Serious Marriage and long LTR's take away the "sexy" part about sex

[WhyMe?]

Anyone else feel the same way?

I don't get hard thinking about fucking a girl in the confines of a marriage. When I think of marriage, I think of like a business arrangement more than anything lol

 

[incel-american]

It's hard to be sexually dirty with the same person you're going to have to eat breakfast with for the next forty years.

 

[Deleted member 60]

JFL at marriage

 

[WhyMe?]

It's hard to be sexually dirty with the same person you're going to have to eat breakfast with for the next forty years.

Lol exactly

 

[Deleted member 4999]

Agreed

 

[Gokugetem]

Anyone else feel the same way?

I don't get hard thinking about fucking a girl in the confines of a marriage. When I think of marriage, I think of like a business arrangement more than anything lol

Nope. I would rather be with someone I trust than have a different whore every night. And while everyone loses attractiveness as they get older, you should still have the memories of when they were young and in their prime to keep you going, to say nothing of the life you build and the children you raise together.

A faithful marriage that produces good children is the most beautiful thing in the world.

 

[everythingislava]

Nope. I would rather be with someone I trust than have a different whore every night. And while everyone loses attractiveness as they get older, you should still have the memories of when they were young and in their prime to keep you going, to say nothing of the life you build and the children you raise together.

A faithful marriage that produces good children is the most beautiful thing in the world.

I don't care for the marriage part, however I agree with the general sentiment no matter how unrealistic achieving that seems.

 

[Gokugetem]

I don't care for the marriage part, however I agree with the general sentiment no matter how unrealistic achieving that seems.

Well at the end of the day marriage is just a piece of paper, it's the commitment I care about. But tbh I would insist on marriage before sex if I was a woman, even with the ridiculous government safety net I would want the man to be fucked financially if he tried to leave before my children reached adulthood. Just like a woman should get nothing if she decides to leave her husband for one more spin on the carousel.

Which is the way it should be. Children need father's just as badly as mother's.

It's just a shame no fault divorce ruined everything and turned marriage into a joke.

 

[A10n3]

I don't feel the same. In fact, I think it would be even more passionating to develop our intimacy as we get to know each others further and that it would be even more enjoyable as we would have learned to know how to please each others.
A long term relationship of love, confidence, mutual trust and support would be the most meaningful thing to me.

 

[Inbuddhist]

High IQ.

It's obvious from the fact that women often marry at their lookslevel or even under, but almost always date above their looks level. Marriage involves pragmatism, calculation, and since chad can't marry more than more foid, sacrifices, not very sexy.

 

[Deleted member 4760]

It's hard to be sexually dirty with the same person you're going to have to eat breakfast with for the next forty years.