Meeting new people is not easy

[Dr. Autismo]

And I'm tired of normies and boomers saying that it is.

In my irl experience, being nice, polite or friendly doesn't really get people invested in you, or to like you.
If anything, it can make them think your weak and dislike you.
They have to naturally gravitate towards you.

Looks and height both play a part and all, but I feel like it's overall pull, you know?
Like you need to be some kinda people magnet, there needs to be a certain something about you.

I've personally used to know people who had that something and that pull, and their able to somehow be everybody's best pal and get foids.
Of course, these guys were major moggers too, and no, most of them didn't have "good" personalities.

I don't meet new people because there's nowhere for me to go to, and any social clubs are full of religious idiots, boomers or autists.
3 groups of people I don't really mingle with.

I also have some ass burgers, a bit of past trauma and trust issues sprinkled on top for good measure.

I've also gotten tired of the amount of shitty friends I've had over the years and I'm pretty much done with that.
Id rather have a gf than friends, but foids think I'm an ugly, psychopathic loner vampire freak and avoid me like a bad omen.

Life's pretty repetitive for me rn.
All I do with my day is bedrot, scroll on my phone, shoplift food until payday and that's pretty much it.
I got bored of nature walks, and being with nature is a better experience when you have people to experience it with.

 

[GrAYnigger]

It's just face, your voice and height. Physiognomy is key determining factor as to why these individuals have any form of success gaining friends easily. Your face rating doesn't have to be chad but it has to be high trust and your voice should not be very deep or high pitch but extremely normish that it appeals to everyone. And of course you can't really judge your own behavior that well because you will definitely be biased and think you are doing everything right. If you don't have the verbal IQ, soyish voice or a good face (doesn't have to be chad) it's over.

Of course irl the ones i knew who were most successful socially just had a chad face. Insane right?

 

[Pancakecel]

Your choices are either to be attractive, or behave like the most zogbot npc nice goy, in an attempt to be accepted. If you're sub5 of course, then it doesn't matter what you do, people take one look at you and assume negative things.

 

[autisticsoy]

It is through my fivesh years in community college I never was able to make friends, people generally ignore me unless its to work on teams and such. I only think one guy may attempted to be friends with me but me being the autistic didnt know what to do. Girls were worse tbh they will try to avoid me if they can, and the only time they sit near me is if they were late to class and were unable to find a seat themselves. Im going back to class soon and im dreading this shit so much.