Lookism is cope

[Slavicel]

Before dwelling in deeper I want to give a shout out to all the truecels here, the guys that are truly aesthetically fucked beyond belief and couldn't get a woman if their life depended on it. With that out of the way, let's get into the gist of my post.


Nearly every time someone posts a picture here, I (and most people) always think of the same thing: I've seen uglier people get laid plenty of times.

The sad reality is that the whole lookism angle is a massive cope and that most people here (me included) are not able to accept the fact that they're simply not socially and mentally adept at attracting women. It's true that attractive people have it easier, but the whole "Chad can do whatever he wants and still get women" concept is massively exaggerated BS and a toxic mindset that doesn't lead to anything. You're getting nowhere by sitting around home all day nitpicking your facial features.

I'm friends with a 30 year old, broke, short, fat and facially average guy that pulls attractive college freshmen with ease. The guy is charming as fuck and owns his entire image. And he isn't the only example. I'm in a dorm and have lots of below average looking friends that do great with women. Even the slayers don't live up to the image of the perfect male. Some are chubby. Some are manlets. Some have crooked noses, large ears, a bad eye area, bad skin. But all of them share the same personality traits. They're neurotypical, low inhib, get along with new people quickly and know how to establish their dominance in a social setting. They're great conversationalists, genuinely funny and have large social circles. They don't stutter, squirm or look nervous when talking to women. It's all natural. And being around them has greatly helped me in becoming more socially adept. I'm observing these changes first hand, most new women I meet like me and I'm hoping that this is my ticket out of inceldom.

My advice for all the youngcels (high schoolers and college students) like myself is put yourself out there as much as possible. If people don't invite you, ask them to. Read up on how to become more sociable, observe the mannerisms of the popular, learn how to present yourself in a social setting. Get yourself tested for mental illnesses and try to get help if you suffer from one. This is the last chance you're going to get, because once you're out of college and wageslaving, it's ogre my friends.

 

[VLÖ]

"Just put yourself out there bro"
"Just be social bro"
"Just ask bro"

We've been told this thousands of times already and guess what? They don't. fucking. work. Nothing you've said is new, your bullshit advice has been tried, tested and labeled as "ineffective". Now please fuck off.

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

There are many fakecels here who could use this advice.

 

[Pasteleiro]

>once you're out of college and wageslaving, it's ogre my friends.
Well, lad.

 

[Kointo1]

"Just put yourself out there bro"
"Just be social bro"
"Just ask bro"

We've been told this a thousands times already and guess what? They don't. fucking. work. Nothing you've said is new, your bullshit advice has been tried, tested and labeled as "ineffective". Now please fuck off.

 

[GeneticFilth]

You do realize that the majority of people who post their pictures get laid or they admit that their volcels like framecel.

 

[Slavicel]

Massive coping in this thread. There's a very simple formula to follow here:

> Do you know a person that looks as bad or worse than you that is in a relationship and/or has a large social circle (you most likely do)
> If the answer is no, then you just might be a legit truecel, congrats
> If the answer is yes, then there's a variable other than sheer looks that comes into play here

Being sociable matters. Being NT matters. JFL at using Tinder experiments with 10/10 model looking guys catfishing a small percentage of sluts that may or may not be serious and using that as evidence for anything. Try getting out of the basement for a change.

 

[NegroKing]

I honestly think this is true to some extent but only applies to whites/blacks rather than ethnics.

 

[Kointo1]

Try getting out of the basement for a change.

I have, but it never works out well or produces any results.

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I honestly think this is true to some extent but only applies to whites/blacks rather than ethnics.

It applies to no ugly person. OP is a massive coper.

 

[Slavicel]

I think you're just coping, to be honest. Lookism has been proved time and time again. People can say very autistic and stupid shit and still get girls. Doesn't really anything to do with being "charming" or having "confidence". People will always associate positive traits to those that are attractive and negative traits to those that are unattractive; It's the Halo Effect. You can see this stuff happen from the experiments done on these forums and on other places as well. It has little to do with being social. (sidenote: being social can help someone that is average or above average in looks, not denying that at all but telling someone that is unattractive to "be more social" doesn't help at all)

The guys that you describe - they're probably not ugly. Just because you have 1 bad feature, it doesn't make you ugly if your other features are good. Women are continuously being propped up and validated like never before. I don't think the Chad thing is an exaggeration; It's already a reality and it's only going to get worse. Women only want attractive men. If they can't get one then they will eventually settle for a guy that they will leave for a more attractive person. Our degenerate society encourages women to cheat, lie, and to steal from men - and they are not punished for it. Women are allowed to pretty much do whatever they want to with little consequence. It's hard to see your point of view. I think this is a very bluepilled thread.

