Only a small handful are saved upon the day of salvation aka the spiritual preordained chad so to speak or the parenta rule of 80:20 or the so called 144,000 being saved only.
The whole 144K thing is based off of a weirdly specific thing. In biblical days, the did had a different concept of infinity/very large numbers.
The 144k is not a specific number, it means a generic "large amount". The 144k comes from 12x12x12x10x10. I have not a slightest clue on why that is. My pastor talked about it in college, apparently that's how they visualized/described it. I wish I remembered the exact explanation, apologies.
Anyways, I'm a Lutheran (LCMS) and we get accused of having Calvinistic beliefs (including Catholics misquoting Luther to suggest he did not believe in true free will) all the time. We believe in salvation by grace (
sola gratia), which is not works based. Many incels subscribe to a similar belief about good-looking men... they are born, not made. No amount of effort will get you to heaven, and no amount of looksmaxing can truly overcome bad genes.
Anyways, relating to inceldom, I think the pareto principle applies well here in terms of predestination. I think that 80% of SMV is genetic and 20% is changeable (80% nature, 20% nurture). Though you will always look act act
generally like you "should", you can affect things by changes in actions and lifestyle. For example, being overweight could affect your SMV that is not genetic (despite what fat SJWs might say). If you have improper oral posture during your youth, your face could trend downward instead of forward. This is actually very translatable to LCMS beliefs, which I support. LCMS says that we all have the Holy Spirit guiding us, but we can also direct ourselves away from God. We cannot choose to come to God (like we cannot choose to have Chad genetics), but we can choose to go away from him (we can throw away good genetics by being fat, unhealthy, not mewing, etc.). The wages of sin is death, after all.
That all said I don't like Calvinists but their views translate to the blackpill surprisingly well.