Unironically it actually is -
no joke.
To begin, I'd just like to say if on the altar when the bride and groom are getting married, the groom was to say:
No sane man on the face of this earth would go on any further - the wedding would end there.
A couple/dating is merely a friendship where man and woman love each other - especially sexually.
A few members here have friends. They're not attracted to them sexually, but they're friends. If you develop sexual interest in a woman, she's not going to be just your "friend".
Even within the bible, it speaks strongly against a man or woman with-holding sex from their spouse.
The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. - 1 Corinthians 7:3-4
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” - Ephesians 5:22-29
That's the problem with modern marriage especially a large amount of Christians - who are leading the divorce rate compared to other religions:
The mutual loving dynamic doesn't exist.
Foids want complete control over their own body as they think submitting to a man is patriarchial (thanks feminism) and when guys do all within their power to love their wife, It fails because the wife is being a stuck up bitch and the guy is effectively living with a child.
In response to the OP, Marital "rape" can possibly exist, but I'd be more interested in the circumstances surrounding it.
If the guy has had sex in the past 36 hours and couldn't go a few more hours because his wife was "tired" then yeah - marital rape.
If the guy has been trying for weeks/months/years to get any form of intimacy out of his wife, tried to be loving and understanding yet she's acting like a cunt like the rest of the female population: I'll
100% defend the guy and within Christian terms, he has every right to a divorce as she's effectively not fufilling her marital duties.
Tldr: Martial Rape wouldn't exist if foids weren't childish cunts and could create a strong communication with their husband.
Go on reddit r/deadbedrooms or r/Christianmarriage.
Anytime a guy complains about the wife not putting out?
YTA. SEXIST PIG. She might be: <Insert medical symptom>, HER HORMONES, SHE MAY BE SAD, HOW DO YOU TREAT HER, DO YOU SHOW HER YOU LOVE HER?
It's always the guys fault.
Anytime a woman complains about the guy not putting out?
YOU DESERVE BETTER, HE'S A SELF-CENTERED PIG. HE PROBABLY WATCHES PORN.
It's always the guys fault.
Honestly, getting married is probably the best way to ensure that end up severely mentally, financially and psychologically shafted with the only escape being suicide.