A very small percentage of men fall into the category of Chad. Very few men can act like autists and still get women. Most people are average with slightly postive and negative deviations. You'll mostly be competing with these people when it comes to women. And the reality is that being an outgoing, low inhib and appealing person is important.

Look at guys like Zyros, framecel and pretty much 90% of people that post their picture here. These guys WOULD get laid if they weren't fucking aspie turds, and you damn well know it.

 

[Ub2w]

agree that being neurotypical is important to help you to get relationships and sex, that's why we have so many good looking autists in incel forums, but to denied the importance of looks is retarded, if you are goodlooking enough you can pass as an sperg and still find girls literally trowing himselfs at you, i literally see it with my own eyes.

This advice of yours can help fakecels(aka @bushladen,@incelman,@framecel etc) they are the only guys that posted selfies here anyway, but for truecels is plastic surgery or nothing.

 

[VLÖ]

Massive coping in this thread. There's a very simple formula to follow here:

> Do you know a person that looks as bad or worse than you that is in a relationship and/or has a large social circle (you most likely do)
> If the answer is no, then you just might be a legit truecel, congrats
> If the answer is yes, then there's a variable other than sheer looks that comes into play here

Being sociable matters. Being NT matters. JFL at using Tinder experiments with 10/10 model looking guys catfishing a small percentage of sluts that may or may not be serious and using that as evidence for anything. Try getting out of the basement for a change.

You're aware of LMS, right?

Looks
Money
Status

Basically, if you're ugly the only hope you have is having tons of cash ("Just be rich bro!") or status ("Just get status bro!"). Getting those things will be very hard without the looks, and what you don't realize is childhood conditioning. A lot of those people you mention probably had great childhoods with tons of friends. JFL if you think you can make new friends in a high school without knowing anyone already, that shit happens in movies.

And you're also forgetting one thing, the women are VERY likely to cheat on them. You think a femoid would tell a tall, good looking Chad "sorry, I respect my ugly bf because he's funny and he has a lot of friends!", I think you're the retard whose coping here. You have to fight tooth and nail to keep the femoid, and you need a HUGE social circle to get buddies who would help you out in hypothetical gang fights.

All this is pointless anyway, because you can't fix autism and you can't just "become NT". Your retarded idea of "fake it till you make it" will just make you look like a try-hard faggot who people will mock. You have no power, unlike the "slayers" you're talking about, so anything you say will have far more scrutiny and you will be far more likely to be beat up for starting shit.

 

[GeneticFilth]

A very small percentage of men fall into the category of Chad. Very few men can act like autists and still get women. Most people are average with slightly postive and negative deviations. You'll mostly be competing with these people when it comes to women. And the reality is that being an outgoing, low inhib and appealing person is important.

Look at guys like Zyros, framecel and pretty much 90% of people that post their picture here. These guys WOULD get laid if they weren't fucking aspie turds, and you damn well know it.

Zyros gets laid. He has had fwbs. He only comes here because he use to be ugly, and then became attractive and because of that he finally started getting laid. Framecel rejected an ugly girl. He is not a mentalcel he is just a volcel.

 

[Slavicel]

You're aware of LMS, right?

Looks
Money
Status

Basically, if you're ugly the only hope you have is having tons of cash ("Just be rich bro!") or status ("Just get status bro!"). Getting those things will be very hard without the looks, and what you don't realize is childhood conditioning. A lot of those people you mention probably had great childhoods with tons of friends. JFL if you think you can make new friends in a high school without knowing anyone already, that shit happens in movies.

And you're also forgetting one thing, the women are VERY likely to cheat on them. You think a femoid would tell a tall, good looking Chad "sorry, I respect my ugly bf because he's funny and he has a lot of friends!", I think you're the retard whose coping here. You have to fight tooth and nail to keep the femoid, and you need a HUGE social circle to get buddies who would help you out in hypothetical gang fights.

All this is pointless anyway, because you can't fix autism and you can't just "become NT". Your retarded idea of "fake it till you make it" will just make you look like a try-hard faggot who people will mock. You have no power, unlike the "slayers" you're talking about, so anything you say will have far more scrutiny and you will be far more likely to be beat up for starting shit.

A point to consider is that I (and many people here) aren't Yanks. I've never witnessed branch swinging to the extent that it's described here. Sometimes I think you people live in a fictional world where everything is exaggerated to comical proportions, or America may be just that fucking horrifying.

