsamaOmanko]

Are there any studies about how many women leave their war mutilated husbands? Not even talking about cheating while he's out.