It's not a problem, because lonely men are weak and can do little or no damage. Plus, society has became, and It's still becoming, very skilled at dealing with the troubling ones: for example guns will gradually become very hard to get for anyone, I suspect even in the US (they are following China model).
Then they see and control all your online activity, which is basically all your incel life, and even your physical activity (phone). You are basically an open book to them. If they wanted they could close this site in the blink of an eye.
And now they even have the excuse of Covid, to do anything they want. So, yeah, u're fucked