And yes, faking it till you make it is a legit strategy. Just LOL at a grown man complaining that his childhood pretty much decided the rest of his life. It's all about adaptation. The more you fake it, and the more positive external validation you get, the more it becomes your natural state.

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Most of the people that post their pictures here are decent looking and they do have a chance. People don't get that ugly people usually don't post their pictures online. Your advice might help some of the fakecels that are here, but it doesn't help the rest of us. This whole post smells of bluepill BS to be honest wiht you.

Fair enough.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

Before dwelling in deeper I want to give a shout out to all the truecels here, the guys that are truly aesthetically fucked beyond belief and couldn't get a woman if their life depended on it. With that out of the way, let's get into the gist of my post.


Nearly every time someone posts a picture here, I (and most people) always think of the same thing: I've seen uglier people get laid plenty of times.

The sad reality is that the whole lookism angle is a massive cope and that most people here (me included) are not able to accept the fact that they're simply not socially and mentally adept at attracting women. It's true that attractive people have it easier, but the whole "Chad can do whatever he wants and still get women" concept is massively exaggerated BS and a toxic mindset that doesn't lead to anything. You're getting nowhere by sitting around home all day nitpicking your facial features.

I'm friends with a 30 year old, broke, short, fat and facially average guy that pulls attractive college freshmen with ease. The guy is charming as fuck and owns his entire image. And he isn't the only example. I'm in a dorm and have lots of below average looking friends that do great with women. Even the slayers don't live up to the image of the perfect male. Some are chubby. Some are manlets. Some have crooked noses, large ears, a bad eye area, bad skin. But all of them share the same personality traits. They're neurotypical, low inhib, get along with new people quickly and know how to establish their dominance in a social setting. They're great conversationalists, genuinely funny and have large social circles. They don't stutter, squirm or look nervous when talking to women. It's all natural. And being around them has greatly helped me in becoming more socially adept. I'm observing these changes first hand, most new women I meet like me and I'm hoping that this is my ticket out of inceldom.

My advice for all the youngcels (high schoolers and college students) like myself is put yourself out there as much as possible. If people don't invite you, ask them to. Read up on how to become more sociable, observe the mannerisms of the popular, learn how to present yourself in a social setting. Get yourself tested for mental illnesses and try to get help if you suffer from one. This is the last chance you're going to get, because once you're out of college and wageslaving, it's ogre my friends.

I have legitimately tried so many times and even with a good personality it doesn't work. My mother is the one to blame for my looks.

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

Chads lifestyle is exaggerated? Wtf!
How many more tinder experiments do I have to do you fuck!

Chad can get away with anythingggvgvgg

 

[VLÖ]

And yes, faking it till you make it is a legit strategy. Just LOL at a grown man complaining that his childhood pretty much decided the rest of his life. It's all about adaptation. The more you fake it, and the more positive external validation you get, the more it becomes your natural state.

No, it fucking doesn't lmao. Your childhood defines everything, once puberty starts to set it in it becomes much more difficult. I think you never had a shitty childhood so you're prancing around here like you know everything. 

And what if you get more shitty treatment? People find obnoxious fakers, well obnoxious. I've seen it myself, girls going "Ugh, that guy is so cringy, he thinks he's so cool and he says really weird shit. He seems like a creep". It's not an exaggeration, that really happened. People find you just annoying, they don't want you. 

You think you're hot shit and a social star right now, but the moment a femoid says "you know, you're not funny" your whole little delusion will just crumble. Sure you'll cope with "whatever, she's a dumb bitch, everyone else loves me!", but deep down you'll know you're UNDESIRABLE.

 

[Slavicel]

 

And what if you get more shitty treatment? People find obnoxious fakers, well obnoxious. I've seen it myself, girls going "Ugh, that guy is so cringy, he thinks he's so cool and he says really weird shit. He seems like a creep". It's not an exaggeration, that really happened. People find you just annoying, they don't want you.

It's not about getting drunk, sperging out and trying to act confident. It's a matter of self improvement.

You shouldn't just be saying whatever the fuck you want. It's about knowing what you're saying, and what reaction you're trying to get by saying it. Most social interactions can be broken down pretty simply and most people react similarly to the same things. Sitting down and observing others makes this very obvious. It's a very mechanical, tedious process and it takes time to properly grasp it but once you do it becomes your natural state and then you're golden.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

This is good advice for the mentalcels here, but they wont listen so you're only wasting you're time anyways.

