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Chokhmah

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To try and date you need..

Gym
Spend time prepping for, traveling to, being at, traveling from, and decompressing from the gym every day.

You need to be researching your correct lifts and different muscles to target. Cleaning your gym clothes which is more time at the laundromat unless you have an in-unit, which means more money on water, electric, and repairs.

The cost here is mainly your time. Gym guys make it their entire personality.

Surgery
If you're a genetic derelict then you need surgery to fix your bodily issues. Even simple as lasicks, cosmetic teeth alignment or whitening, rhinoplasty, or other factors can be simple improvements.

The cost here is financial. You need to spend thousands to pull yourself up to looking human.

Hobbies
Dance classes because you can't dance because you never went to parties, musical instrument because your parents didn't take an interest in your childhood, and also a sport because you were always a shut in loser.

The cost here is mainly your time and your pride. You're going to look like an adult loser when you do this and unless you are consistent then you'll probably fail out of this too.

Education
Having education in a trade or formal degree will.improve your chances for higher paying positions. Luck isn't by chance, it's about preparation and timing. You didn't get lucky with that high paying job, something prepared for that moment.

The cost here is mainly your time.

Housing
Even if you bag a girl, if you bring her to your mom's house you'll be looked like a loser to her or if you bring her to your roommates theyll cuckold you or cockblock you at some point. Imagine a foid seeing your Chad roommate or talking to your Foid roommate to cockblock you.

If you can afford your own place in this economy, then that is great. If you had a house, even if you're alone then you'd at least be earning something from while you're rotting alone. If you have an apartment alone, then you're burning your money that could of been saved for equity.

Phone
You don't have an iPhone with the blue bubble? I legit hear women talk of this as a must. Maybe it's a meme but I'm hearing it more than other things.

Car
You have a Nissan or some other soy car? She will think of you strangely. I again hear of this near women. Maybe it's just here where I live.

Social Media
Now we reach the big one.. women ask for your socials to vet if you're incel and how much status you may have. If you don't have a good socials, I'm talking 3 platforms with lots of photos and followed, she is going to second guess you. Something suspicion will happen about you.

You need to have 3 platforms of your choice for your country, this to widen the net of options. Then lots of stuff on there going on. And it can't all be recent because shell suspect you're doing it only to cover your sus history.

The main cost here is your time. You better be prepared to invest about 6-13 months on building a wide profile with lots of followers, photos, or videos so have more to talk about.

NT
You need to be socialable. Able to go to places where women are. You need a good social group. You need to be like a rock in water, know all the normie NT stuff that they are so used to.

The main cost here is your time and mental state. This is easier if you have all the other things, because you can fall back on other stuff if you fail. But most incel don't get this far.

Location
You need to move to a place to maximize your potential. That means traveling overseas which also helps your socials and NT, but...

The main cost here is money. Let's face it if you could travel like this you would not even need to make an account here.

Other Stuff
Ethnicity and other also play parts but I'm just thinking only of things that you can change that cost time money or mental.

Of course if you are Chad none of this matters.
 
more redpill PUA bullshit, dnrd
 
Good post. Bump
 
more redpill PUA bullshit, dnrd
Even if you do all of this, you can expect to get a woman goblin that will break your heart and cheat on you, even though she's probably 2-3 points smv below you if she was male.

Nothing is a guarantee, one side or another, but it's probably going to be this way.
 
Even if you do all of this, you can expect to get a woman goblin that will break your heart and cheat on you, even though she's probably 2-3 points smv below you if she was male.

Nothing is a guarantee, one side or another, but it's probably going to be this way.
exactly. this is a core fundamental of the blackpill
 
You also need fancy clothings. It's ovER
 
you have to have a whole PhD just to be able to be with an ugly toilet JFL
 
You also need fancy clothings. It's ovER
Correct.

Fitpill is also valid derivation of this expense issue. You need to have good fashion, which often requires more money, or a significant amount of time and socials to find good fit. But this comes back to being NT. You wouldn't need to think about the fitpill if you were a normal person -- which we're not.
 
you have to have a whole PhD just to be able to be with an ugly toilet JFL
I forgot to mention, EVEN IF you do all of this correctly and get the woman to your bedroom of her own will then you have to be big dick maxxed (or invest more time into jelq and money into surgey) and you have to have "experience" which now requires more time, study, etc. to get it right

Now if we was Chad, she would overlook it, but since we're subhuman we have to try harder here too.
 
Only surgery and arguably gym matters out of these but you're right.
 
good post brocel. house one is especially true
 
I forgot to mention, EVEN IF you do all of this correctly and get the woman to your bedroom of her own will then you have to be big dick maxxed (or invest more time into jelq and money into surgey) and you have to have "experience" which now requires more time, study, etc. to get it right

Now if we was Chad, she would overlook it, but since we're subhuman we have to try harder here too.
yeah, ofc that shit must apply to normies, we incels are eliminated automatically
 
alternatively, foids can be hideous landwhales and will still find it easier to get dates than you, even if you do all of those things
 
having plastic surgery and going to the gym wont get you pussy. women's standards are insane and there mind is already made up who they are gonna have sex with and have children with. and it is not incels.
 
