I'm Not A Monster, I'm Just Ahead Of The Curve
- Feb 28, 2018
- 175d 23h 11m
I would still never get married, but listening to a lot of what this man has had to say has definitely relieved some of the "anxiety" I have felt about "losing time", its kind of altered my perspective a bit about the unfairness of the "sex market" and how much time you have "as a man"
For example, if you were worried about "not having children" should you even be all that worried?, as a man you can produce healthy children even at the age of 50, its the condition of the woman you impregnate that is the limiting factor, the health of a man's sperm doesn't decrease by much as he ages
He often brings up the fact that for many men you shouldn't even be married until you are in your late 30's or 40's (in good amount of cases 50), and that what average men should do is focus on becoming "high value" with respect to wealth so that later on in life you will be in a position of power to "exercise options"
It kind of reminds me of what Tom Leykis used to say, something along the lines of - "Your hot 20 year old is in kindergarten right now, you'll get yours focus on money" (I know fucked up lol)
Not every man is going to be lucky enough to be dating as if they have options (or dating at all) from their 20's all the way up, but men of means do have a lot of leverage later in life when women are getting off of the cock carousel and are desperately rushing to try and have kids or "settle down", there's your perfect chance to pump and dump
So long as you don't have a simp mindset, it'll be your turn to sample the platter
One thing he says is funny though - "Men don't cheat, they exercise options"
What he means by this is that once a man gets to a certain level of resources and status, women are going to have to accept the fact that he is going to have multiple young women pursuing him and she is going to have to share him. He also keeps telling all these used up women in their 30's, and all the single mothers that call in, etc, that if they want a "high value" man they are going to have to share him and they have to come to terms with that
He also says that women through all of history have never had a problem sharing a high value male (hence why a lot of women share Chad)
His doctrine definitely falls in line with my perspective on wealthmaxxing
Money is power, and when you have more money, you have more options, sex becomes something that you purchase rather than something that you pursue or chase after, because you are coming from a position of higher leverage in which that market is even open to you in such a manner
A lot of the things he says are very black pilled and he doesn't sugar coat anything for the women at all, I'll definitely be checking out more of his content
For those of us who focus on financial freedom biology is pretty much on our side:
I think a lot of us are just going to have change our strategy a bit, and accept the fact that were going to have to deal with women on "bargaining terms" rather than in the realm of "romanticism"
We all like to use terms like "dating market" and speak about things in a very pragmatic way, but it seems like we didn't really internalize these things and we were taking the literal nature of what were talking about for granted
THIS REALLY IS A SEXUAL MARKET, and we need to start seeing ourselves as buyers on the market, as market participants. I know this is very "cold", "mechanical" and disheartening way to look at "relationships" to many of you reading this, but IDK, to me this is rather comforting, it just keeps things simple and honest
I like that he speaks about dating, marriage, etc in a very cold and straightforward manner
I think I'm starting to realize that there are a lot more options available to me that I didn't even know existed, you just have to be in certain environments and be of a certain socioeconomic class
I'd still prefer to just escortcel, but if I was willing to pursue the route and bother socializing, I could probably "date" and pump and dump desperate women lol
Some of us are just going to have to work towards an amazing life. Were not going to be able to just start off with one like Chad, or jump into a mediocre one like a normie