 

[blackpill_incel]

Before dwelling in deeper I want to give a shout out to all the truecels here, the guys that are truly aesthetically fucked beyond belief and couldn't get a woman if their life depended on it. With that out of the way, let's get into the gist of my post.


Nearly every time someone posts a picture here, I (and most people) always think of the same thing: I've seen uglier people get laid plenty of times.

The sad reality is that the whole lookism angle is a massive cope and that most people here (me included) are not able to accept the fact that they're simply not socially and mentally adept at attracting women. It's true that attractive people have it easier, but the whole "Chad can do whatever he wants and still get women" concept is massively exaggerated BS and a toxic mindset that doesn't lead to anything. You're getting nowhere by sitting around home all day nitpicking your facial features.

I'm friends with a 30 year old, broke, short, fat and facially average guy that pulls attractive college freshmen with ease. The guy is charming as fuck and owns his entire image. And he isn't the only example. I'm in a dorm and have lots of below average looking friends that do great with women. Even the slayers don't live up to the image of the perfect male. Some are chubby. Some are manlets. Some have crooked noses, large ears, a bad eye area, bad skin. But all of them share the same personality traits. They're neurotypical, low inhib, get along with new people quickly and know how to establish their dominance in a social setting. They're great conversationalists, genuinely funny and have large social circles. They don't stutter, squirm or look nervous when talking to women. It's all natural. And being around them has greatly helped me in becoming more socially adept. I'm observing these changes first hand, most new women I meet like me and I'm hoping that this is my ticket out of inceldom.

My advice for all the youngcels (high schoolers and college students) like myself is put yourself out there as much as possible. If people don't invite you, ask them to. Read up on how to become more sociable, observe the mannerisms of the popular, learn how to present yourself in a social setting. Get yourself tested for mental illnesses and try to get help if you suffer from one. This is the last chance you're going to get, because once you're out of college and wageslaving, it's ogre my friends.

Fuck you and reported. Go look at my thread about trolling tinder sluts. You can seem boarder line schizophrenic and women will still do any thing and put up with anything to get in your pants. 

What do you think would happen when these chubby nt low test fags stand by a robust, 6'4", forward-grown hunk? The girl would literally take one look at the latter and leave the former. You can't compete with someone like that. Why would women settle for an ugly piece of shit like the guys you mentioned when they could get a guy who's NT and very good looking.

Fucking retard. Jfllllllllllllllll at asserting dominance. Wtf does that even mean. How could a short fat incel dominate a 6'4" high test Chad? It doesn't happen. When incels try shit like dominance and frame in social situations people just laugh in their face. It's like an ugly ass Chihuahua barking at a large, robust, beautiful husky. People laugh at the small ugly shit and think "wow that big dog could fuck you up; know your place little guy"

Fuck you and fuck this post

 

[A Good Friend]

this....

this is a picture of Kendall Jenner I was going to post in the Kardashian thread before it got locked

Your argument is invalid.

 

[mikepence]

being neurotypical really helps a lot, I agree. if I wasn't an autist I would be doing much better. but JFL at this PUA meme that acting alpha will make you a slayer if you're short, ugly, have a shitty frame, just physically undesirable in general. this shit gets retards obsessing over stuff like "alpha stares" while attractive chads laugh at him with a harem of femoids by his side.

 

[itsOVER]

Bluepilled normies OUT, ban ban ban!

 

[Mahlo]

Giga, nuclear fuel grade Cope. I swear, only when Chad has amassed a harem of 20 women will normalfags wake up and say "Hmmm, maybe the dating scene IS unfair"

Also
>I know a blah blah fat indian paraplegic mental retard with an upside down head and HE SLAYS WITH WOMEN BRAH

Who are these people? Everyone seems to know someone like this but not a single study can attest to the existence of this specimen. It's like PUA's version of bigfoot. We need to find and capture this cryptid and study him.

 

[anincelforlifelol]

Yawn. Heard this before. Ban.

 

[Deleted member 306]

agree that being neurotypical is important to help you to get relationships and sex, that's why we have so many good looking autists in incel forums, but to denied the importance of looks is retarded, if you are goodlooking enough you can pass as an sperg and still find girls literally trowing himselfs at you, i literally see it with my own eyes.

This advice of yours can help fakecels(aka @bushladen,@incelman,@framecel etc) they are the only guys that posted selfies here anyway, but for truecels is plastic surgery or nothing.

His advice is shit. If people don't invite you anywhere it's over for you. Being sociable is an extension of being gl.