Are we brothers in disguise or what? I felt the same. When I found out how Kaneki lived, it hit me hard that he is just like an incel. A good one. And he was blessed to have such a great friend Hide with him, who really was there for him at all and in the end gave up his life for him.
The power Kaneki got is one thing, since Im sure there are many ghoul incels. It really kills a part of you when Touka, a very good looking female, feels that way about Kaneki. He got the best chance at life. He was turned to a ghoul, a very strong one and then practically everything was handed to him. He could do whatever he wanted with that power, and everyone loved him
Now I vote for Furuta, and I hope he kills Kaneki in the end. But nothing will take off what is associated with his Chadlite status anymore. The anime mentally crushed me as I felt he was exactly a tragedy like a real incel is, and then he turns out to be the greatest warrior in Tokyo Ghoul that everybody admires.
It really felt like hope snatched away to a nightmare. I will never trust an MC again with the thought he's a loser like us. It just never will happen. Every anime character is appearetnyl destined with greatness.