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Serious Is there any way to forget all your past rejections/failures?

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Everytime i approach a girl, iam reminded of all the brutal rejections ive had. All the pain, agony, humiliation and suffering. Not that it makes a difference when its all about looks, but there is a thing such as setting yourself up for failure. (which happens subconsciously). When you have been painfully rejected so many times, your brain tries to protect you from such experiences in the future and hence you dont put in the effort.

Is there anyway to start fresh?
 
No

they will always be stuck in your mind, there is no escaping them.
 
No

they will always be stuck in your mind, there is no escaping them.
Literally. I remember every single rejection like they just happened. I have an insane memory for those negative experiences. I wish I had never tried
 
maybe alcohol or xanax
 
Nope. You will have to live with that pain forever.
 
Ya, you need to insert memory card, open browser and delete unnecessary saves
 
The only way I could think of finding copes that help you forget about women in general.
 
No

they will always be stuck in your mind, there is no escaping them.
this
Literally. I remember every single rejection like they just happened. I have an insane memory for those negative experiences. I wish I had never tried
same. I approached 60+ times. even to many ugly foids, it's very humiliating
 
OPIUM

You don’t forget but then you don’t care
 
Go into a coma and come out with amnesia. Done.

For the morons: I'm joking, don't try this.
 
Lobotomy will fix all your problems and memories
 
Have you ever approached a girl? Such a low inhibit
 
I dared to write to only one femoid. She rejected me. I still remember this.
 
I guess you can if you ascend with pure foid
 
Everytime i approach a girl, iam reminded of all the brutal rejections ive had. All the pain, agony, humiliation and suffering. Not that it makes a difference when its all about looks, but there is a thing such as setting yourself up for failure. (which happens subconsciously). When you have been painfully rejected so many times, your brain tries to protect you from such experiences in the future and hence you dont put in the effort.

Is there anyway to start fresh?

I wish. All my rejections were very brutal. Made me feel very uncomfortable even though I really didn't do anything to deserve it. Like ffs why the fuck everybody treating me like a subhuman what do you want me to do sit in my basement and rot all day? That is what this people want. They either want subhumans to be servants or to rot away from the rest of them. Fuck them all.
 
Rejection can give you PTSD. This is why rejection is even worse than heterosexual rape. Getting rejected is the worst thing that can happen to you and should be illegal
 
Rejection can give you PTSD. This is why rejection is even worse than heterosexual rape. Getting rejected is the worst thing that can happen to you and should be illegal

Rejection is a truly terrible thing to go through
 
Everytime i approach a girl, iam reminded of all the brutal rejections ive had. All the pain, agony, humiliation and suffering. Not that it makes a difference when its all about looks, but there is a thing such as setting yourself up for failure. (which happens subconsciously). When you have been painfully rejected so many times, your brain tries to protect you from such experiences in the future and hence you dont put in the effort.

Is there anyway to start fresh?
Well i dont think there is any way to a fresh start, but there comes a time when the cope is to accept failures and adjust ambitions to what reality is. However the pain of rejection doesnt fade, you become numb to it and look for ways to keep mind busy to suppress those hopeful thoughts that somewhere exists a foid that could love me.
 
Rejection can give you PTSD. This is why rejection is even worse than heterosexual rape. Getting rejected is the worst thing that can happen to you and should be illegal
Based
 
If you forgot you'd probably just go right back to being blue pilled
 
Quite possible but now i dont even approach foids.

This is like someone saying they broke a bone everytime they tried to do a skate trick, and they want to forget those injuries because - "now I don't even skate anymore"

Yeah, no shit, that's a good thing, why does it make sense to you, to do something you will most likely fail at and will only harm you
 
This is like someone saying they broke a bone everytime they tried to do a skate trick, and they want to forget those injuries because - "now I don't even skate anymore"

Yeah, no shit, that's a good thing, why does it make sense to you, to do something you will most likely fail at and will only harm you

Well how many approaches before one can give up? I dont think i have enough under my belt tbh.
 
Well how many approaches before one can give up? I dont think i have enough under my belt tbh.

"How many bones do you break before you stop skating bro, I don't think I've broken enough bones yet"

Have at it mate lol
 

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