Any time someone opens a thread dedicated to trying to help incels to improve something, there are always a lot of replies of members saying how this particular improvement didn't work for them and want to make the thread about themselves and their own shortcomings which they project on all other incels. They jump straight to conclusion that this improvement doesn't work for incels at all because it didn't work for them.
You even had posts about how incels shouldn't care about eating healthy and shit like that.
Recently I opened a thread encouraging people to do boxing and gave reasons why exacly it could benefit and I immediately got a bunch of members complaining how they couldn't do this and that and how that isn't for them. Why the fuck would you even post this? If you can't do a certain thing because of your own limitations why the hell would you want to discourage others to try it unless you are a total shit of a person? People should keep that for themselves and stay out of threads dedicated to improving.
For example when I see threads encouraging people to try game and socialize I don't go in there and make it about myself how I can't do this because I'm not NT and then try to suggest that it's pointless for all incels to try. This is a shit thing to do because there are young people here who would benefit from trying different things and not everyone is some disabled autistic and deformed.
I don't like the direction in which this community is going where this forum is overrun by a bunch of NEETs with degenerate anime avatars literally wanting to force their LDAR lifestyle to young incels and try to lure them into thinking they have some common ground just because they can't get girlfriends. It makes me think that most of this forum is female worshipping where if you can't get girlfriend by the time you're 18 you should just give up on literally everything and everything else that you do is degraded as some trivial "cope". When I came here, I had an impression that this community wanted to help people who are in similar position and I think the atmosphere on the forum was a bit better then. I remember that there were more serious threads with long posts that got a lot of replies. Now it's basically slowly getting reduced to "I can't get a 16 year old virgin so everything is useless" and a bunch of members trying to "statusmaxx" by baiting IT or repeating the same phrases over and over.
Shit like "driverlincencepill" is indicator of that. Like seriously, if that is such a big problem for you then get a fucking driver's license then. It's something that is very easy to fix. But of course, after you say this someone will just come in and say "but I can't get driver's lincence because xy." Alright you can't, but like 90% of incels who are without one could if they absolutely wanted to.
Now here is the most crucial thing: there are millions of men who are single and virgins out there. Not everyone of them is beyond saving when it comes to improvement and pursuing meaningful things if life. Yet a lot of people here act like every incel is some deformed autisic disabled person who wouldn't benefit from training sports.
The blackpill tells you that you can't get women because of something very trivial like looks. That means that incels are people who simply don't possess the desired easthetics for the current society. It doesn't mean that an incel should necessarily also be weak, not gifted for sports, unconfident and other things. I'm athletic and strong and can do a lot of things well and I think many here are too or can achieve this level with hard work like I did. Because this is all that it matters, you need to put in the real work, and not for getting girlfriends but to improve as a man.
