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Story Is middle school the age other people realized it might be over?

CringeLordOfSuck

CringeLordOfSuck

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It was that way for me. In like 6th grade, I was at lunch. Mind you, I was 12 years old at the time. And at the table next to me, I overheard a girl from one of my classes talking to her friends and giggling. One of her friends comes up to me like “hey (name of girl) likes you). Then she went back to the table, I noticed (girl) was embarrassed and annoyed at this friend. As I was leaving lunch, I heard (girl) say “don’t say that, I don’t want people to think I like him.

I presumed this was about my looks and personality at the time, and it made me realize that perhaps I wasn’t gonna get a girlfriend like I wanted.
 
Elementary school for me.
 
By the time your puberty is completed, the results are set in stone.
If youre not excelling at sports, studies or charming others, yeah, it's done
 
When I was 16 I became a black-pilled, not regarding relationships but the universe in general. To me, relationships are only an aspect of the complete black-pill.
 
In middle school my female classmates made a list of the cutest boys in class and i was dead last.

Yes.
 
It was that way for me. In like 6th grade, I was at lunch. Mind you, I was 12 years old at the time. And at the table next to me, I overheard a girl from one of my classes talking to her friends and giggling. One of her friends comes up to me like “hey (name of girl) likes you). Then she went back to the table, I noticed (girl) was embarrassed and annoyed at this friend. As I was leaving lunch, I heard (girl) say “don’t say that, I don’t want people to think I like him.
I used to hang out all the time with an attractive boy and girls would always show him attention and ignore or be visually uninterested in me. But I never accepted the lookspill until much more recently. In middle school, a foid with a southern accent rated the three guys in the class. I got a 4/10 and another one got a 8/10.
 
Middle school is a brutal confirmation but the signs already showed up in elementary
 
Nearing college graduation for me. All highschool and college I couldnt even buy a foid's attention. I went with the whole bullpilled nice niceguy act to be romantic. Once even got kicked in the balls for it, literally. Still tried. By the end of college I realized this might just be my whole life
 
for me i already kinda knew from middle school it was kinda over for me as i saw guys with girls, but no girl talked with me, but the high school was were i became blackpilled when i knew it was really over as i watched around me and only tall guys, taller than me with better face than mine had girls
 
There were 3 stages of this in my life:
11 years old: Stopped being a "cute kid", started being bullied and noticed that all girls suddenly stopped talking to myself(including some of my best childhood "friends").
14 years old: Started becoming uglier, severely depressed, started isolating myself completely and the worse, noticed that i was shorter than almost anyone and would be a short adult. My chilhood was finally over and my only cope was metal/angry music, couldn't even enjoy gaming anymore.
21 years old: Isolated again since i couldn't even fit with the introverts at college, created an account on incels.is, finally get truly blackpilled and accepted that it was truly over.
 
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Around that time yes, though being so bluepilled and in denial at the time you try your best to live in denial and ignore it, wanting the life and planing for something you would never have. college is the point where if things don't change, you have to accept it.
 
I was probably about that age, when I first started to notice that girls didn't think I was cool.

I mean, nobody was having sex at 12. But I started to notice that some very charismatic little boys in class seemed to have "it"...

"It" being, something that made all the little girls crave his attention, but not mine.

That didn't change as we all progressed through our teens.
 
The signs were there early on. I remember this specific incident in 5th grade where this one girl in my class had to sit next to me in music class. She was visibly repulsed by it, gave me a sideeye and moved her chair as far away from me as possible.
At that time I was 11 years old and didn't understand what was going on lol
 

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