Social Media
Now we reach the big one.. women ask for your socials to vet if you're incel and how much status you may have. If you don't have a good socials, I'm talking 3 platforms with lots of photos and followed, she is going to second guess you. Something suspicion will happen about you.

You need to have 3 platforms of your choice for your country, this to widen the net of options. Then lots of stuff on there going on. And it can't all be recent because shell suspect you're doing it only to cover your sus history.

The main cost here is your time. You better be prepared to invest about 6-13 months on building a wide profile with lots of followers, photos, or videos so have more to talk about.

Okay, I guess I'm volcel.

I will literally never cuck to this ever.

I have no social networking faggot clownworld accounts and never will. Fuck that noise.
 
To try and date you need..

Gym
Spend time prepping for, traveling to, being at, traveling from, and decompressing from the gym every day.

You need to be researching your correct lifts and different muscles to target. Cleaning your gym clothes which is more time at the laundromat unless you have an in-unit, which means more money on water, electric, and repairs.

The cost here is mainly your time. Gym guys make it their entire personality.

Surgery
If you're a genetic derelict then you need surgery to fix your bodily issues. Even simple as lasicks, cosmetic teeth alignment or whitening, rhinoplasty, or other factors can be simple improvements.

The cost here is financial. You need to spend thousands to pull yourself up to looking human.

Hobbies
Dance classes because you can't dance because you never went to parties, musical instrument because your parents didn't take an interest in your childhood, and also a sport because you were always a shut in loser.

The cost here is mainly your time and your pride. You're going to look like an adult loser when you do this and unless you are consistent then you'll probably fail out of this too.

Education
Having education in a trade or formal degree will.improve your chances for higher paying positions. Luck isn't by chance, it's about preparation and timing. You didn't get lucky with that high paying job, something prepared for that moment.

The cost here is mainly your time.

Housing
Even if you bag a girl, if you bring her to your mom's house you'll be looked like a loser to her or if you bring her to your roommates theyll cuckold you or cockblock you at some point. Imagine a foid seeing your Chad roommate or talking to your Foid roommate to cockblock you.

If you can afford your own place in this economy, then that is great. If you had a house, even if you're alone then you'd at least be earning something from while you're rotting alone. If you have an apartment alone, then you're burning your money that could of been saved for equity.

Phone
You don't have an iPhone with the blue bubble? I legit hear women talk of this as a must. Maybe it's a meme but I'm hearing it more than other things.

Car
You have a Nissan or some other soy car? She will think of you strangely. I again hear of this near women. Maybe it's just here where I live.

Social Media
Now we reach the big one.. women ask for your socials to vet if you're incel and how much status you may have. If you don't have a good socials, I'm talking 3 platforms with lots of photos and followed, she is going to second guess you. Something suspicion will happen about you.

You need to have 3 platforms of your choice for your country, this to widen the net of options. Then lots of stuff on there going on. And it can't all be recent because shell suspect you're doing it only to cover your sus history.

The main cost here is your time. You better be prepared to invest about 6-13 months on building a wide profile with lots of followers, photos, or videos so have more to talk about.

NT
You need to be socialable. Able to go to places where women are. You need a good social group. You need to be like a rock in water, know all the normie NT stuff that they are so used to.

The main cost here is your time and mental state. This is easier if you have all the other things, because you can fall back on other stuff if you fail. But most incel don't get this far.

Location
You need to move to a place to maximize your potential. That means traveling overseas which also helps your socials and NT, but...

The main cost here is money. Let's face it if you could travel like this you would not even need to make an account here.

Other Stuff
Ethnicity and other also play parts but I'm just thinking only of things that you can change that cost time money or mental.

Of course if you are Chad none of this matters.
We have to do all this, all this effort while she just exists. There's literally zero expectations for a foid, she just exists. What the fuck does she offer besides her ass tits and pussy?
 
We have to do all this, all this effort while she just exists. There's literally zero expectations for a foid, she just exists. What the fuck does she offer besides her ass tits and pussy?
She has to do nothing. Women have inherent value for their ability to birth children. However many men incorrectly associate this value despite her unwillingness to use it.

Think of it like casino chips. Women start out with a ton and men have to earn them over time. Once a man has more chips than her (height, status, social, looks, finance, etc.) then she is willing to "cash out" the chips. However, men will functionally give her chips without her willingness to cash out (this is simping) and she just keeps building a bigger pile, looking for a bigger and bigger whale to cash out with later.. only growing as each simp adds more to the stack.
 
alternatively, foids can be hideous landwhales and will still find it easier to get dates than you, even if you do all of those things
Juggernaut theory is correct. Women have infinite SMV.

Okay, I guess I'm volcel.

I will literally never cuck to this ever.

