It's often said that if you're a man, to get a partner you have to be good, calm, and have a smile and a kind heart, and a woman will like you.
That's possibly the biggest systematic lie in history.
Masculine "goodness" is actually useless.
Women (with a few exceptions) aren't attracted to someone who's good. In fact, "good" is interpreted as weak or easily taken advantage of, and from adolescence you see how older guys, party animals, athletes, and every kind of "macho" man get most of the women...
Why is this? Because the reality is that what's attractive is what generates emotions, and someone "calm" only generates boredom.
You can even see this in real life. How your aunts or your mom are more proud of you when you bring home a blonde or several women than when you have academic or athletic achievements.
Or how women go off with a shitty man (and even tolerate it) because they admire his profession, money, or whatever the hell they see in him.
The conclusion is that most of us are finished. And worse, the community is full of autistic people or ragebaiters. They've tarnished the image of incel men (those of us who try to find a partner but can't).
That's possibly the biggest systematic lie in history.
Masculine "goodness" is actually useless.
Women (with a few exceptions) aren't attracted to someone who's good. In fact, "good" is interpreted as weak or easily taken advantage of, and from adolescence you see how older guys, party animals, athletes, and every kind of "macho" man get most of the women...
Why is this? Because the reality is that what's attractive is what generates emotions, and someone "calm" only generates boredom.
You can even see this in real life. How your aunts or your mom are more proud of you when you bring home a blonde or several women than when you have academic or athletic achievements.
Or how women go off with a shitty man (and even tolerate it) because they admire his profession, money, or whatever the hell they see in him.
The conclusion is that most of us are finished. And worse, the community is full of autistic people or ragebaiters. They've tarnished the image of incel men (those of us who try to find a partner but can't).
