It's Over It's so strange that I can't bring myself to cold approach women anymore

[Hoppipolla]

WHY IS THIS.

I used to be fine at it.

I think to be honest in general I learned to maintain distance from other people. I used to let me extroversion guide me a lot more and I would constantly be trying to make friends and ask women out but... after lots of bad experiences and also living in a country that is quite introverted, I started to just... withdraw. I started to see social interaction as kind of bad in some way because other people weren't as extroverted.

Also I guess health problems are holding me back also >.<

But yeah I dunno. As usual I'll add a poll

 

[Dickcelled]

Never approached a woman in my life or even spoken to one so cant relate to this.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Don't cold approach. It's pointless and doesn't work for non chads

 

[Cryotron]

Don't cold approach

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

 

[iRespectproudweeb]

I'd just assume they would think I am a creep, and tell me to fuck off.

Assuming that the dating game in your 20s is just like High School.

 

[Ubermenschvirtues]

You cant just naturally cold approach if your whole life you were seen as ugly from women.

 

[j10009504]

it feels like something that only works in movies

 

[Only_Perspective]

I also withdrew myself completely. Time, money and energy all went down the drain and I got nothing.

 

[Hoppipolla]

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That man looks wise.

 

[Skyrim]

cold approach is a meme. also if you don't get any matches from dating apps then you wont get anything from cold approach

 

[Yournotcold0]

Don't cold approach. It's pointless and doesn't work for non chads

 

[Enigmaz]

You can't be bad at something that's purely based on stuff you can't control. An autistic Chad can slay. People see your face and height first and your personality is last or not even considered.

 

[Emba]

It's easier to cold approach if you work the graveyard shift at the morgue bro

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

Nah it's easy, just don't bother doing it anymore because it's pointless. I'm too afraid I'll tell the next woman that starts actually conversing with me when they randomly blurt out "my partner, my boyfriend" to just blatantly and coldly fuck up and fuck off, didn't ask and I didn't care.

Mainly because they will see it as an issue with just ME and not my learned experiences.

 

[Grodd]

Don't cold approach. It's pointless and doesn't work for non chads

 

[Grodd]

Humiliation ritual

 

[Rasama]

Your subconscious mind is telling you, that cold approches will only hurt you buddy boyo

Same as me, after many rejections i don't feel motivated to cold approach anymore

 

[sadlemon]

Cold approaching was always a meme, imagine going out of your way to bother some strangers. It always sounded so retarded, unless you're extremely extroverted and attractive you'll bother others for no reason and waste your time.

I did it ? once? If it was even considered cold aproaching, i talked to a girl at uni bus stop that we shared teathre classes together and she was kind enough, so it was a good talk. Still i almost died out of sheer fright. Wont' ever do that shit again

 

[BPJ]

Don't cold approach. It's pointless and doesn't work for non chads