Is low self esteem as an incel justified?

[TheyStarveUs]

When you're treated like crap growing up and rejected I don't know how it's possible not to have low self esteem.

 

[EnglishCel]

Yes. How am I supposed to have self esteem when i'm treated like shit?

 

[ZtarvationArmy]

When you're treated like crap growing up and rejected I don't know how it's possible not to have low self esteem.

It's irrational but hard not to experience

 

[PLA1092]

It's irrational but hard not to experience

This. Most of us are inherently the same as any other person, we've just been forced into our current situation by foids and cucks for losing out on the genetic lottery. Happens a lot when people talk about being "genetically inferior" when 60 IQ Tyrone is going around knocking up dozens of Beckies at a time and they're just fine with it.

 

[TheyStarveUs]

Optimally it's best to have good self esteem but realistically you won't have it if you truly are treated poorly everywhere you go whether it be school or work.
It is not an easy feat to override the self-doubting thoughts that normies try to implant in your mind and may require a lifetime of learning to develop a thick skin when insulted and disrespected constantly by normies.
Normies use this against us as a form of mental warfare. A man's mind who is confused and unsure of himself is an easy target.
Doesn't help that we as incels don't have a proper mental structure to turn to other than sharing the Blackpill amongst. Many here share different beliefs and that creates a lack of foundation mentally.

We are like a ship that isn't anchored and is pushed whichever direction depending on the wind.
The ship will be destroyed eventually.
There is a lack of unity in common belief. We are divided and are mentally haunted by a confused mind.

As a community we should take the time to develop solutions on how to fight back against normies in this mental warfare rather than us just loitering about and kicking rocks.
For an example a MegaThread on how to deal with bullying at work with thought out solutions for different situations would be invaluable and can not only promote good discussion but for the many future users who join to use and refer to in their tough times.

We need solutions or ways to minimize the pain at the very least. We have to fight back. Yes it is over for us and we should give up but if you let these normies do whatever they want you'll be the one suffering not them. We have to set the boundaries.

High IQ. We need a incel survivial guide.

 

[TouhouMathcel]

This. Most of us are inherently the same as any other person, we've just been forced into our current situation by foids and cucks for losing out on the genetic lottery. Happens a lot when people talk about being "genetically inferior" when 60 IQ Tyrone is going around knocking up dozens of Beckies at a time and they're just fine with it.

High IQ post

 

[NorthernWind]

No one can build a house without a foundation but for some reason normies think that you can have 'self-esteem' out of thin air.
People who are successful either in sports or in studying, or are popular among the peers and have romantic success at least can base their self-esteem on something.

 

[Puppeter]

Its normal man wish i was a low inhib mogger that never cared about anything

 

[asdfghjqbbbb]

yes