It's Over Is there an event in your life that was like the ending point?

[Limitcel]

I think probably high school graduation
It was the end of my teenage years
Until the last day something could happen and I would become a functional adult but it didn't happen

 

[Gokubro]

Getting rejected

 

[lowz1r]

for me it was my first year of university. i had been extremely patient up until then.
lying to myself and deluding myself constantly.
but after going the whole year getting rejected every single time with 0 foid attention, i rage quit.

 

[Icarus]

I never really thought much about life until after high school. I figured that things would get better, but they never did.

I guess the main event was after getting brutally rejected by my (used to be) oneitis. I always hoped I would find "love" and all that other gay shit.

But alas I am here.

 

[Cuckoja]

First time at 14-15 is when I realized that I will never be like my peers and I dropped out of school and started ldaring. I gave up on idea of having a remotely normal life.

Second time when my mom died and I realized how fragile and pointless life is. Since then more than 10 family members and cousins died. It makes me feel surrounded by death. Since then I gave up completely on life.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Watching a girl I had a huge crush go on a date with some other guy as I ate my lunch alone

 

[LonelyATM]

i think 13 years old, everyone in the class would distribute birthday party invitations to all classmates except me on purpose, just so they could spend the week saying "hey man did you not go to Jasmine's birthday party? "and laugh.
this lasted two fucking years, every time some guy or girl had a birthday party i knew the mocking would intensify for some days.

 

[lennox]

First time at 14-15 is when I realized that I will never be like my peers and I dropped out of school and started ldaring. I gave up on idea of having a remotely normal life.

Same. I realized in my late teens that everything about me - my successes, my friends, my dates, and my fate, was decided a long time ago, before I was even born. I'm now riding along, floating, going nowhere in particular

 

[Cuckoja]

Same. I realized in my late teens that everything about me - my successes, my friends, my dates, and my fate, was decided a long time ago, before I was even born. I'm now riding along, floating, going nowhere in particular

 

[fructose]

i think 13 years old, everyone in the class would distribute birthday party invitations to all classmates except me on purpose, just so they could spend the week saying "hey man did you not go to Jasmine's birthday party? "and laugh.
this lasted two fucking years, every time some guy or girl had a birthday party i knew the mocking would intensify for some days.

Holy shit thats sad. fucking brutal

 

[fructose]

graduation almost made me off myself, it fucked with me immensely

 

[Limitcel]

graduation almost made me off myself, it fucked with me immensely

its like, "now the best days of my life ended and now im going to enter in a work hell for the rest of my life"

 

[Feeshtu]

The moment of truth for me was when I started working.
I was so happy to be done with school, and I though that it would be better out in the adult world.

But, working only made me feel worse.
All my coworkers friends with each other and I am the one cast out.

The bullying at my security job, at a casino, was so bad that the head of security put me in a building by myself.
He was the only one who liked me.

So, I was the only security guard in that area until I left that job.

 

[stranger]

So true. It’s not like the majority of us had a good time. It’s that the environment you grew up in for a decade is now gone.