Anyone telling you that “it will just happen” is either an old person who doesn’t realize that things have changed in the last 40 years or somebody who just wants you to shut the fuck up. This isn’t the 70s or even the 80s where if you were just a guy who had a job and were just average looking a woman would eventually come to you and you could just have a family. Time to exchange dramatically with the advent of Tinder and advancements in the Internet, women are spoils for choice and don’t need any man who isn’t above a seven and looks for anything. In truth, I’m not too mad when older people say this type of cope. I’ll give an example, I told my mom about my Intel dilemma since I was at my wits end a year ago and she told me that I am tall and I’m losing weight so eventually a woman will come near me and initiate something with me. I told her that she doesn’t understand and I’m in dire need of companionship. She then promised me to search for a woman and introduce her to me for a relationship prospect. Obviously nothing came of it and I do have a sneaking suspicion. She didn’t try at all and really believe that I could do this on my own. Even though I’m mad at her, I can on someone will still forgive her because parents never want to admit that their kid is ugly or unable to find a mate. This reflects poorly on them and makes them feel inadequate as parents. So I view this as their way of coping with themselves. now, on the flipside, the people who I hate that give this narrative that they know isn’t true or the bad actors. People that know about your situation or people that you’ve told your situation to voluntarily (which is always a bad idea.) they will tell you that you just gotta hang in there as a way to get you to shut up about your bitching. The reason why they do this is too fault. 1. It is legitimately kind of annoying to hear anyone complain about these problems because nobody likes desperate people. Even if you truly are suffering and it isn’t your fault.
2. If they’re men, then they don’t like the idea of this black pill being told to them. Most normie men inherently understand the situation that’s going on when it comes to the dating market, but they choose to ignore it. When people like us fool or just truthful and outspoken about what’s actually going on tell them then they get defensive. They don’t want to admit that the system they’re in is complete bullshit and that they are also being screwed over. They have the temporary embarrass millionaire mindset of gymaxxing and lookmaxing to success. In a way their dismissiveness towards us is a cope of their own.
2. If they’re men, then they don’t like the idea of this black pill being told to them. Most normie men inherently understand the situation that’s going on when it comes to the dating market, but they choose to ignore it. When people like us fool or just truthful and outspoken about what’s actually going on tell them then they get defensive. They don’t want to admit that the system they’re in is complete bullshit and that they are also being screwed over. They have the temporary embarrass millionaire mindset of gymaxxing and lookmaxing to success. In a way their dismissiveness towards us is a cope of their own.
