
dirtykombatcel
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It never began
It never began
How are you thinking of self-improving?Me too, I just want to live independently with my copes and self-improve.
By going to the gym more often, and improving my social skills, and fashion too.How are you thinking of self-improving?
Fashion is copeBy going to the gym more often, and improving my social skills, and fashion too.
Maybe, my parents said I looked good at graduation today and not a single girl looked in my direction.Fashion is cope
don’t have the guts to kill myself, but am miserable with no hope so… yup that’s any I’m here.
JFL. Same. My parents said the same thing at my graduation last week. I pretended to be happy just for their sake and it was so exhaustingMaybe, my parents said I looked good at graduation today and not a single girl looked in my direction.
How old are you?Yes. I can't even remotely imagine a future where I'm happy well into my 30s or 40s. I missed out on all the key milestones your'e supposed to take in to enjoy childhood and youth before the real world starts. I was miserable even before graduating. Now that it's kicking in that this is going to be my life for the rest of whatever 50-60+ years are ahead for me (assuming I'm not murdered or rope), I keep procrastinating. I'm supposed to be searching for jobs and or applying for grad school if I can't find one. I lack motivation. I just sit on my computer screen look at a few listings, get overwhelmed and then exit out. I didn't even see myself making it this far because I seriously considered roping this year but...
JFL. Same. My parents said the same thing at my graduation last week. I pretended to be happy just for their sake and it was so exhausting
I'm 23How old are you?
I suggest you throw yourself infront of a bus and end itBeing an incel is a hard role in this world. You are on a weird path of being alone. This wasn't chosen by you ofc.
However, thinking about future (>30 years old) in both cases: alone incel or family making normie, makes me feel dizzy. I can't see myself in those roles at all. No future is good for me and I can't see myself in both scenarios.
As incel there is pain in being lonely, at least you can cope, but as a normie I would lost a part of myself. Seeing my parents boring, mudane life is something what I want to avoid at all cost. All normies eventually become NPCs.
As a adult person you have to have kids, settle somewhere eventually. Both incels and normies wageslave til being old and then, without time to rest, die. Those paths suck and I wish there was an alternstive. Except rope.
Buddhist mindset helps with coping with future, but still... This life we are given is absolute shitshow.
What are your thoughts on your future?
uh you can't just lock yourself in your house and live a life of hedonism because your ass will get fired and kicked out of the house if you can't NEET indefinitelyYou can't be whatever you want but you can do whatever you want. Everything you mentioned is imposed on you by society, other people and your own thoughts. You can say fuck you to them. You can lock yourself in a house by yourself and live a life of quiet hedonism if you want. You can go live in a poor country and slay poverty hoes. As you get older you get more bitter and set in your ways, but you also realise nothing matters but yourself, and everything in society is trivial and arbitrary. The sooner you can learn and embrace the latter, the better your odds of living a reasonable life.
no summers offMy life as a working adult isn't any different from when I was 13 except instead of school I work. The incel life doesn't change much, cope or rope
thERe is an altERnative CHOice
how?Try to achieve financial freedom and do what you are interested in
Yeah dawg idk what the fuck my futures going to be. I'm probably becoming a NEET. Maybe I will rope / go for euthanasia when I'm older.
its free hereI'm saving towards euthanasia. It costs around 10k EUR. Better be ready.
imagine having to pay to dieI'm saving towards euthanasia. It costs around 10k EUR. Better be ready.
find a job,horn your expertise ,increase salary, investhow?
Adult life isn't all that different from teenage life, adults still act like teenagers, everything is a social popularity contest, and the entire world is filled with bullies or various bigotry.
That's pretty much all it is really.Yes, I also often have these illuminating realizations that most adults are just oversized teens.
These days most foids are whores, and want to be betabuxxed in their 30's or 40's.Still, many normie foids want to have children. Sex beasts are taken by chads.
I feel ya broMy moment to start living as an adult is coming soon and im terrified
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTear/comments/nrtyia/incels_cant_handle_basic_adulting/h0jrryh/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
I’m fucking sick of shit like this. Being incel is not easy mode, it’s worse than rape. -_-
Exactly.No you don't have to have anything.
Lifes gotten better for me as ive gotten older. It seems the majority of users on here are still in their early 20s and only have gotten a taste of adulthood in which they have to work, but havent had the time for their work to start to show. As an angsty young adult, adulthood will intimidate you because you are still in the mindset of your teenage years. I found alot of the mental hell that came with growing up and school etc slowly went down over the years. You realize at one point as an adult that most people are too busy occupied with their own life and image to care about you. Given you put some effort into establishing yourself adulthood shouldnt be worse then teenage years. Especially when you are an incel.
Seen it. Not that hes wrong, but it gets exhausting living with the emotions of rage, defeat and exclusion. Ofcourse you accept your fate after some decades, besides some feelings toward it every now and then. If you didnt you would lose your mind entirely. Just lol to the cucks living in dead bedroom “marriages” while the woman they are tethered to are out fucking and sucking and dare he divorce her shes taking his hard earned assets. Its this facet of his argument he didnt mention, especially as an older single man that actually brings a positive feeling to someone like me.See this thread by BlkPillPres![]()
[Hard To Swallow Edition] You Didn't "Move Past" Your Hatred Or "Transcend" The Black Pill And Sexual Urges (Your Will Broke And/Or Libido Waned/Died)
I all too often see this argument from coping incels saying that they "moved past" their hatred and treat their lack of hate like its an achievement or something, or they speak about their lack of yearning for sex as though they've attained some new "level of existence" JFL ITS NOT A...incels.is
That's more the agepill hitting normies hard but dead bedroom marriages still aren't that common to be able to cope with "normies don't have it any better".Seen it. Not that hes wrong, but it gets exhausting living with the emotions of rage, defeat and exclusion. Ofcourse you accept your fate after some decades, besides some feelings toward it every now and then. If you didnt you would lose your mind entirely. Just lol to the cucks living in dead bedroom “marriages” while the woman they are tethered to are out fucking and sucking and dare he divorce her shes taking his hard earned assets. Its this facet of his argument he didnt mention, especially as an older single man that actually brings a positive feeling to someone like me.
Well this one of those things where there are many different perspectives to look at it. At the end of the day any single man especially older thats a failure in dating would like to ease that pain and find a suitable partner. The outlook is even cynical for me, the rage and pain doesnt come as often, its still there. Only reason im not fixated on it like I used to is because I occupy my time with work. Pretty much coping. Like with anything in life time makes you jaded to things.That's more the agepill hitting normies hard but dead bedroom marriages still aren't that common to be able to cope with "normies don't have it any better".
OP is right they are trying to delay an angry response directed at the right people most responsible for this for the longest possible time but the uprising of young men carries much less weight than it used to with the status quo having so many resources to protect itself with now.