It's Over It was never about sex, but about the feeling of being wanted and loved.

[Ubermenschvirtues]

Many people think that incels complain only and solely because they cannot satisfy their sexual needs (which is practically true), but the main problem is quite different. Everyone feels anger remembering their teenage years, seeing their peers in serious relationships, being desired, experiencing love. And the only reason why you are not able to experience it is the asymmetry in your facial bone structure, your short height, and neurodivergent behavior, which is a consequence of how people treat you based on your appearance.

My passion and human nature give me hope, but when I use my reason, I quickly return to reality.

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

It is about sex though as sexual intimacy is part of being loved however inceldom is not just about the sex aspect of love.

 

[Grodd]

True tho being genuinely desired is something i will never have

 

[Ubermenschvirtues]

True tho being genuinely desired is something i will never have

thats the pain you can desire someone but its never the same about you

 

[hapakatt]

True.
I have always dreamed about having someone truly love me since I was just a kid due to the lack of affection growing up. Now, sex is just a part of what I desire. I also want to add that if anybody's superficial, it's normies who mostly care about sleeping around and social status. (The lack of intimacy is the main reason I don't wish to escortmaxx.)
What I want more than sex right now is just to hug a girl who genuinely cares about me. Then all my sorrows would be washed away. Hear her tell me that everything will be OK and that she will always be there for me.

 

[Ubermenschvirtues]

True.
I have always dreamed about having someone truly love me since I was just a kid due to the lack of affection growing up. Now, sex is just a part of what I desire. I also want to add that if anybody's superficial, it's normies who mostly care about sleeping around and social status. (The lack of intimacy is the main reason I don't wish to escortmaxx.)
What I want more than sex right now is just to hug a girl who genuinely cares about me. Then all my sorrows would be washed away. Hear her tell me that everything will be OK and that she will always be there for me.

brutal brutal

 

[Agrippa]

Many people think that incels complain only and solely because they cannot satisfy their sexual needs (which is practically true), but the main problem is quite different. Everyone feels anger remembering their teenage years, seeing their peers in serious relationships, being desired, experiencing love. And the only reason why you are not able to experience it is the asymmetry in your facial bone structure, your short height, and neurodivergent behavior, which is a consequence of how people treat you based on your appearance.

My passion and human nature give me hope, but when I use my reason, I quickly return to reality.

I agree with you, and the flaw is in the term “involuntarily celibate.” What we really want is a meaningful connection with someone of the opposite sex. Sex symbolically represents the total acceptance of our vulnerability, almost like an initiation ritual that tells us on some subconscious level that we belong, and that we matter.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

We have been saying this since forever. We don't want just sex, we want committed relationships.
The core of sexual activity's pleasure is the intimacy of it. This is why escortmaxxing isn't ideal, there's no intimacy from it, no validation. Meanwhile sexhavers banging their partners is better for them as it validates them being loved.

Btw IT has left a message for you:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1mxv21d/comment/na7v1yf/

Lemme' tell you something oop if you are to read this.

It is completely normal to desire human connections. Shit also happens. I have largely missed out on most social things in high school too.

Heck, for a time I was convinced I'm flat out unlovable.

But I was determined to help this situation. Some get it better the first time, some are just experiencing more and some not, that is just a fact of life.

However, this doesn't mean it is over or you have lost something you will never get back. It does feel like that, but it isn't that. It is more our fear than our reality.

I didn't have a normal date or kiss until i was 19. I lost my v card somewhat out of the blue when I was around 21, it is a more common experience than you might imagine.

But don't confuse this with luck. Effort played more part in this than luck ever did.

You should probably recognize the correlation between this and me never ever considering incel stuff and finding the connections I desire, versus you guys who just dig your own holes.

Am I constantly happy and satisfied who can get any woman I want? Of course not, that is not even really a thing. But the difference is if you work for it or not.

Effort sometimes really and often seemingly isn't bringing in an equivalent gain, but that doesn't mean we don't progress.

 

[NearestNeighbor]

I agree with you, and the flaw is in the term “involuntarily celibate.” What we really want is a meaningful connection with someone of the opposite sex. Sex symbolically represents the total acceptance of our vulnerability, almost like an initiation ritual that tells us on some subconscious level that we belong, and that we matter.

this this this
sex is not the goal, its the means we use the achieve maximum intimacy and acceptance, and we need these the most

 

[Tumor]

Water af

 

[Autistic Uggo]

The reason we emphasize the importance of sex is because it's pretty much the barometer of human social interaction. It determines how successful you will be in life. If you can't get any sex, you won't have decent relationships, friendships, or children. Being incel condemns you to a life of constant loneliness. It guarantees that you will die alone.

Normies are too stupid to understand this.

 

[mariomariuss]

I want to hold girls hand and walk during sunset

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

Men don't even have to be bad looking to be incels now days, women's standards are just so insane that not being exceptionally attractive is ugly in their eyes.

 

[soft]

What I want more than sex right now is just to hug a girl who genuinely cares about me. Then all my sorrows would be washed away. Hear her tell me that everything will be OK and that she will always be there for me.

 

[God's Lonely Man]

Foids are incapable of showing love

 

[Ubermenschvirtues]

Water af

"Posts 98"

 

[Ricecel Sungnodius]

Agree. Had a dream where I was cuddling with a girl, and she seemed interested in me. It was the best thing ever.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

If you can't get any sex, you won't have decent relationships, friendships, or children.

I forgot to mention the lack of respect. A man's social status is inherently tied to his sex life, and nobody respects virgin men. It is a complete social death sentence. An adult male virgin might as well be a leper.

 

[Deco]

One of the many reasons I still try to have lucid dreams.

The best part of my entire life were the dreams I had about loving and being loved.

 

[psyop]

View: https://youtu.be/748rwwNk9EU?t=67

 

[MisanthropicMemes]

True tho being genuinely desired is something i will never have

 

[Ubermenschvirtues]

We have been saying this since forever. We don't want just sex, we want committed relationships.
The core of sexual activity's pleasure is the intimacy of it. This is why escortmaxxing isn't ideal, there's no intimacy from it, no validation. Meanwhile sexhavers banging their partners is better for them as it validates them being loved.

Btw IT has left a message for you:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1mxv21d/comment/na7v1yf/

Im seeing this now lol

 

[nihilum]

True tho being genuinely desired is something i will never have