Discussion Is there a point no return with being antisocial?

[1TZ0VER]

It's literally been years since I've had a normal relationship with people my own age (5 years to be exact)
Now I literally can't socialise at all anymore which has kinda created a spiral affect, it's gotten so bad now that people don't even look real anymore.

What makes it even worse is I'm the most boring person to probably ever exist, I don't game, excel at a sport or have any hobbies so I quite literally just wait for time t g by and I've been doing this for years while peers where developing vital social skills

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Yes, once you get past college age ~23 and your social options have dried up, it's over. You're too far behind and any opportunities to catch up are nearly non-existent.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Yes, once you get past college age ~23 and your social options have dried up, it's over. You're too far behind and any opportunities to catch up are nearly non-existent.

It's the inconvenient, brutal truth. I'm 27. NEVER had any social experiences (no friends in HS), now I study fully online/distance learning. I'm short, ugly, non-NT, boring. You are correct.

 

[kay']

Been around 5 years for me too.

mix of dementia and paranoia are developping in me.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

It sucks when you see everyone else around you having fun and developing their social skills while you're just stuck in a rut. It's like you're watching everyone else move forward while you're stuck in this time loop.

 

[1TZ0VER]

Been around 5 years for me too.

mix of dementia and paranoia are developping in me.

I'm the exact same, I genuinely feel like some sort of lab experiment when speaking to people no exaggeration

 

[Nikalas]

Does it matter? Personality doesn't matter anyways

 

[1TZ0VER]

It sucks when you see everyone else around you having fun and developing their social skills while you're just stuck in a rut. It's like you're watching everyone else move forward while you're stuck in this time loop.

Mfw it's been 2 years of 'the best years of your life' and I'm still stuck at home with 0 people to talk to