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Serious Male Loneliness = smoking 15 cigarettes per day (study)

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Male loneliness and social isolation are as dangerous to physical health, to smoking 15 cigarettes a day, according to U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy and other major studies. This condition increases premature death risk by 26%, surpassing risks from obesity or physical inactivity, and contributes to heart disease, stroke, and dementia.

The Harvard study showed that on average, a chronically lonely male has a with a similar mortality rate as to someone smoking 15 cigarettes per day.



1. Chronic Stress & Cortisol Overload


Loneliness activates the body’s stress response system.
  • Higher baseline cortisol
  • Elevated blood pressure
  • Increased inflammation
  • Greater cardiovascular strain

Over years, this contributes to:
  • Heart disease
  • Stroke
  • Metabolic disorders

Men are particularly vulnerable because we generally suppress emotional stress rather than process it socially like females do.



2. Cardiovascular Disease Risk


Social isolation is strongly linked to:
  • Hypertension
  • Atherosclerosis
  • Increased heart attack risk

Men already have higher baseline cardiovascular risk, so loneliness compounds it.



3. Immune System Suppression


Loneliness increases systemic inflammation while impairing immune response.


Effects include:

  • Slower wound healing
  • Higher infection rates
  • Increased cancer vulnerability
  • Greater risk of neurodegenerative disease

Chronic inflammation is one of the main biological drivers of ageing - also known as β€œinflammaging".



4. Mental Health β†’ Physical Health Pathway


Lonely men are at higher risk of:
  • Depression
  • Substance abuse
  • Suicide

Men are statistically less likely to seek psychological help and more likely to use alcohol or risk-taking behaviours as coping mechanisms.

Such as in Australia, male suicide rates are significantly higher than female rates.




5. Riskier Lifestyle Behaviours


Lonely men are more likely to:
  • Drink excessively
  • Smoke
  • Exercise less
  • Have poor diet
  • Delay medical care

A partner or close social network often acts as a health regulator:
  • Encouraging check-ups
  • Noticing symptoms
  • Reducing harmful habits

Without that buffer, health declines faster.



6. Lack of Emotional Regulation Buffer


Women tend to maintain broader emotional support networks.
Men often rely heavily on:

  • A wife/girlfriend
  • A single close friend

If that connection is lost e.g a divorce, men are statistically less likely to rebuild strong support networks, increasing long-term vulnerability.



7. Sleep Disruption


Loneliness is linked to:
  • Fragmented sleep
  • Shorter sleep duration
  • Poor sleep quality

Poor sleep ---> higher inflammation ---> metabolic dysfunction ---> heart disease risk.




Good articles/videos on the topic:




View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IgoR07IBvfY.
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I hope I die young so the pain ends
 
good finds brother. I remember seeing other sources that come to similar conclusions between loneliness and health risks, maybe those could be added as well. If I find them I might link them
 
Glad i quit that stuff, it's really useless. Only the first cigarette of the day and the one after dinner taste good. All the others are just inhaling cancer.
 
Babies die if they're not held, even if they have all the nutrients they require. We're not as sensitive as babies, but loneliness is killing us very slowly. It just isn't lethal enough to outright kill us.
 
Literally life's on Ultra-nightmare mode for us. Getting that notification from being tagged might have extended my life by a day or two though.
 
Good finds. I can genuinely feel my body perishing. Over ten years ago, well before the term brainrot was a thing, I remember feeling like my brain was falling apart/melting/crumbling. I was LDARing back then and playing games everyday without socialising at all. I think part of that was being blue-pilled. Now my mind feels just like it's dehydrated and exhausted, not like it's imploding.
 
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Time to start smoking 15 cigs a day so I can say I technically smoke 30
 
I never smoked cigarettes, what for?
 
I don't smoke but i chew a bunch of orbit gum i can sometimes chew up to 3 packs a day
 
This reminds me, I need to get on the "advice for incels" thread I've been planning on making (which will also most likely combine the "predictions for the future" thread I've also been thinking about making).

I'll make sure to cite your thread and reply to these points in greater detail and list some things that can mitigate these effects.
 
Our brains have been biologically built for socialization you take that away and it will cause problems more than just depression as this study shows.
 
This reminds me, I need to get on the "advice for incels" thread I've been planning on making (which will also most likely combine the "predictions for the future" thread I've also been thinking about making).
That's great, looking forward to reading them.

I'll make sure to cite your thread and reply to these points in greater detail and list some things that can mitigate these effects.
Thanks.
And yes, this is only surface level
 
That's great, looking forward to reading them.


Thanks.
And yes, this is only surface level
I would love a very elaborate type thread about this. perhaps I will write some stuff up about it as well. Honestly great stuff man. I am severely depressed lately so need to keep my mind of suicidal thoughts
 
WatER - but normscum and foids are denying our humanity and think our isolation will "heal" us
 
Worse if someone is obese and is smoking 20 cigs and is alone (like me)
 
I never smoked cigarettes, what for?
Same. I'm extremely addicted to daydream, I suppose that's my cope

I was also addicted to porn, fapped around 6 times a day. Now with Minoxidil I can only do it once or two
 
Same. I'm extremely addicted to daydream, I suppose that's my cope

I was also addicted to porn, fapped around 6 times a day. Now with Minoxidil I can only do it once or two
I'm not addicted to porn itself I'm just addicted to masturbating, there's nothing better to do and it feels nice so why not?
I did nofap before it didnt change anything
 
great i smoke a pack a day this makes it 35, do i smoke 5 more each day and get it to a round 40 or cut down 5 to get it down to 30
 
Thanks for this really good post.