I have no social networking faggot clownworld accounts and never will. Fuck that noise.
Yes it's very time consuming (expense) and it only widens your net, but a big net doesn't necessarily catch more fish. It just increased the chance of coming in contact with them.

having plastic surgery and going to the gym wont get you pussy. women's standards are insane and there mind is already made up who they are gonna have sex with and have children with. and it is not incels.
Correct. Soon as every incel works out and gets surgery, as it is now, then women will think that is defacto standard and not necessarily a stand out feature to elevate from incel to HTN.
 
I'm going to rot. What about you? You could betabuxx a girl.
 
Hobbies
Dance classes because you can't dance because you never went to parties, musical instrument because your parents didn't take an interest in your childhood, and also a sport because you were always a shut in loser.

Phew.

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Re: I don't understand girls who plastic surgery
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Many people often perceive their over-all physical appearance as inferior or horrible in comparison to the physical appearance of other humans.As a result, they often engage in unnecessary and often dangerous behavior in an attempt to correct or otherwise improve their appearance simply to fit the aesthetic standards of other humans.
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"in my country"Ah, Brasil?
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For pump and dump you "only" need NT, looks and height and maybe a car
 
She has to do nothing. Women have inherent value for their ability to birth children. However many men incorrectly associate this value despite her unwillingness to use it.

Think of it like casino chips. Women start out with a ton and men have to earn them over time. Once a man has more chips than her (height, status, social, looks, finance, etc.) then she is willing to "cash out" the chips. However, men will functionally give her chips without her willingness to cash out (this is simping) and she just keeps building a bigger pile, looking for a bigger and bigger whale to cash out with later.. only growing as each simp adds more to the stack.
Well said, summed it up perfectly
 
its all so tiresome
 
Not all only sounds expensive but painful too
 
Should be pinned for fellow bluecollarcels and minimumwagecels to loose the final bit of cope and hope
 
Not all only sounds expensive but painful too
It gets more difficult as you get older. Heres why:

Normies have been building their good finance, socials, fitness, etc. since they were young. They had sex earlier, got friends earlier, got good jobs earlier, and were pushed to get better and better things easier for them.

If you miss out on this on your teenage years, and progressively miss out on this into your 20s, then it becomes all more difficult to catch up. For example, if you're not fit, don't have hobbies, and don't have good socials hen you're going to need to work all three simultaneously just to catch up. it's like working a second and third job, but you're earning no income and instead just trying to try and become human.

Here is the real ringer.. even if you do flip your life around over the next year or two, you'll already be behind because the normies will ALWAYS have one thing you don't: momentum.

The momentum they received long ago keeps propelling them faster and faster, while you're just now pushing off the dock and setting sail for the first time.
 
Should be pinned for fellow bluecollarcels and minimumwagecels to loose the final bit of cope and hope
If you're bluecollar or minimum wage as an incel then it's going to set you at a significant disadvantage. Even if you improved in other areas not finance related, the lack of money is really going to catch up with you at some point. This isn't something a HTN, Chadlite, or Chad has to worry about, which is even more brutal to think about.

For pump and dump you "only" need NT, looks and height and maybe a car
True, but I feel like NT is so much more complex. Even if one can talk a good game, that usually comes from having a good social circle to practice it with, which the social circle comes from having shared interests, which those come from some talent or well perfected skill. It's a lot of "leveling up" to get to a quality level of NT it feels like.

Heightpill is brutally true. What's a good car you'd say for women to not at least sneer at? Brands, models etc.
 
What's a good car you'd say for women to not at least sneer at? Brands, models etc.
At least in Germany Mercedes Benz and BMW are a classic. High class but not too luxurious like Lamborghini
 
She has to do nothing. Women have inherent value for their ability to birth children. However many men incorrectly associate this value despite her unwillingness to use it.

Think of it like casino chips. Women start out with a ton and men have to earn them over time. Once a man has more chips than her (height, status, social, looks, finance, etc.) then she is willing to "cash out" the chips. However, men will functionally give her chips without her willingness to cash out (this is simping) and she just keeps building a bigger pile, looking for a bigger and bigger whale to cash out with later.. only growing as each simp adds more to the stack.
this is a great metaphor detailing why cucks are not only CUCKED, BUT FUCK IT UP FOR ALL THE OTHER NORMIE AND SUB NORMIE MEN, THEY MAKE NORMAL WOMENS DEMANDS EVEN HIGHER THE MORE THEY SIMP.
 
These are the minimum requirements for a low-tier normie to ascend. I could never afford all that even if I did have the looks.
 
also bookmarked, good thread
 
These are the minimum requirements for a low-tier normie to ascend. I could never afford all that even if I did have the looks.
Yes, and I think the most blackpiling part of this revelation is..

If you're reading this thread it's already too late.

Normies have been building up their finance, hobbies, socials, education, etc. since they were young. They have a massive head start and we are still at the starting line still waiting for race to start.

It's over. The game is rigged. There is no going back. We must accept the miserable existence designed for us.
 
We got the game over screen the second we put the game in
 
I thought this was @LeFrenchCel for a second.
 
Good post, cheers.
 
Meanwhile, unemployed, violent armed immigrants breeding like rabbits just a few miles from your house.

Just fuck this shit for good.
 

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