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Is it weird to handout with 20-21 year college kids as a 30 year old man?

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This 21 year old man invited me to hangout with him , his girlfriend and his friend yesterday for beer. He doesn't know my age.

Is it weird? Also I look pretty young for my age. Most people say I look around 24-27, which is why he probably invited me(he expected me to be younger)
 
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Can't say
I don't hangout with normies
 
Normies will say you're a pedo for some reason
 
I would say i am 29 for psychological effect lf being in your 20s. This way you would also not look too old for your age. If look young maybe tr 27 or 28
 
Fakecel if normies want to hang out with you IRL.
 
I would say i am 29 for psychological effect lf being in your 20s. This way you would also not look too old for your age. If look young maybe tr 27 or 28
True, but what if they find out?

I would say that I look 26.
 
I won't say he's a "pedo" ofc, but to be fair hanging out with people almost a decade younger than you is kinda eh imo

I mean, that's just such a huge age gap
Even if it is weird, what do you want me to say, no to his invitation and rot at home on the weekends like usual?

You sound like those reddit, foid retards.
 
Even if it is weird, what do you want me to say, no to his invitation and rot at home on the weekends like usual?
I mean go for it I wasn't implying you shouldn't but imo a decade is a big age gap for a friendship irl

Go for it, but don't expect much tbh
 
True, but what if they find out?

I would say that I look 26.
Say you are 26 then. Or do you plan to hang out regularly? I lie whenever i can you seriously underestimate how often you will get away if you just double down and are confident about it
 
I mean go for it I wasn't implying you shouldn't but imo a decade is a big age gap for a friendship irl

Go for it, but don't expect much tbh
True, I don't expect much because I work full time. But if we can hangout once a week or every other week that would be pretty cool. Better than rotting at home all weekend long.
 
Ah here we go again, I'm sick of oppression olympics here
Yea if you are not a 4'9" deformed autistic currycell you are fakecel bro. If you don't have my specific failo you are fakecel bro because my faill is the worst
 
Say you are 26 then. Or do you plan to hang out regularly? I lie whenever i can you seriously underestimate how often you will get away if you just double down and are confident about it
True, i'll just say 29. Thanks for the advice.

26 seems like too much of a lie tbh. What if they find out?
 
I am a 30 year old virgin.

How can I be a fakecel? lol
Ah here we go again, I'm sick of oppression olympics here
Even average looking people can be a virgin for various reasons and that's not even the most important criteria. Being incel means being ugly which also includes not being able to kiss or date women on top of not having friends and being rejected by society. If you just go by arbitrary virgin criteria, you are just another failed possibly even larping normie that will soon be banned after exposing himself. I look forward to seeing you leave within 6 months to a year. @TheGrayWolf thoughts?
 
Even average looking people can be a virgin for various reasons and that's not even the most important criteria. Being incel means being ugly which also includes not being able to kiss or date women on top of not having friends and being rejected by society. If you just go by arbitrary virgin criteria, you are just another failed possibly even larping normie that will soon be banned after exposing himself. I look forward to seeing you leave within 6 months to a year.
I don't think that he invited me to hangout based on my looks, I think he did so because we have good conversations and have similar interests.
 
You young man, I'll be 36 in a few days. :feelskek:
When I was 21, I had a roommate in the homeless shelter who was 30. We drank together regularly, it was no problem at all.
 
I don't think that he invited me to hangout based on my looks, I think he did so because we have good conversations and have similar interests.
Think about it if people can tolerate hanging around with you, then you are not ugly. You might be 4/10 at worst, I can tell you right now that when my face was between 4-5/10 at least a few people would tolerate me, even with my social skills. Of course, I got uglier with age and cosmetic surgery and despite every attempt to socialize I am 3-4/10 facially so it's impossible to even have long conversations with people let alone have them invite me anywhere. People are disgusted and embarassed to be seen around you when you are sub4, the fact someone with a gf is willing to hang out with you indicates you are not ugly and can ascend. So, congratulations.
 
Think about it if people can tolerate hanging around with you, then you are not ugly. You might be 4/10 at worst, I can tell you right now that when my face was between 4-5/10 at least a few people would tolerate me, even with my social skills. Of course, I got uglier with age and cosmetic surgery and despite every attempt to socialize I am 3-4/10 facially so it's impossible to even have long conversations with people let alone have them invite me anywhere. People are disgusted and embarassed to be seen around you when you are sub4, the fact someone with a gf is willing to hang out with you indicates you are not ugly and can ascend. So, congratulations.
What kind of cosmetic surgeries did you have? I am considering dermal fillers when I turn 35.
 
This 21 year old man invited me to hangout with him , his girlfriend and his friend yesterday for beer. He doesn't know my age.

Is it weird? Also I look pretty young for my age. Most people say I look around 24-27, which is why he probably invited me(he expected me to be younger)
No only femoids Care about such. Nonsense...


