Serious Kissless

[The Ratman]

I am a very oldcel(60). I am not a virgin of any sort but I have not touched a woman longer than most of you have been alive ~35 years. Life I think was not as bad for us "less desirable" men three decades ago. Same kind of thing happened via interactions with women though. High School was particularly humiliating and that feeling never goes away. Inceldom not seem to be as pervasive though. A man that was a virgin in his 20s was not ostracized like today and men did not talk about these things especially to other women. Women were not as enlightened and I think this gave the uglier of us some hope.

There seems to be a lot of posts from men that have no experience at all with women physically. I dont remember hearing of a man (normal, not hideous) being totally kissless when was young.

Do you think it is worse to have no experience at all or to have had some but never intercourse or oral sex etc? Is it better to have memory of how it feels or just be blissfully ignorant?

 

[Akkadian]

60? Damn bro if you ain't LARPing just rope already

 

[TheRealChincel]

This screams LARP.

 

[KilluminoidBR]

60 YEARS????? You are the oldest man who has posted here until today

 

[Deleted member 1042]

60? Damn bro if you ain't LARPing just rope already

He says he’s not virgin.

 

[TheRealChincel]

He says he’s not virgin.

It reads like the “is it better to have loved and lost or to have never have loved at all?” thinking exercise more than a person. If I’m mistaken, apologies in advance OP, but yeah it seems “off”.

 

[_incelinside]

Take things people say here with a grain of salt

 

[Akkadian]

He says he’s not virgin.

35 years still long tho

 

[The Ratman]

Not loved and lost but to have no frame of reference at all re women seems like trying to explain color to a blind person. Is it harder to not know what you are missing and only imagine it or is it worse to have known what it was like once and never be able to get it back again

For those that wonder, yes 60 and 35 years are accurate. I understand the disbelief but as you get older the drive slackens which helps greatly and I think your brain naturally steers away from thinking about something as bad as this can be.

 

[Fuckmyexistence]

nigga wtf did i just read

 

[IsolationHurts]

If those are the only 2 choices, I guess it's better to be "blissfully" ignorant.

Why didn't you try scorts/whores? You must had a job if you are still alive. So you had the money.

 

[Incel called Chad]

I think it's better to have had some experience.
You can't be blissfully ignorant unless you don't even know what physical contact is. You would always wonder and imagine what a kiss or a touch feels like, probably imagine it to be much more than it really is.
You also would keep more of your sanity having experienced validation, than having been a reject your whole life. Even if it was decades ago one day you will be in a retirement home and have the ability to think of that one moment long ago, your happiest memories.
Someone who has never touched will only have envie to remininsce about.

 

[The Ratman]

If those are the only 2 choices, I guess it's better to be "blissfully" ignorant.

Why didn't you try scorts/whores? You must had a job if you are still alive. So you had the money.

I never looked for sex for the sake of sex. Once I realized that I would never have a real relationship with a woman. The desire to pursue women became much more insignificant.
I won't lie, getting older makes it easier but reading many of the posts here, I can feel that same dread I did when it mattered.

 

[IsolationHurts]

I never looked for sex for the sake of sex. Once I realized that I would never have a real relationship with a woman. The desire to pursue women became much more insignificant.
I won't lie, getting older makes it easier but reading many of the posts here, I can feel that same dread I did when it mattered.

I understand. Thanks.
You are the oldest here by far. You should try to keep posting about you. I would love to read it.