Everyone wants to do both, but that's Chad only. He will get lots of casual sex from random young, prime whores and commited, monogamal sex with a hot, younger and loyal wife when he grows bored out of pumping and dumping.
A story I heard about a my friend's foid friend:
After a long relationship, at 16, she became a slut who fucked a different guy each week up until her first year of college.
He got a BF. BF wanted to do anal. She had done it in the past, as ONS military Chad and her went and fuck, being drunk. He just shoved it right in, without asking. She didn't like it but when BF asked said she had never done it. He felt like everyone got to enjoy his GF in the past in every conceivable way (and he is right) so he wanted to do something new. Little did he knew... He had to talk her into it and whatnot. Meanwhile ONS Chad does it with a prime 18 y/o and doesn't give a fuck.
They are still together and there has not been cheating or anything. Just know, that it can and does happen to everyone.
Chad fux beta bux, and even if you get to bux, it's still trash. For normies it's mutually exclusive, not for real top tier males.