OK so this happened pretty recently but I am a member of an organization (not gonna say what the name of it is to prevent snitches but let’s just say it’s military related) where we meet up every Tuesday and it’s organized by hierarchy of course. There is this one goth looking girl who has a sister who is also part of the corp and are both from Quebec.
They both seemed pretty friendly especially the goth one, she was so friendly she gave her “best friend” a shoulder rub (he is pretty damn chubby) I thought it was weird but then she just said “i’m the type of person who is that friendly, I could give you one if you want”
Before I get to the main part I would just like to mention that this girl talks to everybody and I mean everybody, as well as the few friends that I do have. she never talks to me like at all and when I do talk to her she just says a sentence or just gives me advice.
She knew quite a lot of friends so I talked to her and said if she knew anyone who is single and she responded “I mean yes but you’re too innocent” when I told her what did she mean by this she said “they do drugs and alcohol you wouldn’t last and you look too innocent for that” I then said I didnt care she then responded “yeaaaah suuure” she then just giggled and pretended like nothing happened.
Due to an incident where my buddies grabbed my phone and looked into my Photos and Files they saw some pretty embarrassing stuff. Not photos of myself but I had some fetish art on there that I got from the sharty (bait shit) and porn sites.
my friends saw that and it basically made me a punching bag for them to “playfully” mock me, they call me a furry and a discord mod with his kittens, but according to them it’s just all fun and games and they are still friends with me lol.
And this girl would even playfully make fun of me by making “jokes” along the lines of “aww you are texting your discord kitten” and she would send me Tiktok videos of people cosplaying as cats saying “hey guys I think this is [insert my name’s] type!”
But let’s get straight to the point I recently made a Snapchat account and I decided the post a whole bunch of stuff including some memes that my only few friends like (they were edgy ofc) well this girl saw it and then she texted me completely laying it out on me calling me a racist and disrespectful, she kept nagging me and nagging me and nagging me.
I told her about some reasons why and then she called all of those things “excuses” and she literally told me “you are literally an adult now and you’re acting like a autistic little boy who has the humour of a fourth grader”
I told her that I was indeed autistic but she still didn’t care “it’s not an excuse i’m going to send this to everybody and let’s just see what they think of it” I pleaded with her not to share it but she did it anyways, she literally shared it to every single person in the corp.
I was literally crying at this point when I called her and she was still acting like a strict teacher on me even though she was the same age as me, she seemed like she was coming down but she gave me like an insane amount of talking and I then told her that she was going to humiliate me.
And humiliate me she did, now people have multiple reasons to hate me now. when I play with my only friends in video games my friends friends humiliate me because they were told by my so-called “friend” they keep making very weird and sexual jokes towards me.
I didn’t realize it and that she quite literally recorded the call or I was crying so now everyone heard me (I previously had a reputation for being very stoic) now everyone hates me. my friends still talk to me but they are all insincere and simply just want to embarrass me for “fun and games” and “it’s not that serious”
and it’s all because of this stupid foid who is supposedly friendly but is cynical and he hates me because I am like somehow different than anyone else even before all of these incidents happen she didn’t talk to me.
she has literally humiliated me and I quite literally cried while making this thread, I might text her tomorrow and try and confront her on a bunch of things to see how she reacts and I might update you guys about that!
TLDR: goth foid doesn’t notice me but notices everyone else and thinks I am “too innocent” I posted some memes then she crashes out on me and then proceeds to humiliate me to everyone by leaking me crying to her.
any similar experiences or advice that you guys have?
They both seemed pretty friendly especially the goth one, she was so friendly she gave her “best friend” a shoulder rub (he is pretty damn chubby) I thought it was weird but then she just said “i’m the type of person who is that friendly, I could give you one if you want”
Before I get to the main part I would just like to mention that this girl talks to everybody and I mean everybody, as well as the few friends that I do have. she never talks to me like at all and when I do talk to her she just says a sentence or just gives me advice.
She knew quite a lot of friends so I talked to her and said if she knew anyone who is single and she responded “I mean yes but you’re too innocent” when I told her what did she mean by this she said “they do drugs and alcohol you wouldn’t last and you look too innocent for that” I then said I didnt care she then responded “yeaaaah suuure” she then just giggled and pretended like nothing happened.
Due to an incident where my buddies grabbed my phone and looked into my Photos and Files they saw some pretty embarrassing stuff. Not photos of myself but I had some fetish art on there that I got from the sharty (bait shit) and porn sites.
my friends saw that and it basically made me a punching bag for them to “playfully” mock me, they call me a furry and a discord mod with his kittens, but according to them it’s just all fun and games and they are still friends with me lol.
And this girl would even playfully make fun of me by making “jokes” along the lines of “aww you are texting your discord kitten” and she would send me Tiktok videos of people cosplaying as cats saying “hey guys I think this is [insert my name’s] type!”
But let’s get straight to the point I recently made a Snapchat account and I decided the post a whole bunch of stuff including some memes that my only few friends like (they were edgy ofc) well this girl saw it and then she texted me completely laying it out on me calling me a racist and disrespectful, she kept nagging me and nagging me and nagging me.
I told her about some reasons why and then she called all of those things “excuses” and she literally told me “you are literally an adult now and you’re acting like a autistic little boy who has the humour of a fourth grader”
I told her that I was indeed autistic but she still didn’t care “it’s not an excuse i’m going to send this to everybody and let’s just see what they think of it” I pleaded with her not to share it but she did it anyways, she literally shared it to every single person in the corp.
I was literally crying at this point when I called her and she was still acting like a strict teacher on me even though she was the same age as me, she seemed like she was coming down but she gave me like an insane amount of talking and I then told her that she was going to humiliate me.
And humiliate me she did, now people have multiple reasons to hate me now. when I play with my only friends in video games my friends friends humiliate me because they were told by my so-called “friend” they keep making very weird and sexual jokes towards me.
I didn’t realize it and that she quite literally recorded the call or I was crying so now everyone heard me (I previously had a reputation for being very stoic) now everyone hates me. my friends still talk to me but they are all insincere and simply just want to embarrass me for “fun and games” and “it’s not that serious”
and it’s all because of this stupid foid who is supposedly friendly but is cynical and he hates me because I am like somehow different than anyone else even before all of these incidents happen she didn’t talk to me.
she has literally humiliated me and I quite literally cried while making this thread, I might text her tomorrow and try and confront her on a bunch of things to see how she reacts and I might update you guys about that!
TLDR: goth foid doesn’t notice me but notices everyone else and thinks I am “too innocent” I posted some memes then she crashes out on me and then proceeds to humiliate me to everyone by leaking me crying to her.
any similar experiences or advice that you guys have?
