Blackpill Lost hs friend group

[Ahab_]

Back in hs i got i pretty solid friend group of 4 people.
I was considered pretty smart, not the chad leader, but they always researched my approval or take before taking decisions. We were all KHHV and ltn/normie looking.
In these group there was a dude who was 5'6 till 9th grade, always tried to mock me or others viscidly because of his height insecurity and, in general, play the victim if there was the occasion.

Long story short, this dude had his growth spurt at 17 (hes low htn) and now everyone want to stay around him even tho hes still a little whiney bitch attention seeker (he also comes from a wealthy family).
Now that all others gave him the authority to stay on the top of the social hierarchy, every things he says cant be deny it and, if you dare, you'll get made fun of as It happened to one of my best friend.
I smell this was coming 4 years ago , had already started to see differeces in tratment from others, also trying to warn them to not get trated like shit Just because of the lookism aspect.
As of now, i cut all relationships with them and not planning to stay in contact.

Did It also happened to you?
Did lookism existed in your group or you were all aware of the bp and trying to not shit on each other?

 

[soft]

Bold of you to assume I had a friend group

 

[Ahab_]

Bold of you to assume I had a friend group

Brutal

 

[God's Lonely Man]

Friend groups are pointless to maintain as an incel. Everyone leaves eventually.

 

[scrully]

Never had friends, and was bullied terribly in highschool got beat up almost daily.

 

[Ahab_]

Never had friends, and was bullied terribly in highschool got beat up almost daily.

Sorry to hear that

 

[lugubriouseanastar]

Never had friends, and was bullied terribly in highschool got beat up almost daily.

 

[endoftheskies]

Back in hs i got i pretty solid friend group of 4 people.
I was considered pretty smart, not the chad leader, but they always researched my approval or take before taking decisions. We were all KHHV and ltn/normie looking.
In these group there was a dude who was 5'6 till 9th grade, always tried to mock me or others viscidly because of his height insecurity and, in general, play the victim if there was the occasion.

Long story short, this dude had his growth spurt at 17 (hes low htn) and now everyone want to stay around him even tho hes still a little whiney bitch attention seeker (he also comes from a wealthy family).
Now that all others gave him the authority to stay on the top of the social hierarchy, every things he says cant be deny it and, if you dare, you'll get made fun of as It happened to one of my best friend.
I smell this was coming 4 years ago , had already started to see differeces in tratment from others, also trying to warn them to not get trated like shit Just because of the lookism aspect.
As of now, i cut all relationships with them and not planning to stay in contact.

Did It also happened to you?
Did lookism existed in your group or you were all aware of the bp and trying to not shit on each other?

insane brutal.

 

[Vector2800]

I had two friends in high school. I stopped talking to them after they started mocking me to get a foids approval.

 

[endoftheskies]

Back in hs i got i pretty solid friend group of 4 people.
I was considered pretty smart, not the chad leader, but they always researched my approval or take before taking decisions. We were all KHHV and ltn/normie looking.
In these group there was a dude who was 5'6 till 9th grade, always tried to mock me or others viscidly because of his height insecurity and, in general, play the victim if there was the occasion.

Long story short, this dude had his growth spurt at 17 (hes low htn) and now everyone want to stay around him even tho hes still a little whiney bitch attention seeker (he also comes from a wealthy family).
Now that all others gave him the authority to stay on the top of the social hierarchy, every things he says cant be deny it and, if you dare, you'll get made fun of as It happened to one of my best friend.
I smell this was coming 4 years ago , had already started to see differeces in tratment from others, also trying to warn them to not get trated like shit Just because of the lookism aspect.
As of now, i cut all relationships with them and not planning to stay in contact.

Did It also happened to you?
Did lookism existed in your group or you were all aware of the bp and trying to not shit on each other?

people will always seek attention + vaildation lmao.

 

[Ahab_]

people will always seek attention + vaildation lmao.

Just dont be a bitch about it

 

[endoftheskies]

Just dont be a bitch about it

agreed

 

[BricABrac]

Had more of a buddy group. Tall fags for a couple of them, but loser nerdboys so their successes romantically came after HS. I transferred too, and when that happened I might as well have died.

It was just convenience. Just like now, I'll have to work to find a new group, or rather, build one. No one's gonna build it for me.

 

[Ahab_]

Had more of a buddy group. Tall fags for a couple of them, but loser nerdboys so their successes romantically came after HS. I transferred too, and when that happened I might as well have died.

It was just convenience. Just like now, I'll have to work to find a new group, or rather, build one. No one's gonna build it for me.

Any interest on building a new one?

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

Friend groups are pointless to maintain as an incel. Everyone leaves eventually.

 

[BricABrac]

Any interest on building a new one?

Yes, if weren't so much work for so little payoff.
Shit with friends is great cope. Going out to catch a movie or hang out and get drunk while playing games or someshit has been better than any of my other copes but it's not something you can just do.

You can go to the video game store and buy a game. You can buy a set of pencils to draw. A welding machine a fucking car whatever. But you can't just go to the store and buy friends that you gel with and will stick around.

 

[anglocelticcel]

Never had friends, and was bullied terribly in highschool got beat up almost daily.

 

[Ahab_]

Yes, if weren't so much work for so little payoff.
Shit with friends is great cope. Going out to catch a movie or hang out and get drunk while playing games or someshit has been better than any of my other copes but it's not something you can just do.

You can go to the video game store and buy a game. You can buy a set of pencils to draw. A welding machine a fucking car whatever. But you can't just go to the store and buy friends that you gel with and will stick around.

Making strong friendships as an adult Is truly exhausting, every little interacton became so pointless and performative as if you cant never break social rules and take your self less seriously for a moment

 

[mariomariuss]

and those friends always gets gf and ignores after

 

[Consummate]

Never had friends, and was bullied terribly in highschool got beat up almost daily.

sorry to hear that but mirin avi

 

[outerdarkness]

Back in hs i got i pretty solid friend group of 4 people.

 

[Emba]

Bold of you to assume I had a friend group