GeckoBus
commanded to be joyful (now on discord: coco01228)
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TLDR
the foid goes, if we had a fight, how would you make up with me
the guy goes through a list of manipulation tactics, one of which is DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender).
I explained darvo in my psychopathy thread and how foids use it to build a cult like attachment with their victim (buxxer).
In the video, the guy describes this exactly.
By the end of the clip, the foid agrees with him, because shes is attracted to that.
Thats why foids and dark triad men attract another, birds of a feather.
Listen closely to what the guy says. He knows what he is doing. Basically, he is reading straight out of the foid-playbook.
Everything he says, women do that in literally every fucking relationship I have ever seen.
They go through a series of fake fights with the buxxer.
Fake break-ups etc... essentially trauma bonding the victim.
This is often called a "natural push-pull dynamic" by redpillers and bluepillers.
As if this behavior is anything but heinous and manipulative.
Transcript of what he said with my break down:
her: "how would you make up if we had a fight?"
him:
"First I would gaslight you into you thinkin you are the problem"
-> Reverse victim and offender, classic foid tactic.
"And then I would abuse you emotionally,
to the point where you only get satisfaction
from me and if I tell you look good or anything like that"
-> again, I mentioned this in my psychopathy thread. They cut you off from all other sources of validation until only she is left. Friends, hobbies, family.
They even make you move away to another place to do this. I have had foids openly admit this to me.
Complete dependence on the abuser.
"and then I would start treating you slightly better,
so you think I am changing..."
-> emotional ping poing, giving ambivalent signals, classic foid shit every man knows. "push-pull dynamic" is how it is usually expressed.
The ambiguity is what gets the victim trapped, similar to how the randomness in gambling is the addictive part.
The human mind can't let go of things that it can't explain to itself. This is manipulation of the highest order.
"and then it would be this off- and on,
until you are almost hooked for life,
and I'm almost like a drug on you..."
-> exactly what I have described. Fake break-ups, fake drama. She goes to her mom for a while.
The guy is left, brooding on what went wrong, hoping he can get her back.
Meanwhile she does not give a fuck. She is probably out fucking in another city.
Finally she allows him back in, he is overjoyed.
They do this for years, on and off.
"...where even when you are not around me and we break up,
you are yearning for me like nicotine..."
-> ditto. trauma bonding.
Just wanted to share that with you guys so you can see I am not just psycho-babbling this shit up.
It's out there, people talk about it and I have never seen a relationship that did not have these patterns.
Most of the time its the foid doing it to the guy,
with chaddier dudes, its the dude doing it to the foid.