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News Male loneliness: why are men finding it so hard to make friends?

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Recent research has revealed that men are much more likely than their female counterparts to be leading solitary lives, with an absence of people they consider friends.

The poll, by YouGov, found that one in five men admits to having no close friends and 32% claiming to have no one they counted as a best friend.

The figures were significantly higher than those for women, with only 12% of women saying they did not have close friends and 24% saying they lacked a best friend.

The online survey of 2,149 adults also found almost half (44%) of men said they were lonely sometimes, often or all of the time.

Further research earlier this year found that most men feel “emotionally closer” to their dogs than other human beings in their lives.
 
Everyone is a bluepilled cuck competing for foid attention
 
Low status males have 0 value to society.
We need a pandemic.
 
When you're low or even mid status you can't open up about your issues or other men will lose all respect for you and beat you down if it gives them a chance at pussy.
 
Foids I bet are more likely to make friends
 
because they've been completely abandoned

JFL at men coping by playing with their dog and calling it a preference
 
i have friends everytime we hang out i wish i just stayed home.
 
''Recent research has revealed that men are much more likely than their female counterparts to be leading solitary lives''

Really?!
 
Cause they tell us so. "Just get a dog bro. You're not entitled to women's love. Your happiness isn't determined by having a female partner or not. Meanwhile dog certainly cares about you"
 
Men don’t want struggling low status guys around because it lowers their value in the eyes of women.

Men however might keep you around as a punching bag until they get sick of you and want you to leave
 
I think it's a pride issue as well, where a struggling man is unwilling to admit that he is down and out and could use help Out of ego preservation. And it makes sense for men to be more taciturn in this regard because truly there may be no help. Other men and groups of people might well mock or belittle him even if he reaches out to them in a careful, respectful way. So can you blame them entirely for going it alone?
 
Would rather be a loner than be a jestercel for bluepilled normies.

Would rather people be afraid of me than jestercel.

That's y
 
I think this is more prevalent among the younger generation. They've got loads of 'online' friends but not many in real life and even less that they kick about with on a regular basis.
 
My """friends""" betrayed me for some foids.
And now I have many online friends on a weird forum hosted in Columbia :feelsbadman:.
 
Most men who have no friends don't look friendly at all. That's what people tell me.
 
because they've been completely abandoned

JFL at men coping by playing with their dog and calling it a preference

random thought but if men are supposed to be more alpha, rebellious and don't give a fuck in eastern europe, and those places are still feminist shitholes

then it means it's impossible for men to ever rebel in the west

which means thinks will only get worse for the west and probably everywhere, forever
 
Im friendless :feelsbadman:
 
Because virtually all male spaces have been infiltrated by women who seek attention from men, resulting in men competing against each other instead of bonding.

Men used to be able to go someplace or do something with just other men, as a relief from the constant stress and hassle that is existing around women. Nowadays you can't do that, women are everywhere. Video games, boardgames, the army, gun clubs, the scouts got sued for not letting girls in. It goes on and on.
 
Single men who are friends are shamed for being either “gay” (even if they’re not) or “loser incels”.
Society hates sub-8 men.
 
Low status males have 0 value to society.
We need a pandemic.
Sub 9/10 men are literal thrash in 2019
Because virtually all male spaces have been infiltrated by women who seek attention from men, resulting in men competing against each other instead of bonding.

Men used to be able to go someplace or do something with just other men, as a relief from the constant stress and hassle that is existing around women. Nowadays you can't do that, women are everywhere. Video games, boardgames, the army, gun clubs, the scouts got sued for not letting girls in. It goes on and on.
I don't see foids in Dota 2.
 
random thought but if men are supposed to be more alpha, rebellious and don't give a fuck in eastern europe, and those places are still feminist shitholes

then it means it's impossible for men to ever rebel in the west

which means thinks will only get worse for the west and probably everywhere, forever
there's no fucking rebellion and alphatude in any place that has an airport or a seaport, lol... rebels can always be replaced by hotter, richer and more feminist men, fresh off the last boat or airplane

i'm sticking to my image of the unstoppable juggernaut headed for destruction, this shit is going down and nothing is going to stop it, because any way that could stop it has been bolted down and welded shut long ago, there's no stopping this thing, it would have been stopped by now otherwise
 
When you're low or even mid status you can't open up about your issues or other men will lose all respect for you and beat you down if it gives them a chance at pussy.

Im open about my issues, especially those that aresex, love related
 
Half of men have to be lonely to get one news article.
One woman is lonely and she becomes famous
 
doesn't do a lot of good though, does it

I feel better not hiding anything. Regarding other benefits, I think it is easier to get along with someone if he knows you better. I hate when zhere are taboo topics among people that consider themselvee "friends"'. And being honest about my situation also helps when expressing how much I hate women.
 
I feel better not hiding anything. Regarding other benefits, I think it is easier to get along with someone if he knows you better. I hate when zhere are taboo topics among people that consider themselvee "friends"'. And being honest about my situation also helps when expressing how much I hate women.
well yeah, I've done it too with the only real friend I made, it didn't help me in any way but it was at least possible to open up to him

with the rest there's just no point, normies cannot even begin to understand, it's like telling them you just killed someone
 
My former "best friend"was degenerate, wanted me to go after old ugly roasties, so not friend anymore. Need new friends for help in searching lolis
 
Because ppl are too judgmental and foids ruin everything
 
Women try to stand out and fail.
Men try to fit in and fail.

