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Serious Is it possible to be happy as an incel?

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Incel is of course involuntarily celibate, which means you want something but you're being rejected. Social Rejection hurts the same part of the brain as physical pain. So if you were constantly being hurt physically, could you be happy? NO. Similarly, if you're being deprived of basic sex and affection, you're being told "you're inferior and not worth loving". How could you be happy with that? It's impossible.

The only way to be "happy" is through religion, because by delusionmaxxing, you've convinced yourself you're a "volcel" (you're not). In fact, I remember reading on IncelTears someone saying their two depressed friends were sexhavers but their one friend was a male virgin but religious and happy. The thing is though, unless he's a Chad, he wouldn't be able to get laid if he wanted. So in all likelihood, he's just ignorant of his subhumanity.

There really is no way for incels to be happy, you can cope with porn, vidya, fapping, but deep down there will always be a hole in your heart that will never be fixed.
 
I think so. Sarge thinks so. He'd like to promote some talk about "the whitepill" if we're open to it.
 
Maybe with enough drugs and escorts
 
Idk , But definitely not for me
 
Happiness is a petty goal
 
For certain people I think it is.

Christopher Thomas Knight a.k.a the North Pond Hermit seemed like he was perfectly happy living in the woods until the normies forced him to come back to their sick society and "pay for his crimes" which basically boiled down to his taking food from various cabins since you basically can't fully live off the land these days and are basically forced to interact with elements of society in order to survive in the wild now.
 
Maybe if ur a retarded and deluded bluepilled incel, if ur blackpilled i don't think so maybe if u monkmaxx or gain the lottery
 
Maybe if ur a retarded and deluded bluepilled incel, if ur blackpilled i don't think so maybe if u monkmaxx or gain the lottery
this, and drugs,
 
I'd vote "yes" only if someone is capable of authentic self delusion. I can no longer relate to how this works. Once the cat is out of the bag and you acknowledge it, it's very hard to pretend it's still contained.
 
Takes time. You need to be at the last stage of grief. Acceptance.

Drugs will mask the feelings that you need to learn to deal with.
And hookers are exactly the same IMO.

In the end thinking about your non existent relationships will always make you sad, but you can at least enjoy whatever else you can get, without dwelling too much on that.
 
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You can be happy as an incel the moment you have enough money to surgerymaxx. Until then, your life is pure pain and darkness and death is preferable.
 
Maybe if ur a retarded and deluded bluepilled incel, if ur blackpilled i don't think so maybe if u monkmaxx or gain the lottery

Winning the lottery will break inceldom.

LMS=Looks, Money, Status. Obviously looks are most important, but if you're super rich or super statusmaxxed you will break free

Also you could get plastic surgery potentially to become normal looking or maybe even above average
 
No, you'll have hapinness moments, but most of the time you'll be unhappy
 
Winning the lottery will break inceldom.

LMS=Looks, Money, Status. Obviously looks are most important, but if you're super rich or super statusmaxxed you will break free

Also you could get plastic surgery potentially to become normal looking or maybe even above average
U would still be a betabuxx but i guess ur right monkmaxxing is the only way then to remain an incel and be happy
 
U would still be a betabuxx but i guess ur right monkmaxxing is the only way then to remain an incel and be happy

You don't have to betabuxx necessarily, you can just "date" a woman and fuck her a few times then not marry her then move to the next gold digger
 
You don't have to betabuxx necessarily, you can just "date" a woman and fuck her a few times then not marry her then move to the next gold digger
If ur a truecel u still have to pay for dates and probably gifts to convince a whore to fuck u tbh. Ur not betabuxxing but kinda i mean there isn't a lot of difference with escortceling
 
some ppl are reclusive and introverted by nature. they don't need social validation to find meaning and purpose in life.
 
If ur a truecel u still have to pay for dates and probably gifts to convince a whore to fuck u tbh. Ur not betabuxxing but kinda i mean there isn't a lot of difference with escortceling

Very true. You can rawdog her though and get her to suck you off without a condom. Although it's important not to cum inside her cause then she'll get pregnant and you'll have to pay child support
 
Incel is of course involuntarily celibate, which means you want something but you're being rejected. Social Rejection hurts the same part of the brain as physical pain. So if you were constantly being hurt physically, could you be happy? NO. Similarly, if you're being deprived of basic sex and affection, you're being told "you're inferior and not worth loving". How could you be happy with that? It's impossible.

The only way to be "happy" is through religion, because by delusionmaxxing, you've convinced yourself you're a "volcel" (you're not). In fact, I remember reading on IncelTears someone saying their two depressed friends were sexhavers but their one friend was a male virgin but religious and happy. The thing is though, unless he's a Chad, he wouldn't be able to get laid if he wanted. So in all likelihood, he's just ignorant of his subhumanity.

There really is no way for incels to be happy, you can cope with porn, vidya, fapping, but deep down there will always be a hole in your heart that will never be fixed.
the saying "ignorance is bliss" applies here, but thats impossible in this day and age unless you tedkaczynskimaxx and completely seperate yourself from soyciety.
 
the saying "ignorance is bliss" applies here, but thats impossible in this day and age unless you tedkaczynskimaxx and completely seperate yourself from soyciety.

Unfortunately you have to know that it is important to separate from soyciety and to do that you must realize how much soyciety sucks
 
Drugmaxxing and videogames I guess
 
If we were rich, we could just bang escorts 24/7 (still not ascension though)
 
Contentment is the best we can expect.

To "be happy with" our shituation to the best of our ability. It's a cope
 
If we were rich, we could just bang escorts 24/7 (still not ascension though)

Does taking a gold digger on "dates" and banging her count?
 
NO, there is no such thing as happiness for any ugly male, those who say they are just cope very hard.
 
Temporary relief? Yes. Happiness? No
 
I'm happy sometimes when i'm coping.But true happiness is out of our reach probably.
 
you can fake the happiness with good copes, it's just a shoot of serotonin.
 
one can only be truly happy when he is with the ultimate good.You guys are coping if you think chad is the apex of *human life*.
one can only be truly happy when he is with the ultimate good.You guys are coping if you think chad is the apex of *human life*.
 
one can only be truly happy when he is with the ultimate good.You guys are coping if you think chad is the apex of *human life*.
one can only be truly happy when he is with the ultimate good.You guys are coping if you think chad is the apex of *human life*.

You're coping big time buddy boyo
You're coping big time buddy boyo
 
Only as a volcel, but not as an incel
 
If you take drugs yes.
 
@quinn24 is it true heroin makes you happy?
 
You're coping big time buddy boyo
You're coping big time buddy boyo
just look at celebrities.they are getting cucked,cucking each other,scamming each other,slandering each other.that which is truly happy does not go through a series of highs and downs,that which is trully happy is one state of ultimate happiness forever and ever
 
just look at celebrities.they are getting cucked,cucking each other,scamming each other,slandering each other.that which is truly happy does not go through a series of highs and downs,that which is trully happy is one state of ultimate happiness forever and ever

No one lives forever, we all die.
 
thousands of philosophers have thought that the soul is immortal.Do not be conceinted,for these people have studied arguments for immortality till their death and some of them have also been amazing *Scientists*.For most immortality was not a matter of faith but something that could be found by sheer reason.
 
Sometimes i can be happy but most of the time im not
 
thousands of philosophers have thought that the soul is immortal.Do not be conceinted,for these people have studied arguments for immortality till their death and some of them have also been amazing *Scientists*.For most immortality was not a matter of faith but something that could be found by sheer reason.

And they found this out how?
 
True. I was happier when i was bluepilled
 

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