Women try to stand out and fail.
Men try to fit in and fail.
Women are the meme if not even the borg gender. They hardly vary in personality and preferences. Hence, they pretend that they are not like all the other girls. But they are so interchangeable that even their attempts to stand out are all the same.
Men, on the other hand, vary greatly. They are all over the place. For better or worse. So for them it's harder to find others who are like them.
Also, there are obviously more and more men who generally drop out of society. No job, no friends, no hobbies. Or they just do the bare minimum. And when men don't have a partner and no romantic and sexual success, it's like a domino set ... it all falls down then. Men with girlfriends also have friends and vice versa: men who don't have girlfriends also don't have real-life friends.