Women are the meme if not even the borg gender. They hardly vary in personality and preferences. Hence, they pretend that they are not like all the other girls. But they are so interchangeable that even their attempts to stand out are all the same.

Men, on the other hand, vary greatly. They are all over the place. For better or worse. So for them it's harder to find others who are like them.

Also, there are obviously more and more men who generally drop out of society. No job, no friends, no hobbies. Or they just do the bare minimum. And when men don't have a partner and no romantic and sexual success, it's like a domino set ... it all falls down then. Men with girlfriends also have friends and vice versa: men who don't have girlfriends also don't have real-life friends.
 
Women try to stand out and fail.
Men try to fit in and fail.

Women are the meme if not even the borg gender. They hardly vary in personality and preferences. Hence, they pretend that they are not like all the other girls. But they are so interchangeable that even their attempts to stand out are all the same.

Men, on the other hand, vary greatly. They are all over the place. For better or worse. So for them it's harder to find others who are like them.

Also, there are obviously more and more men who generally drop out of society. No job, no friends, no hobbies. Or they just do the bare minimum. And when men don't have a partner and no romantic and sexual success, it's like a domino set ... it all falls down then. Men with girlfriends also have friends and vice versa: men who don't have girlfriends also don't have real-life friends.
High IQ
 
Low status males have 0 value to society.
We need a pandemic.
back in the 20 century they got rid of all their low status males by sending them to war and die maybe we need another world war idk
 
back in the 20 century they got rid of all their low status males by sending them to war and die maybe we need another world war idk
No, we need a revolution.
 
because whenever i find some guys to do shit with, all they care about is jockeying for women's attention. that and i'm like, old now, so making friends is harder
 
I havent had friens since middle school. And even those "friends" got rid of me once they found better looking people to hang out with.
 
My one and only friend killed himself.
 
My one and only friend killed himself.
I had something similar where a friend of mine overdosed on heroin and died. He was the only one who was nice to me at high school.
 
Because most people are anti-social and currycels, sandcels and ricecels wouldn't hang out with a mayocel like me.
 
It's hard af to make friends, hell it's close to impossible if you are autistic or NEET. Most men probably have online friends, but when you are as autistic as me, even people online don't like you.
 
I don't even interact with any people enough to make friends. I wagecuck, go home, eat, sleep and go back to wage cucking. Where would I go to make friends? It's super fucking awkward going to a concert or a social gathering alone and trying wiggle your way into other people's social groups as a ugly, low status male.
 
My former "best friend"was degenerate, wanted me to go after old ugly roasties, so not friend anymore. Need new friends for help in searching lolis
Same here. But I think no one would help on your mission. They would just insult you without any reason. I wish you good luck.
 
Because virtually all male spaces have been infiltrated by women who seek attention from men, resulting in men competing against each other instead of bonding.

Men used to be able to go someplace or do something with just other men, as a relief from the constant stress and hassle that is existing around women. Nowadays you can't do that, women are everywhere. Video games, boardgames, the army, gun clubs, the scouts got sued for not letting girls in. It goes on and on.
Spot on.
 
I don't even interact with any people enough to make friends. I wagecuck, go home, eat, sleep and go back to wage cucking. Where would I go to make friends? It's super fucking awkward going to a concert or a social gathering alone and trying wiggle your way into other people's social groups as a ugly, low status male.
it's super awkward going to any place if you are alone
 
It's super fucking awkward going to a concert or a social gathering alone and trying wiggle your way into other people's social groups as a ugly, low status male.

Pretty soon it will be illegal. Cold approach of women by ugly men is already being cracked down on in multiple places irl.
 
Pretty soon it will be illegal. Cold approach of women by ugly men is already being cracked down on in multiple places irl.
Definitely, on college campuses and at work it might as well be illegal.
 
Definitely, on college campuses and at work it might as well be illegal.
At work you get fired for sexual harassment, college you get expelled over a false rape claim (making a woman uncomfortable is rape in 2019).

There has been more than one case of a public area e.g. mall clamping down on PUAs from practicing, because it scares off the female paypigs.
 
Because face is what gets pussy and most guys want friends that they mog but are not ugly so the foids don't get repelled. Subhumans have always been omega outcasts.
 
The reason this is a problem is because the society the Jews have set up is one of profound alienation and that which promotes narcissism, triteness and materialism over depth.

Even when people make "friends" in this society that usually just means someone you hang around and act stupid with and thats it.

Sure that is or can be part of the traditional friendship model but its not the whole picture.

In the past when you made a friend it was someone you could depend upon and trust like family and possibly for life at that.

In today's world most of the dumb fuck young millenials don't understand concepts such as loyalty and trust so in reality all a person you see with seemingly a billion "friends" really just has a lot of "acquaintances".

They are not real friends in the traditional meaning of the word and are essentially worthless to your long term benefit.

When times get tough for you and you need someone you can count on to be there for you and back you up modern "friends" vanish in an instant.

I was very lucky to make two friends early on in my life who are like my brothers to this day.

So I was fortunate to of been a Generation Xer, the last generation of which valued to a certain extent the traditional friendship model.

Millenial scum simply cannot be trusted to be true friends in any traditional sense.

That said I'm sure exceptions exist in vast quantities pertaining to millenials here on our glorious incel forum but I'm talking in a societal wide general sense my friends a.k.a e-buddies.
 
All women have have inherent value due to having a vagina and thus lots of beta orbiters will be "friends" with them to try to have sex with them.

Men have no such inherent value so the low value ones are cast out, ridiculed and forgotten.

Simple as that.
 

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