I can relate to all of these, but I dont drink or do drugs. I don't exercise though. Too sad. I don't even have the mental capacity or energy to write something original or useful here. I am very depressed, mainly because of how I'm always treated, and because I will never have a gf. People always make fun of me.
 
Well that sucks. I hate how my body is punishing me for being lonely.
 
Sad part is that you don't get shit from it.
At least cigarettes feel good.
We are paying money for a debt that others are cashing in.
 
I would love a very elaborate type thread about this. perhaps I will write some stuff up about it as well. Honestly great stuff man. I am severely depressed lately so need to keep my mind of suicidal thoughts
Yea you should start making high effort threads. Dopamine hit when you post something good as well.
Keeps your mind occupied too
 
And when you complain about loneliness normies will tell you that no one is entitled to be your friend. It's killing us, society is ruining my health.
 
Good finds. I can genuinely feel my body perishing. Over ten years ago, well before the term brainrot was a thing, I remember feeling like my brain was falling apart/melting/crumbling. I was LDARing back then and playing games everyday without socialising at all. I think part of that was being blue-pilled. Now my mind feels just like it's dehydrated and exhausted, not like it's imploding.
Thank you.
I can relate, I want to socialise with people, but i've been ostracised since I was a toddler. I've tried to form friendships but i've had little to no success. So I am almost forced into being a ldarist.
Humans are naturally social beings, with 99.9% of traditional neanderthals living in groups, interacting with each other. It's no wonder we are experiencing such effects.

Time to start smoking 15 cigs a day so I can say I technically smoke 30
May as well :fuk:
 
Our brains have been biologically built for socialization you take that away and it will cause problems more than just depression as this study shows.
And society blames the loneliness on ourselves, as if we are to blame for something we could not change despite trying.

Same. I'm extremely addicted to daydream, I suppose that's my cope
Same here, comes with ADHD
fapped around 6 times a day
 
It’s killing me man
 
more like 50 a day.
i'll develop cancer and die eventually.
So? Nobody cares, not even myself.
Death is freedom.
 
Thank you.
I can relate, I want to socialise with people, but i've been ostracised since I was a toddler. I've tried to form friendships but i've had little to no success. So I am almost forced into being a ldarist.
Humans are naturally social beings, with 99.9% of traditional neanderthals living in groups, interacting with each other. It's no wonder we are experiencing such effects.


May as well :fuk:
I want to be your friend brother. Message me in dms. I talk to quite some cels rn, hope to meet some close by
 
Being around people isn't good either if you have anxiety so I am beat both ways. I am under more stress when around others.
 
I'm not addicted to porn itself I'm just addicted to masturbating
Same here
there's nothing better to do and it feels nice so why not?
I did nofap before it didnt change anything
I was on NoFap for 3 months and nothing changed at all. Your body just realeases in its sleep anyways. I can't believe I feel for the redpill propaganda
 
Thanks for this really good post.
Thank you for reading it!
I can relate to all of these, but I dont drink or do drugs. I don't exercise though. Too sad. I don't even have the mental capacity or energy to write something original or useful here. I am very depressed, mainly because of how I'm always treated, and because I will never have a gf. People always make fun of me.
I can relate to that, energy gets so sapped from daily experiences and occurrences that it's too mentally draining to do anything.

Well that sucks. I hate how my body is punishing me for being lonely.
It's terrible
 
And when you complain about loneliness normies will tell you that no one is entitled to be your friend. It's killing us, society is ruining my health.
And even worse, society says that it's our fault, like there is something we could have done to prevent this.

I want to be your friend brother. Message me in dms. I talk to quite some cels rn, hope to meet some close by
Thanks! Sent you a message :feelsYall:

I have all of these symptoms, social isolation is a big problem in our society
Same here. Yes, and the worse thing is there isn't even places where you can go to make genuine friendships.
There are sports groups you can join, but everyone already has their own friend groups there.
You can join a church group, but same again, everyone has known each other for decades and generally quite closed off.
There is nowhere.

Being around people isn't good either if you have anxiety so I am beat both ways. I am under more stress when around others.
Same to an extent
 
This is some fucking psyop from big vape to stop me from smoking and rotting alone in my NEET life. You will never take this goy's dunhills and lucky strikes
 
Idk I only smoked once and it was shit, I guess nicotine keeps you so hooked you stop caring about the taste.
 
Idk I only smoked once and it was shit, I guess nicotine keeps you so hooked you stop caring about the taste.
And now with the vapes that come with flavours and even digital settings.

What would you say is worse overall for health, smoking or vaping?
 

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