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The feelings of isolation/lack of connection not only apply to me in a romantic, but also in a platonic sense and go far deeper than sex/relationships, although looks/a lack of neurotypicality is the main reason for me being/feeling so utterly isolated the issue goes far deeper (at least in my case, it is not only about sex, but also with everything, I have nobody to talk to in a real sense):
Nowadays if you want to talk about anything except your average fucking Netflix TV show or the weather you have to find a special expert for it that will mostly look down on every non-professional. The slight amateur talk about certain things (like dinosaurs, aircraft or spiders) is not possible with non-professionals and professionals often despise amateurs; nowadays all fields are so competitive, you are either the best or nothing, no room for unimportant small talk/amateurism and everything changes at such a high pace.
For example: Systematics when discussing animals; the fucking names change so often, you called that animal with a certain name your entire life? Now it has a new name or is suddenly split up into six gorillion different taxa and when you don't know every single one of them you are a filthy pleb/unworthy of consideration (a few years ago people were in that regard far more conservative, criticized all revisions/changes and were inclusive to amateurs, in retrospect better times, looking at the old literature is so funny when you consider modern day works). The same thing for CS. You are either a genius/natural talent or a retard struggling to program a for-loop/someone who doesn't even know what programming even means.
If you aren't a top percentile IQ professional and have an interest apart from Pizza, Netflix, League of Legends, house parties, Marihuana and football in the current generation you are extremely isolated based on interests/personality factors alone (both when it comes to males/female peers due to the lack of a common ground) - even if looks or neurotypicality didn't matter (which they do). The only people I generally can talk to are older people I occasionally meet while looking for certain rocks/plants/animals in nature, just imagine being born back then: Back then when relevant interest groups still existed, relevant in the sense that they contained more than five people (which are all old and will likely stop being able to perform due to death/disability in the next few years), back then as the great men whose books inspired you as a child lived and where completely ordinary people in terms of skills/intelligence/etc. could contribute to a certain topic simply due to interest, back then when there was no almost completely binary world, back then when everything was continous with room in between. Even the 2000s were better, now almost everyone left (all the websites shut down, no more books published, etc.) - it is so over.
As we always see: The room for mediocrity collapses in all aspects of life, both financially/economically (with the dying middle class and the lack of social mobility), with hypergamy where normies/"average married men" become rarer and rarer (hypergamy will make a class divide between attractive chads that will always fuck/never settle and incels) and with intellectual/platonic tasks (you are either a genius or a filthy piece of mindless cattle). Being "mediocre"/"average" is nowadays an insult, this shows us how sick our so(y)ciety has become in its chad/genius/rich worshipping ways (when we think of "average" it implies that many people fall beneath that, so just think how society thinks about them when even average is an insult, the cut-off between loser and winner becomes more and more binary, winner takes it all dynamics are getting more and more appearant).
Nowadays if you want to talk about anything except your average fucking Netflix TV show or the weather you have to find a special expert for it that will mostly look down on every non-professional. The slight amateur talk about certain things (like dinosaurs, aircraft or spiders) is not possible with non-professionals and professionals often despise amateurs; nowadays all fields are so competitive, you are either the best or nothing, no room for unimportant small talk/amateurism and everything changes at such a high pace.
For example: Systematics when discussing animals; the fucking names change so often, you called that animal with a certain name your entire life? Now it has a new name or is suddenly split up into six gorillion different taxa and when you don't know every single one of them you are a filthy pleb/unworthy of consideration (a few years ago people were in that regard far more conservative, criticized all revisions/changes and were inclusive to amateurs, in retrospect better times, looking at the old literature is so funny when you consider modern day works). The same thing for CS. You are either a genius/natural talent or a retard struggling to program a for-loop/someone who doesn't even know what programming even means.
If you aren't a top percentile IQ professional and have an interest apart from Pizza, Netflix, League of Legends, house parties, Marihuana and football in the current generation you are extremely isolated based on interests/personality factors alone (both when it comes to males/female peers due to the lack of a common ground) - even if looks or neurotypicality didn't matter (which they do). The only people I generally can talk to are older people I occasionally meet while looking for certain rocks/plants/animals in nature, just imagine being born back then: Back then when relevant interest groups still existed, relevant in the sense that they contained more than five people (which are all old and will likely stop being able to perform due to death/disability in the next few years), back then as the great men whose books inspired you as a child lived and where completely ordinary people in terms of skills/intelligence/etc. could contribute to a certain topic simply due to interest, back then when there was no almost completely binary world, back then when everything was continous with room in between. Even the 2000s were better, now almost everyone left (all the websites shut down, no more books published, etc.) - it is so over.
As we always see: The room for mediocrity collapses in all aspects of life, both financially/economically (with the dying middle class and the lack of social mobility), with hypergamy where normies/"average married men" become rarer and rarer (hypergamy will make a class divide between attractive chads that will always fuck/never settle and incels) and with intellectual/platonic tasks (you are either a genius or a filthy piece of mindless cattle). Being "mediocre"/"average" is nowadays an insult, this shows us how sick our so(y)ciety has become in its chad/genius/rich worshipping ways (when we think of "average" it implies that many people fall beneath that, so just think how society thinks about them when even average is an insult, the cut-off between loser and winner becomes more and more binary, winner takes it all dynamics are getting more and more appearant).
