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Chokhmah
Self-banned
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- Joined
- Nov 6, 2023
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- 97
To try and date you need..
Gym
Spend time prepping for, traveling to, being at, traveling from, and decompressing from the gym every day.
You need to be researching your correct lifts and different muscles to target. Cleaning your gym clothes which is more time at the laundromat unless you have an in-unit, which means more money on water, electric, and repairs.
The cost here is mainly your time. Gym guys make it their entire personality.
Surgery
If you're a genetic derelict then you need surgery to fix your bodily issues. Even simple as lasicks, cosmetic teeth alignment or whitening, rhinoplasty, or other factors can be simple improvements.
The cost here is financial. You need to spend thousands to pull yourself up to looking human.
Hobbies
Dance classes because you can't dance because you never went to parties, musical instrument because your parents didn't take an interest in your childhood, and also a sport because you were always a shut in loser.
The cost here is mainly your time and your pride. You're going to look like an adult loser when you do this and unless you are consistent then you'll probably fail out of this too.
Education
Having education in a trade or formal degree will.improve your chances for higher paying positions. Luck isn't by chance, it's about preparation and timing. You didn't get lucky with that high paying job, something prepared for that moment.
The cost here is mainly your time.
Housing
Even if you bag a girl, if you bring her to your mom's house you'll be looked like a loser to her or if you bring her to your roommates theyll cuckold you or cockblock you at some point. Imagine a foid seeing your Chad roommate or talking to your Foid roommate to cockblock you.
If you can afford your own place in this economy, then that is great. If you had a house, even if you're alone then you'd at least be earning something from while you're rotting alone. If you have an apartment alone, then you're burning your money that could of been saved for equity.
Phone
You don't have an iPhone with the blue bubble? I legit hear women talk of this as a must. Maybe it's a meme but I'm hearing it more than other things.
Car
You have a Nissan or some other soy car? She will think of you strangely. I again hear of this near women. Maybe it's just here where I live.
Social Media
Now we reach the big one.. women ask for your socials to vet if you're incel and how much status you may have. If you don't have a good socials, I'm talking 3 platforms with lots of photos and followed, she is going to second guess you. Something suspicion will happen about you.
You need to have 3 platforms of your choice for your country, this to widen the net of options. Then lots of stuff on there going on. And it can't all be recent because shell suspect you're doing it only to cover your sus history.
The main cost here is your time. You better be prepared to invest about 6-13 months on building a wide profile with lots of followers, photos, or videos so have more to talk about.
NT
You need to be socialable. Able to go to places where women are. You need a good social group. You need to be like a rock in water, know all the normie NT stuff that they are so used to.
The main cost here is your time and mental state. This is easier if you have all the other things, because you can fall back on other stuff if you fail. But most incel don't get this far.
Location
You need to move to a place to maximize your potential. That means traveling overseas which also helps your socials and NT, but...
The main cost here is money. Let's face it if you could travel like this you would not even need to make an account here.
Other Stuff
Ethnicity and other also play parts but I'm just thinking only of things that you can change that cost time money or mental.
Of course if you are Chad none of this matters.
Gym
Spend time prepping for, traveling to, being at, traveling from, and decompressing from the gym every day.
You need to be researching your correct lifts and different muscles to target. Cleaning your gym clothes which is more time at the laundromat unless you have an in-unit, which means more money on water, electric, and repairs.
The cost here is mainly your time. Gym guys make it their entire personality.
Surgery
If you're a genetic derelict then you need surgery to fix your bodily issues. Even simple as lasicks, cosmetic teeth alignment or whitening, rhinoplasty, or other factors can be simple improvements.
The cost here is financial. You need to spend thousands to pull yourself up to looking human.
Hobbies
Dance classes because you can't dance because you never went to parties, musical instrument because your parents didn't take an interest in your childhood, and also a sport because you were always a shut in loser.
The cost here is mainly your time and your pride. You're going to look like an adult loser when you do this and unless you are consistent then you'll probably fail out of this too.
Education
Having education in a trade or formal degree will.improve your chances for higher paying positions. Luck isn't by chance, it's about preparation and timing. You didn't get lucky with that high paying job, something prepared for that moment.
The cost here is mainly your time.
Housing
Even if you bag a girl, if you bring her to your mom's house you'll be looked like a loser to her or if you bring her to your roommates theyll cuckold you or cockblock you at some point. Imagine a foid seeing your Chad roommate or talking to your Foid roommate to cockblock you.
If you can afford your own place in this economy, then that is great. If you had a house, even if you're alone then you'd at least be earning something from while you're rotting alone. If you have an apartment alone, then you're burning your money that could of been saved for equity.
Phone
You don't have an iPhone with the blue bubble? I legit hear women talk of this as a must. Maybe it's a meme but I'm hearing it more than other things.
Car
You have a Nissan or some other soy car? She will think of you strangely. I again hear of this near women. Maybe it's just here where I live.
Social Media
Now we reach the big one.. women ask for your socials to vet if you're incel and how much status you may have. If you don't have a good socials, I'm talking 3 platforms with lots of photos and followed, she is going to second guess you. Something suspicion will happen about you.
You need to have 3 platforms of your choice for your country, this to widen the net of options. Then lots of stuff on there going on. And it can't all be recent because shell suspect you're doing it only to cover your sus history.
The main cost here is your time. You better be prepared to invest about 6-13 months on building a wide profile with lots of followers, photos, or videos so have more to talk about.
NT
You need to be socialable. Able to go to places where women are. You need a good social group. You need to be like a rock in water, know all the normie NT stuff that they are so used to.
The main cost here is your time and mental state. This is easier if you have all the other things, because you can fall back on other stuff if you fail. But most incel don't get this far.
Location
You need to move to a place to maximize your potential. That means traveling overseas which also helps your socials and NT, but...
The main cost here is money. Let's face it if you could travel like this you would not even need to make an account here.
Other Stuff
Ethnicity and other also play parts but I'm just thinking only of things that you can change that cost time money or mental.
Of course if you are Chad none of this matters.