Serious Living as an adult is absolutely horrifying

[Eightcel]

Being an incel is a hard role in this world. You are on a weird path of being alone. This wasn't chosen by you ofc.

However, thinking about future (>30 years old) in both cases: alone incel or family making normie, makes me feel dizzy. I can't see myself in those roles at all. No future is good for me and I can't see myself in both scenarios.

As incel there is pain in being lonely, at least you can cope, but as a normie I would lost a part of myself. Seeing my parents boring, mudane life is something what I want to avoid at all cost. All normies eventually become NPCs.

As a adult person you have to have kids, settle somewhere eventually. Both incels and normies wageslave til being old and then, without time to rest, die. Those paths suck and I wish there was an alternstive. Except rope.

Buddhist mindset helps with coping with future, but still... This life we are given is absolute shitshow.

What are your thoughts on your future?

 

[HenkkaH]

As a adult person you have to have kids

No you don't have to have anything.

 

[nystagmuscel]

thERe is an altERnative CHOice

 

[RandomGuy]

I have nobody, and dislike my local pastors. NEETbuxx are a big help. Funds my hobbies.

 

[Ika-Sama]

my adult life will be starting soon and things are not looking good

Me too, I just want to live independently with my copes and self-improve.

 

[Eightcel]

No you don't have to have anything.

Still, many normie foids want to have children. Sex beasts are taken by chads.

 

[AllanKing]

Try to achieve financial freedom and do what you are interested in

 

[HenkkaH]

Still, many normie foids want to have children. Sex beasts are taken by chads.

That's dealbreaker to me personally, i'd rather die alone.

 

[I want to believe]

What are your thoughts on your future?

I have no future. I feel it.

 

[Eightcel]

Try to achieve financial freedom and do what you are interested in

Based

 

[proudweeb]

I'm 31. The future is here. I live alone, have 0 friends, wageslave 45 hours a week, and spend every minute of free time on the internet.

The future is fucking trash. It's goddamn over forever.

 

[Deleted member 33826]

What are your thoughts on your future?

best case: I lose my face fat and high inhib and ascend with my oneitis

all the other scenarios: I live alone by myself forever while society rots

 

[nohapppyends]

It never began

 

[Sportbro]

What are your thoughts on your future?

I dont have any
I block all thoughts about the far future,with few exceptions
If I would focus on what future lies ahead of me I would go insane or kill myself in a week
I have already seen the writing on the wall,why would I torment myself for no reason?
Just try to cope and enjoy life by yourself,thats what you are left with.

 

[Camos95]

Being an incel is a hard role in this world. You are on a weird path of being alone. This wasn't chosen by you ofc.

However, thinking about future (>30 years old) in both cases: alone incel or family making normie, makes me feel dizzy. I can't see myself in those roles at all. No future is good for me and I can't see myself in both scenarios.

As incel there is pain in being lonely, at least you can cope, but as a normie I would lost a part of myself. Seeing my parents boring, mudane life is something what I want to avoid at all cost. All normies eventually become NPCs.

As a adult person you have to have kids, settle somewhere eventually. Both incels and normies wageslave til being old and then, without time to rest, die. Those paths suck and I wish there was an alternstive. Except rope.

Buddhist mindset helps with coping with future, but still... This life we are given is absolute shitshow.

What are your thoughts on your future?

Joining the army this or next year, tired of being stuck just want some steady income and direction. Let's hope they don't test attractiveness

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

best case: I lose my face fat and high inhib and ascend with my oneitis

all the other scenarios: I live alone by myself forever while society rots

Just try to cope and enjoy life by yourself,thats what you are left with.

Based and agreed

 

[AutisticBeast]

I don't live as an "adult" nor do I ever wish to

 

[Deleted member 34745]

Being an incel is a hard role in this world. You are on a weird path of being alone. This wasn't chosen by you ofc.

However, thinking about future (>30 years old) in both cases: alone incel or family making normie, makes me feel dizzy. I can't see myself in those roles at all. No future is good for me and I can't see myself in both scenarios.

As incel there is pain in being lonely, at least you can cope, but as a normie I would lost a part of myself. Seeing my parents boring, mudane life is something what I want to avoid at all cost. All normies eventually become NPCs.

As a adult person you have to have kids, settle somewhere eventually. Both incels and normies wageslave til being old and then, without time to rest, die. Those paths suck and I wish there was an alternstive. Except rope.

Buddhist mindset helps with coping with future, but still... This life we are given is absolute shitshow.

What are your thoughts on your future?

Marriage is not for everyone, the important thing is to feel calm with yourself, it is better to be alone than in a toxic relationship, and I believe that it is possible to be single and at the same time have a decent social life

 

[UglyAsianMale]

My life as a working adult isn't any different from when I was 13 except instead of school I work. The incel life doesn't change much, cope or rope

 

[incelredditor]

I wish it was the future so I could have a holodeck but never will Unless miracles happen.

