Venting just to be clear 90 kg at 5'9 is overweight right?

[Hunter]

Seriously relatable. My mom and dad were both fat and my mom did the same as urs. I was 90kg at 5'10. I wanted to lose weight and my mom told me there was nothing wrong and I was developing anorexia. We have doctor visits in our youth here in the netherlands and the doctor told my mom I am 'definitely overweight, but it's not too bad' and my mom somehow took that as 'nothing is wrong'.

My mom legit refilled my plate if I wasn't looking, refilled my drink when I wasn't looking, and sabotaged my weight loss attempts. Always told me it's healthy to 'eat as much as you physically can' and I am ungratefull for her cooking because kids in Africa had no food. Later found out she was clearly a narc.
She legit ruined any chance I had at a normal childhood by making me fat. No wonder I coped by excessively playing vidya.

oh god i bet my doctors are going to do the same thing by sugarcoating it and then my mom will take it literally like always. in fact the specialists are so cucked they ALWAYS take her side. they will probably tell me "just do whats best for your mother teehee".

Wtf? Shes going to kick you out if you lose weight? WTF? Do it anyways and just stay in her house. Wtf is she going to do? She cant forcibly kick you out. Call the cops? lmao, goodluck with that.

she can do that in the UK where you technically arent a kid at 16.

 

[newcel997]

That's borderline obese mate.

that depends on wether its muskle or fat

 

[Hunter]

that depends on wether its muskle or fat

could it be muscle if i have lots of face fat?

 

[Deleted member 6101]

Exactly the cutoff between a chubbyfuck (26-30 bmi) and a fatfuck (30+ bmi)(if you don't lift).
Maybe you should tell your mother to fuck off and lose some ~10-15kg. Women can't be trusted with this shit.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

my dumbfuck mother seems to think otherwise. she wont even let me go to normal weight or at the very least slightly overweight rather than severely because i would be "anorexic" at a measly 75 fucking kilos. i cant even looksmaxx because she wants me to be a fat fuck like everyone else in my family. even though i have triple chin and my bloat is probably in the 99th percentile for 17 yr olds im perfectly fine at my weight! honestly couldnt be more excited to go to uni in 2 years.

Lol. Your mum sounds like a roastie that wishes the world was fat.

Jason Statham is 5'9, 77kg. Frank Medrano is 5'9, 74kg. Christiano Ronaldo is 6'1, 79.5kg.

5'9, 90kg is fat/chubby as fuck unless your some Rugby beast or hardcore gymcel. Your ideal weight is 69-78kg depending on body fat (69kg would be single digits)


I'm 5'9.75, 80kg, 19>20% bodyfat. I have work to do. I'm looking at a goal of 76kg 14-15%.

 

[newcel997]

could it be muscle if i have lots of face fat?

you couls but if you have face fat youre probably just fat

 

[iblamemyself]

Fat as fuck unless it's pure muscle. I don't get how you can let your mom dominate you like that. Stop eating her crap.

 

[Hunter]

Fat as fuck unless it's pure muscle. I don't get how you can let your mom dominate you like that. Stop eating her crap.

thats what ive been doing for months and yesterday she said she will kick me out of the house if i keep losing weight.

 

[iblamemyself]

thats what ive been doing for months and yesterday she said she will kick me out of the house if i keep losing weight.

I would move out asap. Ngl, being fat is fucking disgusting and unhealthy.

 

[Hunter]

I would move out asap. Ngl, being fat is fucking disgusting and unhealthy.

i will probably move to my dad once i finish my term this year. sick and tired of her bullshit.

 

[guerillahubris]

my dumbfuck mother seems to think otherwise. she wont even let me go to normal weight or at the very least slightly overweight rather than severely because i would be "anorexic" at a measly 75 fucking kilos. i cant even looksmaxx because she wants me to be a fat fuck like everyone else in my family. even though i have triple chin and my bloat is probably in the 99th percentile for 17 yr olds im perfectly fine at my weight! honestly couldnt be more excited to go to uni in 2 years.

is it so hard for you fat fuckers to just NOT EAT

 

[Hunter]

is it so hard for you fat fuckers to just NOT EAT

i cant "NOT EAT" because my mom wont let me you fucking numbskull.

 

[guerillahubris]

i cant "NOT EAT" because my mom wont let me you fucking numbskull.

does she force feed you? get less food on your plate or something, dont drink soft drinks dont eat any snacks. it lliterally requires less effort than you already put in

 

[Hunter]

does she force feed you? get less food on your plate or something, dont drink soft drinks dont eat any snacks. it lliterally requires less effort than you already put in

she practically does. i eat the bare minimum (sub 1000kcal each day), i dont have any snacks or drinks besides water.

 

[IncelmaBinHardon]

thats what ive been doing for months and yesterday she said she will kick me out of the house if i keep losing weight.

She's insane and needs to be incarcerated.

 

[BodyFat10orRope]

Been lurking a long fucking time but had to post. My mom is exactly like this. BMI "normal weight" is too high to be good looking on the higher end of the range. I need to lose 10kg to get to 9-10%. That's also where all of the old weight formulas (from the 80s and 90s) put me at my ideal weight. A while back I lost weight and she told me not to lose more and brought food in front of me. Then I gained a few kilos and told me I was getting fat. She thinks my current weight (which is probably 21% body fat) is ideal. I think part of it is because my fat gets spread out well. The facial difference is huge though between 21% and 9%.

Yeah. 90 kg at 5'9 is way too much.

