TheGrayWolf
Loser with a lion's heart
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... stuff.
She insults my intelligence so often. I guess my intelligence is average, but she says and doesn't say stuff, which implies she thinks I'm extremely gullible and dumb. It's just.... I don't have the words for it.
"How do you want to survive when you live alone in the future?"
"In the future nobody will do anything for you in the household, you'll have to cook stuff yourself" (my mom often cooks, I do other household stuff, so I can live in the house. But honestly I wish I had enough money to leave. But add that with my extreme social anxiety, that's virtually impossible).
She implies many times by saying certain stuff, and by NOT saying certain stuff, that I'll be forever alone. Hell, she sometimes even explicitly states it, like above.
Other times she's like "personality is just as important as looks, and an arrogant but good looking person is actually ugly." (she knows this is NOT true, I know she does. She just wants me to believe it, so I can cope better).
She tells me "you can't get a good looking girlfriend because your personality is bad." but also "any girlfriend you do get in the future can be lucky she has you. You need to know that." (again, it's a lie, bc she knows she's lying, I know her and she has a bad memory so she "slips" sometimes in what she says, ie. contradicting herself).
She got mad that she has to always cook for me. Even if we agreed on that. She cooks for us and does laundry, I take care of the dog and many other stuff. She said "nobody will cook for you in the future. Nobody will do your laundry." Yeah ok mom, I get it, I'll be FA. But 3 weeks ago you told me that I can have a good looking girlfriend (a blatant lie, you know me). And like I said above, a few weeks ago she said "any girl is lucky if she's with you" (she knows this isn't true), sometimes she says I have a good personality, on other days a "terrible" one.
I always try to catch her out on this, and she always gets mad.
Today I told her, "no offence, I'd rather live with a girlfriend rather than you, no offence." To which she replies angrily, "then leave."
Her arrogance is incredible.
She insults my intelligence so often. I guess my intelligence is average, but she says and doesn't say stuff, which implies she thinks I'm extremely gullible and dumb. It's just.... I don't have the words for it.
"How do you want to survive when you live alone in the future?"
"In the future nobody will do anything for you in the household, you'll have to cook stuff yourself" (my mom often cooks, I do other household stuff, so I can live in the house. But honestly I wish I had enough money to leave. But add that with my extreme social anxiety, that's virtually impossible).
She implies many times by saying certain stuff, and by NOT saying certain stuff, that I'll be forever alone. Hell, she sometimes even explicitly states it, like above.
Other times she's like "personality is just as important as looks, and an arrogant but good looking person is actually ugly." (she knows this is NOT true, I know she does. She just wants me to believe it, so I can cope better).
She tells me "you can't get a good looking girlfriend because your personality is bad." but also "any girlfriend you do get in the future can be lucky she has you. You need to know that." (again, it's a lie, bc she knows she's lying, I know her and she has a bad memory so she "slips" sometimes in what she says, ie. contradicting herself).
She got mad that she has to always cook for me. Even if we agreed on that. She cooks for us and does laundry, I take care of the dog and many other stuff. She said "nobody will cook for you in the future. Nobody will do your laundry." Yeah ok mom, I get it, I'll be FA. But 3 weeks ago you told me that I can have a good looking girlfriend (a blatant lie, you know me). And like I said above, a few weeks ago she said "any girl is lucky if she's with you" (she knows this isn't true), sometimes she says I have a good personality, on other days a "terrible" one.
I always try to catch her out on this, and she always gets mad.
Today I told her, "no offence, I'd rather live with a girlfriend rather than you, no offence." To which she replies angrily, "then leave."
Her arrogance is incredible.