 

[Lebensmüder]

Being an incel is a hard role in this world. You are on a weird path of being alone. This wasn't chosen by you ofc.

However, thinking about future (>30 years old) in both cases: alone incel or family making normie, makes me feel dizzy. I can't see myself in those roles at all. No future is good for me and I can't see myself in both scenarios.

As incel there is pain in being lonely, at least you can cope, but as a normie I would lost a part of myself. Seeing my parents boring, mudane life is something what I want to avoid at all cost. All normies eventually become NPCs.

As a adult person you have to have kids, settle somewhere eventually. Both incels and normies wageslave til being old and then, without time to rest, die. Those paths suck and I wish there was an alternstive. Except rope.

Buddhist mindset helps with coping with future, but still... This life we are given is absolute shitshow.

What are your thoughts on your future?

I will try to get at least my Master's degree (when it's possible from intelligence/motivation) to get some money/financial stability.

Then I plan to get a break where I focus on getting involved again in my former passions (like aquariums) and doing the stuff I want (like getting a hunting//fishing license, going into the Alps and to the Mediterranean) before coming to the conclusion whether I will wagecuck or just claim disability (due Autism/other physical issues).

My ultimate plan would then be moneymaxxing and then paying whores to fuck me (when I don't enjoy sex with them I will likely rope). I also plan on SEAmaxxing/South America Maxxing with a friend I met on the Internet who is in roughly the same situation.

 

[Deleted member 236]

You can do whatever the fuck you want with your life. Once you realise this, it isn't so bad. Never let anyone tell you you have to do anything.

 

[Deleted member 27161]

thERe is an altERnative CHOice

 

[FlyFace]

You can do whatever the fuck you want with your life. Once you realise this, it isn't so bad. Never let anyone tell you you have to do anything.

You can't be whatever you want though. Like for instance you cannot be Chad just because you want to be him. You cannot be satisfied with your existence just because you want to be satisfied. You cannot be a person with a good past if your past was filled with pain. You can't plan for the future if your past and present are nothing but ruins.

 

[InMyCellInHell]

I have no future. I feel it.

 

[Deleted member 236]

You can't be whatever you want though. Like for instance you cannot be Chad just because you want to be him. You cannot be satisfied with your existence just because you want to be satisfied. You cannot be a person with a good past if your past was filled with pain. You can't plan for the future if your past and present are nothing but ruins.

You can't be whatever you want but you can do whatever you want. Everything you mentioned is imposed on you by society, other people and your own thoughts. You can say fuck you to them. You can lock yourself in a house by yourself and live a life of quiet hedonism if you want. You can go live in a poor country and slay poverty hoes. As you get older you get more bitter and set in your ways, but you also realise nothing matters but yourself, and everything in society is trivial and arbitrary. The sooner you can learn and embrace the latter, the better your odds of living a reasonable life.

 

[HowHerring]

I will NEET as long as I can until my social parasitism will be cancelled by my government. Then I'll probably just off myself. No fucking way I'm starting "a family". Even killing yourself is better than accepting the role of spineless betabux cuck.

 

[erenyeager]

my adult life will be starting soon and things are not looking good

It's over I turn 20 in June.

 

[cvh1991]

You can't be whatever you want though. Like for instance you cannot be Chad just because you want to be him. You cannot be satisfied with your existence just because you want to be satisfied. You cannot be a person with a good past if your past was filled with pain. You can't plan for the future if your past and present are nothing but ruins.

Based tbh

I'm 31. The future is here. I live alone, have 0 friends, wageslave 45 hours a week, and spend every minute of free time on the internet.

The future is fucking trash. It's goddamn over forever.

This is me as well. Honestly I wish I wasn’t born I don’t have the guts to kill myself, but am miserable with no hope so… yup that’s any I’m here.

 

[PoodankMcGee]

You can't be whatever you want but you can do whatever you want. Everything you mentioned is imposed on you by society, other people and your own thoughts. You can say fuck you to them. You can lock yourself in a house by yourself and live a life of quiet hedonism if you want. You can go live in a poor country and slay poverty hoes. As you get older you get more bitter and set in your ways, but you also realise nothing matters but yourself, and everything in society is trivial and arbitrary. The sooner you can learn and embrace the latter, the better your odds of living a reasonable life.

Based i needed to hear that rn. Makes me want to quit my shit job.

There are a lot of hard boundaries placed on our freedom of action by society and material limitations, but yeah we tend to underestimate the arbitrary shackles we place on ourselves because of perceived obligations and duties.

One of the few upsides of inceldom is that youre not tied to family or kids or much of society beyond our material necessities

 

[Gymcelled]

I could suffer through almost every hardship in life without ever flinching if I had love and support in my life.
But being having to endure all this shit while suffering alone and being either hated or ignored your entire life? Fucking hell

 

[erenyeager]

Same

Based tbh

This is me as well. Honestly I wish I wasn’t born I don’t have the guts to kill myself, but am miserable with no hope so… yup that’s any I’m here.