Where the fuck do they get these ideas from?? Meanwhile they lust over some ripped guy. I remember my mother saying her favorite looking man was this guy who was 11% body fat.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

thats what ive been doing for months and yesterday she said she will kick me out of the house if i keep losing weight.

Report her for child abuse. Your just 17 after all.

 

[Hunter]

Been lurking a long fucking time but had to post. My mom is exactly like this. BMI "normal weight" is too high to be good looking on the higher end of the range. I need to lose 10kg to get to 10%. That's also where all of the old weight formulas (from the 80s and 90s) put me at my ideal weight. A while back I lost weight and she told me not to lose more and brought food in front of me. Then I gained a few kilos and told me I was getting fat.

Yeah. 90 kg at 5'9 is way too much.

my mom is exactly like yours. she used to always call me fat then i started trying to get to normal weight and now she is saying im skinny or anorexic when im literally borderline obese or twice the body weight of someone who is anorexic.

Report her for child abuse. Your just 17 after all.

i will leave to my dad after i finish the term

 

[uglylifematters]

my dumbfuck mother seems to think otherwise. she wont even let me go to normal weight or at the very least slightly overweight rather than severely because i would be "anorexic" at a measly 75 fucking kilos. i cant even looksmaxx because she wants me to be a fat fuck like everyone else in my family. even though i have triple chin and my bloat is probably in the 99th percentile for 17 yr olds im perfectly fine at my weight! honestly couldnt be more excited to go to uni in 2 years.

don't listen to her just lose the weight. thats what I did before i gained it all back. My mom kept telling me to "eat something your skinny already".

trust me man find a way to lose weight, your quality of life will improve.

 

[JohnnyNodoff]

Would 65 be ideal for 5 8 male?

 

[Hunter]

don't listen to her just lose the weight. thats what I did before i gained it all back. My mom kept telling me to "eat something your skinny already".

trust me man find a way to lose weight, your quality of life will improve.

nothing she says is credible to me anymore. im setting a goal for 70-75 kilos and nothing is going to stop that.

 

[uglylifematters]

nothing she says is credible to me anymore. im setting a goal for 70-75 kilos and nothing is going to stop that.

thats the way to go man.

and good luck bro losing weight can be hard

 

[VST]

Lol, how do you people get so fat?
I am 5'11" and 71-73kg and I struggle to maintain that weight.

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

Your mom controls your weight? How old are you?

 

[Enigmatic93]

Jesus christ this thread is fucking rage fuel. Im actually convinced that some mothers have a vested interest in keeping their sons from looksmaxing. My mom also questions my aggressive use of skincare products and visits to the dermatologist to treat my acne scars.

And then 10 years down the line I bet they'll have the audacity to get mad at you for not having a girlfriend. No fucking shit. It's partially because you're a shitty mother.

Where the fuck do they get these ideas from?? Meanwhile they lust over some ripped guy. I remember my mother saying her favorite looking man was this guy who was 11% body fat.

Honestly it feels like you should do the exact opposite of what women tell you.

Advide from a woman is like advice from a fish on how to catch fish. They're both gonna tell you some bullshit that will yield unsuccessful results.

 

[Hunter]

Jesus christ this thread is fucking rage fuel. Im actually convinced that some mothers have a vested interest in keeping their sons from looksmaxing. My mom also questions my aggressive use of skincare products and visits to the dermatologist to treat my acne scars.

And then 10 years down the line I bet they'll have the audacity to get mad at you for not having a girlfriend. No fucking shit. It's partially because you're a shitty mother.


Honestly it feels like you should do the exact opposite of what women tell you.

Advide from a woman is like advice from a fish on how to catch fish. They're both gonna tell you some bullshit that will yield unsuccessful results.

my mom wants me to be a pathetic happy fat betabux for some used up roastie.

"my sons going to grow up to be a fat rich accountant!"

"the ugliest people with a good personality get the best girls!"

 

[Enigmatic93]

my mom wants me to be a pathetic happy fat betabux for some used up roastie.

"my sons going to grow up to be a fat rich accountant!"

"the ugliest people with a good personality get the best girls!"

Yeah that's probably why. They don't want you to become a slayer. They want you to have work hard to get girls and be a good little cuck.

 

[Hunter]

Yeah that's probably why. They don't want you to become a slayer. They want you to have work hard to get girls and be a good little cuck.

probably because she wants me to get a high paying job so i could pay her more.

 

[Deleted member 60]

Jesus christ this thread is fucking rage fuel. Im actually convinced that some mothers have a vested interest in keeping their sons from looksmaxing. My mom also questions my aggressive use of skincare products and visits to the dermatologist to treat my acne scars.

And then 10 years down the line I bet they'll have the audacity to get mad at you for not having a girlfriend. No fucking shit. It's partially because you're a shitty mother.


Honestly it feels like you should do the exact opposite of what women tell you.

Advide from a woman is like advice from a fish on how to catch fish. They're both gonna tell you some bullshit that will yield unsuccessful results.

legit af. My mom always gets on my case for looksmaxxing, even if it just involves basic shit like dressing well. Pisses me the fuck off

 

[Newbite]

Depends on bodyfat percentage

 

[InebriatedIrish]

probably because she wants me to get a high paying job so i could pay her more.

Leave her when you can, and break all communications. I have no regrets, and you won’t too (unless you love your family).

 

[Hunter]

Leave her when you can, and break all communications. I have no regrets, and you won’t too (unless you love your family).

oh i definitely will. she is just a piece of shit in general.