You are in this website are you not taking with boy and men ranging from 14 to 44

The topic of discussion the vibz interests hobbies is what matters
 
This 21 year old man invited me to hangout with him , his girlfriend and his friend yesterday for beer. He doesn't know my age.

Is it weird? Also I look pretty young for my age. Most people say I look around 24-27, which is why he probably invited me(he expected me to be younger)
I’m 20 bro I’d meet up with you (but I understand you’re situation)
 
I'm 28 and did something similar with a group of friends that were 5 years younger. Would not recommend, i felt so out of place. Meanwhile they smoked weed and talked about normie songs, i just wanted to be playing videogames.

But if you have similar interests and you don't like to be alone you could try it out, the worst think that could happen is that you'll get bored


Think about it if people can tolerate hanging around with you, then you are not ugly. You might be 4/10 at worst, I can tell you right now that when my face was between 4-5/10 at least a few people would tolerate me, even with my social skills. Of course, I got uglier with age and cosmetic surgery and despite every attempt to socialize I am 3-4/10 facially so it's impossible to even have long conversations with people let alone have them invite me anywhere. People are disgusted and embarassed to be seen around you when you are sub4, the fact someone with a gf is willing to hang out with you indicates you are not ugly and can ascend. So, congratulations.
You're quite wrong here my friend, while they tolerate you as you put it if you don't have a deformed face, saying that you can ascend is blowing things out of proportion.

To take me as an example i'm 4/10 5'4 and never had any problems talking with males, what's more i talked with some females as well. All of my interactions with women resulted in failure to connect, not only that but they did not gave 2 shits about me ever. Males we're always interesed in talking with me, with females even if we had common interest they always did not give 2 shits. Always borings yes/no conversations, they did not care if i was there with them at all.

So while people will tolerate you and maybe accept your presence that's as far as you can go. I understand that maybe you have had difficulties with making friends and what not and i also know that the lower in the lookscale you are the less people will want to be around you, it's a shitty fact but it's true. Now that you have it so much better being 1 point above it's just plain ridiculous.

I also had to watch so many so fucking many painful interactions thanks to being 'invited' to do things. So i think being 30 yo, virgin and friendless enough to consider meeting with people a decade younger speaks volumes about his value as a man.
 
Honestly nope. I was gaming buddies with college aged dudes when I was like 13-14. They weren't pedophiles or trying to groom me. I still talk to them whenever they are on, but they are all in their 30s now and are very busy IRL, so that is barely.
 
Think about it if people can tolerate hanging around with you, then you are not ugly. You might be 4/10 at worst, I can tell you right now that when my face was between 4-5/10 at least a few people would tolerate me, even with my social skills. Of course, I got uglier with age and cosmetic surgery and despite every attempt to socialize I am 3-4/10 facially so it's impossible to even have long conversations with people let alone have them invite me anywhere. People are disgusted and embarassed to be seen around you when you are sub4, the fact someone with a gf is willing to hang out with you indicates you are not ugly and can ascend. So, congratulations.
you have a weird personality, aksheet
 
Even average looking people can be a virgin for various reasons and that's not even the most important criteria. Being incel means being ugly which also includes not being able to kiss or date women on top of not having friends and being rejected by society. If you just go by arbitrary virgin criteria, you are just another failed possibly even larping normie that will soon be banned after exposing himself. I look forward to seeing you leave within 6 months to a year. @TheGrayWolf thoughts?
Agree! There's a whole different dynamic if you are "different" (most of all in terms of looks) than what is considered normal, and that doesn't mean below average. It's worse. Being just a "virgin" doesn't mean much (could be a hundred reasons including stinking), but being an incel or truecel, in the literal and not the political/popular culture sense, means your overall body (in particular the face) is the cause of you being excluded from and by society. This includes any romantic contact with or interest from women.
 
btw, this was just by chance that I saw you tag me (I scrolled through the thread), I didn't get a notification.
Even average looking people can be a virgin for various reasons and that's not even the most important criteria. Being incel means being ugly which also includes not being able to kiss or date women on top of not having friends and being rejected by society. If you just go by arbitrary virgin criteria, you are just another failed possibly even larping normie that will soon be banned after exposing himself. I look forward to seeing you leave within 6 months to a year. @TheGrayWolf thoughts?
 
I'm would go, cause having any kind of social circle is crucial to fitting in with society. Lie about your age if you think you need to. Keep in mind you might get caught lying. Then it would be weird.

If you are isolated, inceldom is almost guaranteed. If you have friends, there's a chance to escape inceldom.
 
I'm would go, cause having any kind of social circle is crucial to fitting in with society. Lie about your age if you think you need to. Keep in mind you might get caught lying. Then it would be weird.

If you are isolated, inceldom is almost guaranteed. If you have friends, there's a chance to escape inceldom.
I went and it was pretty decent. I told them that I was 30 and the guy seemed a little surprised, but never cared.
 

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