I want to fucking kill myself so bad. It's not worth it fi you don't have a companion

 

[BeatsMonster23]

Adult life as an incel is fucking shit, you are expected to fulfill a lot of societal norms while foids don't have to do anything to be valuable in a society.

 

[Deleted member 23813]

Adult life as an incel is fucking shit, you are expected to fulfill a lot of societal norms while foids don't have to do anything to be valuable in a society.

I swear foids have it so goddamn easy. They just have to apply 5 pounds of makeup, don't even have to workout or stay healthy, have a shit personality, and be a complete airhead dumbass and opportunities will open up with zero effort

 

[kikecel]

fuck I agree
being an adult requires standards that an Incel just can't follow.
its not fair

 

[fheon]

You are pretty much a worker ant. I Take solace in the fact that I can choose a profession where I'm not breaking my back at 7 am and the copes have literally never been better because of video games and tv shows. The amount of Men not procreating has always been at least 20%

Imagine being an incel when industrialization began. 12 hour work days with drinking as your only cope.

There Will be a revolution in 20-40 years. Just too late for us

 

[The Cagot]

Get NEET or die tryin.

 

[Deleted member 14218]

Being an incel is a hard role in this world. You are on a weird path of being alone. This wasn't chosen by you ofc.

However, thinking about future (>30 years old) in both cases: alone incel or family making normie, makes me feel dizzy. I can't see myself in those roles at all. No future is good for me and I can't see myself in both scenarios.

As incel there is pain in being lonely, at least you can cope, but as a normie I would lost a part of myself. Seeing my parents boring, mudane life is something what I want to avoid at all cost. All normies eventually become NPCs.

As a adult person you have to have kids, settle somewhere eventually. Both incels and normies wageslave til being old and then, without time to rest, die. Those paths suck and I wish there was an alternstive. Except rope.

Buddhist mindset helps with coping with future, but still... This life we are given is absolute shitshow.

What are your thoughts on your future?

even the life of a normie is shit , they have higher smv but you always have to watch the whore to not cheat on ur ass and divorce rape you and take half ur shit. At least we incels don't have to worry about that one

 

[BodyFat10orRope]

That's why 30 seems kind of frightening. You have to make a choice by then. Incel or normie betabuxx. Which will you be?

The latter seems better if I could find a decent woman and we weren't going towards the 2030 agenda where we'll have no rights and probably no chance of employment.

At least being single I can work part time (much more bearable), I can cope and I don't lose a part of myself, as you said.

Still, many normie foids want to have children. Sex beasts are taken by chads.

Escorts? Working 20 hours I could still afford to go to escorts several times a month.

 

[HeroinNihilism]

I'm already middle aged and I am okay with that, don't really know what else to say besides if you lose interest in a cope then quickly find a new one.

 

[Cybersex is our hope]

The amount of Men not procreating has always been at least 20%

Men not procreating in the West will probably be 60% soon

Incel or normie betabuxx.

I am truecel and autistic. Not possible to chose. I will be incel and escortceller for life

Escorts? Working 20 hours I could still afford to go to escorts several times a month.

Uot man. They cost like 150 euros and i barely make 600-700 euros per month working part time

 

[Numb]

I don’t have the guts to kill myself,

 

[proudweeb]

31 here. only aspiration is to save up enough money to quit wagecucking. forget foids, I stopped making any effort to pursue them long ago. waste of time

 

[foosballcel]

Maybe the world will end soon somehow

prolly not, ill have to rot for several more decades while society slowly gets worse and worse

 

[NYCcel]

I will NEET as long as I can until my social parasitism will be cancelled by my government. Then I'll probably just off myself. No fucking way I'm starting "a family". Even killing yourself is better than accepting the role of spineless betabux cuck.

BASED

 

[nklfdnblidnfbli]

im going to unironically go mgtow in SEA and spermdonationmaxx to pass on my genes, don't want to lose my freedom by settling down with a foid

 

[Incline]

I have no future. I feel it.

 

[Kaisercel]

When you are excluded from the part of life when you should gradually explore relationships and sex without all the responsibilitis of adult life, I think it's normal to not be ready to go through what usually comes after that. Staying alone forever sucks, but having a family sucks too (I had no fun at all as a teen and youngster and now I should spend all my time wageslaving and looking after children? WTF). I'm basically in the same situation you are in. I see no viable options for a decent life and I really do not know how to fix this. For now I just try to not think about it.

 

[Tenshi]

Adult life sucks completely, people shouldn't commemorate adulthood, it's basically the beginning of the end

 

[Saigon Depression]

When you are excluded from the part of life when you should gradually explore relationships and sex without all the responsibilitis of adult life, I think it's normal to not be ready to go through what usually comes after that. Staying alone forever sucks, but having a family sucks too (I had no fun at all as a teen and youngster and now I should spend all my time wageslaving and looking after children? WTF). I'm basically in the same situation you are in. I see no viable options for a decent life and I really do not know how to fix this. For now I just try to not think about it.

Man, this is so true.