It is literally impossible to win as a sub5

[centitruke]

All of my “friends” hate me. They pretend they don’t but there’s no other explanation. They all treat me as if I’m lesser than they are and only talk to me when I happen to be around. They (especially the women) are so rude and mean and controlling and bossy, and dismissive of me. No one ever listens to me. They even get mad at me for choosing myself and not trusting them. They actually try to gaslight me into thinking they like me when it’s so obvious. The only reason I talk to any of them any more is because we work together so I can’t really ignore them.

The worst part is they all hate me because they think IM bossy, because ONE TIME I had to tell them to stop being so fucking loud at work. Everyone looooves this htb and they say she’s so nice and talented when the only thing I’ve ever experienced from her is rude, dismissive bossiness, and poor performance.

I am actually good at my job and people who I’ve proven that to still prefer her over me. There’s nothing I can do to make people like me. I’ve tried being “cool” and I’m forgotten about. I’ve tried being funny and people make a joke out of me. I’ve tried being commanding at people genuinely get upset at me for it and immediately let some Becky take charge. No one has any respect for me despite my clear superiority in my field and it’s all because of the way I look. And they’d say it’s because of the way I act but the way I act would be applauded if I were nice looking. Instead I am subjugated constantly and socially expected to like the people doing it to me.


It’s actually crazy that the people who have more respect for me are the people I barely know. It’s like the more someone has to look at me the more they hate me. But it makes sense, who wouldnt

 

[centitruke]

I am going to hop on steroids after this job is over and if my life improves I’ll never talk to any of them again and if it doesn’t I’ll probably ER

 

[UndeadDeadMan]

Consider switching jobs. I know it can be daunting depending on the industry you work in, because it means changing your entire routine AGAIN for the new job.

But it could be a way to reaffirm yourself and your dignity, and perhaps give yourself a raise. You're more likely to earn more money & faster by switching jobs, compared to waiting for a raise.

The people at your current job will never change, and they're relying on you to be their punching bag, just because you don't look like Clavicular or Chico. Don't give them the satisfaction. Also I don't consider coworkers to be friends.

 

[saito.]

All of my “friends” hate me. They pretend they don’t but there’s no other explanation. They all treat me as if I’m lesser than they are and only talk to me when I happen to be around. They (especially the women) are so rude and mean and controlling and bossy, and dismissive of me. No one ever listens to me. They even get mad at me for choosing myself and not trusting them. They actually try to gaslight me into thinking they like me when it’s so obvious. The only reason I talk to any of them any more is because we work together so I can’t really ignore them.

The worst part is they all hate me because they think IM bossy, because ONE TIME I had to tell them to stop being so fucking loud at work. Everyone looooves this htb and they say she’s so nice and talented when the only thing I’ve ever experienced from her is rude, dismissive bossiness, and poor performance.

I am actually good at my job and people who I’ve proven that to still prefer her over me. There’s nothing I can do to make people like me. I’ve tried being “cool” and I’m forgotten about. I’ve tried being funny and people make a joke out of me. I’ve tried being commanding at people genuinely get upset at me for it and immediately let some Becky take charge. No one has any respect for me despite my clear superiority in my field and it’s all because of the way I look. And they’d say it’s because of the way I act but the way I act would be applauded if I were nice looking. Instead I am subjugated constantly and socially expected to like the people doing it to me.


It’s actually crazy that the people who have more respect for me are the people I barely know. It’s like the more someone has to look at me the more they hate me. But it makes sense, who wouldnt

Having friend when u are a sub5 is just a humiliation ritual

 

[Izayacel]

Everyone will prefer a HTB over an 6 point man , let alone sub 5 . Society is gynocentric as fuck

 

[sirlancelot]

Stopped reading once you mentioned having friends

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Never had any friends.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Stopped reading once you mentioned having friends

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Stopped reading once you mentioned having friends

 

[Loner94]

It does suck being sub 5.

 

[darkpilledsoldier]

All of my “friends” hate me. They pretend they don’t but there’s no other explanation. They all treat me as if I’m lesser than they are and only talk to me when I happen to be around. They (especially the women) are so rude and mean and controlling and bossy, and dismissive of me. No one ever listens to me. They even get mad at me for choosing myself and not trusting them. They actually try to gaslight me into thinking they like me when it’s so obvious. The only reason I talk to any of them any more is because we work together so I can’t really ignore them.

The worst part is they all hate me because they think IM bossy, because ONE TIME I had to tell them to stop being so fucking loud at work. Everyone looooves this htb and they say she’s so nice and talented when the only thing I’ve ever experienced from her is rude, dismissive bossiness, and poor performance.

I am actually good at my job and people who I’ve proven that to still prefer her over me. There’s nothing I can do to make people like me. I’ve tried being “cool” and I’m forgotten about. I’ve tried being funny and people make a joke out of me. I’ve tried being commanding at people genuinely get upset at me for it and immediately let some Becky take charge. No one has any respect for me despite my clear superiority in my field and it’s all because of the way I look. And they’d say it’s because of the way I act but the way I act would be applauded if I were nice looking. Instead I am subjugated constantly and socially expected to like the people doing it to me.


It’s actually crazy that the people who have more respect for me are the people I barely know. It’s like the more someone has to look at me the more they hate me. But it makes sense, who wouldnt

They're not your friends. Even if they don't hate you, they disrespect you and bully you. They're just coworkers (at least the ones you describe here). Do you talk about anything outside of work with them? Have you ever hung out with them on a personal level?

If your work environment is not healthy, it's best that you find another job A.S.A.P., if you can!

An unhealthy work environment will make you sick! You must look out for your health (if I said it correctly, as English is not my native language)

 

[darkpilledsoldier]

Everyone will prefer a HTB over an 6 point man , let alone sub 5 . Society is gynocentric as fuck

Unfortunately yes!

 

[darkpilledsoldier]

It does suck being sub 5.

Yes, big time! It's a very low quality life!