Mainländer
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Note: I don't think rape is right nor do I encourage or promote it in any way.
Trauma usually happens like this: the person has a painful/scary/threatening experience with something, particularly in their formative years, and thus develops a exacerbated fear of that something, avoiding it at all costs. Ex: you get stung by a spider as a kid and can't stand being in the presence of them as an adult.
Foids who get raped, on the other hand, commonly develop the exact opposite reaction; they get hypersexual, addicted to sex and not rarely, particularly addicted to violent BDSM sex that contains many specific elements that are commonly present in a rape scenario (being incapacitated, choked, hit, humiliated, penetrated violently, etc).
Could it be that what happens with foids after rape isn't exactly trauma, but getting to try a powerful dose of what they're hardwired to like as females (extreme male forceful sexual dominance), which gets them addicted to it?
It also makes the comparison of male x female rape with male x straight male IT commonly does even more invalid: straight men not only don't feel attracted to men and don't like being penetrated like women do; they also mostly lack the masochistic, submissive aspects which are a staple in female sexuality.
I'm fully aware that many raped foids, particularly those who got raped in their formative years, exhibit other consequences than just hypersexuality though. But my theory is that those foids are usually raised by psychopath/NPD parents, so the sexual abuse doesn't come alone, physical abuse and negligence go with it (negligence in particular is proven to be more damaging to children than even the abuse; the most accepted theory for what causes BPD for instance is the negligence and not the sexual abuse per se; BPD also starts at infancy, and most people who get raped as kids are only raped later, as attraction to babies and infants isn't nearly as common as attraction to kids).
Thoughts? @Atavistic Autist @your personality @Fat Link
Trauma usually happens like this: the person has a painful/scary/threatening experience with something, particularly in their formative years, and thus develops a exacerbated fear of that something, avoiding it at all costs. Ex: you get stung by a spider as a kid and can't stand being in the presence of them as an adult.
Foids who get raped, on the other hand, commonly develop the exact opposite reaction; they get hypersexual, addicted to sex and not rarely, particularly addicted to violent BDSM sex that contains many specific elements that are commonly present in a rape scenario (being incapacitated, choked, hit, humiliated, penetrated violently, etc).
Could it be that what happens with foids after rape isn't exactly trauma, but getting to try a powerful dose of what they're hardwired to like as females (extreme male forceful sexual dominance), which gets them addicted to it?
It also makes the comparison of male x female rape with male x straight male IT commonly does even more invalid: straight men not only don't feel attracted to men and don't like being penetrated like women do; they also mostly lack the masochistic, submissive aspects which are a staple in female sexuality.
I'm fully aware that many raped foids, particularly those who got raped in their formative years, exhibit other consequences than just hypersexuality though. But my theory is that those foids are usually raised by psychopath/NPD parents, so the sexual abuse doesn't come alone, physical abuse and negligence go with it (negligence in particular is proven to be more damaging to children than even the abuse; the most accepted theory for what causes BPD for instance is the negligence and not the sexual abuse per se; BPD also starts at infancy, and most people who get raped as kids are only raped later, as attraction to babies and infants isn't nearly as common as attraction to kids).
Thoughts? @Atavistic Autist @your personality @Fat Link
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