Can also be seen with sexual preferences. Some Asian foids only want white guys - and in the articles about that topic people speak about the problematic Asian Fetish of white people - the truth is exactly the opposite. Some mayowhores only want black guys and talk about BBC all day long - and those black guys get verbally attacked by the right-wing while the left-wing attacks the cuckold for having a racist/problematic fetish that dehumanizes black people and sees them as sex toys. The men are blamed for the behavior of the women.
When a male wants big boobs, it's partialism and a problematic paraphilia that causes body issues for wummyn. When a male prefers small boobs he is probably a sick pedophile. When women literally wish death upon short guys it's just a preference. A woman has a preference, a male has a fetish/paraphilia - completely different connotations of these words.
Furthermore, women always like to project their own feelings onto men: That's why you see incels being called volcels for rating the looks of women; women would never date a man that doesn't fulfill her requirements and think that men do the same. Men have a preference (they prefer something, but have no problems for settling for an alternative that doesn't fulfill some of their desires), women have requirements: A woman doesn't prefer tall guys she demands/requires them.
