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"It's better to have tried than not tried at all"

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"It's better to have tried than not tried at all"
Nope. That's entirely dependent on who you are. If you're an ugly sub-5 male like me, trying in fact will just make your life and mental state considerably worse.


No matter how hard you try to socialize, grind, or meet girls, nothing will change if you're unattractive. The result will always be the same because human individualism is a meme and everyone is bound by the same instincts.

There is no magical unicorn woman who's going to pop out of the ground and save you. Even if you're somehow "lucky" enough to get into a relationship, the chances are she'll be abusive and just use and discard you. Look at Eggman. He managed to get in a relationship with a whale and guess what happened? She treated him like shit and dumped him.


You cannot change human nature by hitting the gym and dropshipping.

You cannot change human nature by reading self-help books.


You cannot change human nature by putting yourself out there and joining a club.


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If humans were so individual and unique then we wouldn't have these studies that end with the same results with large test groups of 100+ individuals. We wouldn't see the same predictable and repetitive behavior on social media.



Normies and women like to prop themselves up as having unique personalities because they're self observed narcissists who are terrified of the idea that they're a dime a dozen fly that could disappear tomorrow with no effect.


Putting yourself out there is like sticking your finger in the cigarette lighter within a car and expecting not to get shocked.
 
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I regret trying
 
I regret thinking about trying
 
I regret trying
Same. I'm mentally wrecked because of it. There's no undoing the trauma that will be inflicted upon you.
 
trying will add more negative memories
 
I'll probably try like 5 more years then I'm giving up
 
trying will add more negative memories
Exactly. We already have enough trauma. The results aren't going to be different. Just more of the same. Nothing ever changes.
 
"Chocolate cake with poop frosting is better than no chocolate cake."
 
I regret being conceived.
 
this is the type of stuff i go on .is for
NOWHERE else can you speak about this basic fact without getting hit with "Stop being such an incel broo" or "Go outside" and other bluepilled copes
 
this is the type of stuff i go on .is for
NOWHERE else can you speak about this basic fact without getting hit with "Stop being such an incel broo" or "Go outside" and other bluepilled copes
This is only safe haven for logic in terms of social media.
 
"It's better to have tried than not tried at all"
Nope. That's entirely dependent on who you are. If you're an ugly sub-5 male like me, trying in fact will just make your life and mental state considerably worse.


No matter how hard you try to socialize, grind, or meet girls, nothing will change if you're unattractive. The result will always be the same because human individualism is a meme and everyone is bound by the same instincts.

There is no magical unicorn woman who's going to pop out of the ground and save you. Even if you're somehow "lucky" enough to get into a relationship, the chances are she'll be abusive and just use and discard you. Look at Eggman. He managed to get in a relationship with a whale and guess what happened? She treated him like shit and dumped him.


You cannot change human nature by hitting the gym and dropshipping.

You cannot change human nature by reading self-help books.


You cannot change human nature by putting yourself out there and joining a club.


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If humans were so individual and unique then we wouldn't have these studies that end with the same results with large test groups of 100+ individuals. We wouldn't see the same predictable and repetitive behavior on social media.



Normies and women like to prop themselves up as having unique personalities because they're self observed narcissists who are terrified of the idea that they're a dime a dozen fly that could disappear tomorrow with no effect.


Putting yourself out there is like sticking your finger in the cigarette lighter within a car and expecting not to get shocked.
This saying only applies to stuff where the very thing you do regardless of the result, is enjoyable.

And pursuing foids just isn't.
 
No need to try if you're not a chad. Just try to live your life somehow.
 
Why try something you already know the outcome of?
It's like they say, it's foolish to do the same thing repeatedly and expect different results.
We'll never be what they want, so why try?
 
Should have stayed home & fapped bro
 
You can change human nature at gun point though.
 
I really hate that realization at the end of it all that you're just stuck as a completely unremarkable shit individual. Just a backdrop for people that have a life worth living, a contrast to goodlifers. There's absolutely nothing you can do about it and it's a life sentence.
All the problems I've had until then were something I could overcome in some way. Not this.
It's the "oh shit this is it, the rest of my life" that stings.
 
Don't want to end up in jail .
 
No matter how hard you try to socialize, grind, or meet girls, nothing will change if you're unattractive.
story of my life. all my efforts never changed a damn thing.
 
There is definitely a false narrative among normies that you miss every shot you don't take.

Theres a saying that it's best to not speak and keep doubt in peoples minds, rather than open your mouth and confirm for everyone you are indeed an idiot.

Things have an opportunity cost, people notice your failures and rejections and everyone will always remember them.
 
There is definitely a false narrative among normies that you miss every shot you don't take.

Theres a saying that it's best to not speak and keep doubt in peoples minds, rather than open your mouth and confirm for everyone you are indeed an idiot.

Things have an opportunity cost, people notice your failures and rejections and everyone will always remember them.
:yes:
 
In high school I tried to make a gaming youtube channel and ask out my crush, I wish I never did any of these things even though they could have paid off massively, i was just ridiculed for it and I was better off having never tried.
 
In high school I tried to make a gaming youtube channel and ask out my crush, I wish I never did any of these things even though they could have paid off massively, i was just ridiculed for it and I was better off having never tried.
You wouldn't be successful unless you had a good voice. It's all up to genes buddy boyo
 

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