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Serious Is it possible for an escort to still like you as a person, even though you aren’t attractive?

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Like if I saw an escort will she deep down hate my guts not only because I don’t look good but also because of my shyness, social awkwardness and low self-esteem? Or do escorts sometimes at the very least enjoy the company of their...less fortunate clients?

I know this sounds cucked but I feel like this would be on my mind the entire time. Even if she was acting nice I would be paranoid about what she thought about me. I just feel uncomfortable about sleeping with a woman who dislikes me. And when I say dislike I don’t just mean not attracted to me, but hates me entirely.
 
Do janitors like the people that they are cleaning up after?
These sluts only see you as a gross moneybags that she needs to fuck to get what she needs
 
Do janitors like the people that they are cleaning up after?
These sluts only see you as a gross moneybags that she needs to fuck to get what she needs
Most people don’t hate janitors they just don’t think about them
man seeing an escort sounds demoralizing for me
 
Probably, but in a non-sexual non-romantic way.
See this is cucked as fuck but even if she isn’t attracted to me and the sex is awful I’d at least like a hooker to enjoy spending time with me
Fuck I am so stupid
I’d probably end up venting and crying in front of an escort and I would be so embarrassed and she’d hate that because she like all other women don’t wanna be a therapist or shoulder to cry on
 
Dunno. Ask your local escort. And don't bring cash.
 
She thinks you have a good personality, teehee
 
Are you trying to fall in love with an escort?
 
Sounds like a good way to get killed by a pimp
Sounds like you already know your answer then . If she even cared for you as a person she wouldn't let you....... You know. Get Killed?
 
Are you trying to fall in love with an escort?
No.
but friends? ehh I could probably befriend a whore since I would never date one
Are you forgetting that all women hate all ugly men no matter what? Are you even a little blackpilled? Why even ask this?
Because I’m lonely and trying to find a reason why seeing a whore would make me happy
I regret making this thread
 
If you're a regular that pays well and has good hygiene and a cordial friendly personality I'm sure she'd come to like you over time.

If only on a "you poor guy" level.

And a "I'm grateful I've got such a loyal well paying customer" level.

Thats probably the best escortcels can ever hope for.
 
They only like ur money, they are disgusted by having sex with u so they probably dislike u very much
 
Dude, it doesn't matter what they think, you are paying them. Also the best thing about fucking escorts is when they arrive at your place and you see her face turn into a frown because she realizes she's gonna have to fuck a fat ugly guy and she's already been paid so she can't back out. Seriously, revel in the moments, make her feel as comfortable as possible.
 
They only like ur money, they are disgusted by having sex with u so they probably dislike u very much
they probably view as a roach.
 
Like if I saw an escort will she deep down hate my guts
not only because I don’t look good
but also because of my shyness,
social awkwardness and
low self-esteem?
I think hating people for being shy or having low self-esteem is pretty rare. They'll get bullied, but I think that's more about establishing dominance than hatred. People like that simply have a lack of regard for others (shy or not) but the shy guys get the harassment.

Awkwardness is too big a brush to give a simple answer on. It depends on what the awkwardness is. If social awkwardness is something like farting in her presence and not apologizing, then maybe she'll hate that, sure.

Or do escorts sometimes at the very least enjoy the company of their...less fortunate clients?
I'm sure the ones who enjoy their job enough to cope with it long-term tend to be more openminded and understanding of clients. Even if you don't necessarily get her wet like chad, she might think of you like her little ugly little brother, like a pet pug who she might be gentle too, but still thinks it's gross if he kisses her.

I know this sounds cucked but I feel like this would be on my mind the entire time.
It's not cucked to care, it's just cucked if you try to pretend she didn't just come from fucking Chad and will be going to fuck him later that night. Cucking at its root is about deception. If you come in with an open mind, then it's just cope not cuck.

Even if she was acting nice I would be paranoid about what she thought about me.
I just feel uncomfortable about sleeping with a woman who dislikes me.
And when I say dislike I don’t just mean not attracted to me, but hates me entirely.
If it helps, keep in mind she can't hate you ENTIRELY because she doesn't know you entirely.

She simply has a basic outline of who you seem to be, based on limited information. She'll get to know you better over time.

That might mean hating you less, it might mean hating you more, all depends on how you mesh.
 
I think hating people for being shy or having low self-esteem is pretty rare. They'll get bullied, but I think that's more about establishing dominance than hatred. People like that simply have a lack of regard for others (shy or not) but the shy guys get the harassment.

Awkwardness is too big a brush to give a simple answer on. It depends on what the awkwardness is. If social awkwardness is something like farting in her presence and not apologizing, then maybe she'll hate that, sure.


I'm sure the ones who enjoy their job enough to cope with it long-term tend to be more openminded and understanding of clients. Even if you don't necessarily get her wet like chad, she might think of you like her little ugly little brother, like a pet pug who she might be gentle too, but still thinks it's gross if he kisses her.


It's not cucked to care, it's just cucked if you try to pretend she didn't just come from fucking Chad and will be going to fuck him later that night. Cucking at its root is about deception. If you come in with an open mind, then it's just cope not cuck.


If it helps, keep in mind she can't hate you ENTIRELY because she doesn't know you entirely.

She simply has a basic outline of who you seem to be, based on limited information. She'll get to know you better over time.

That might mean hating you less, it might mean hating you more, all depends on how you mesh.
Lolwut women despise shy awkward dudes unless they’re hot

she will only at best pretend to like you because you are paying her and she won’t get paid by being shitty. she will still probably find you and the entire ideal horrid but will never admit it. If she didn’t then you wouldn’t have to pay her in the first place. She will more than likely mock you when talking with her whore friends. And that’s if you’re lucky enough to get a decent one who won’t laugh at you or insult you.
 
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Lolwut women despise shy awkward dudes unless they’re hot
I don't think they despise them so long as they stay in the lanes the females designate for them. IE shuffling around not making eye contact without permission, dropping everything to serve them, etc.
 
OP stop watching too much movies. No whore loves ugly men. To them, you're a regular ugly disgusting pig with whom they have to sleep for money.
 
I don't think they despise them so long as they stay in the lanes the females designate for them. IE shuffling around not making eye contact without permission, dropping everything to serve them, etc.
No they just want to get the experience over with and have him fuck off because they despise him
OP stop watching too much movies. No whore loves ugly men. To them, you're a regular ugly disgusting pig with whom they have to sleep for money.
This
 
JFL @ developing a personal relationship with an escort.

JFL.
 
JFL @ developing a relationship with an escort.

JFL.
I would never date one ever but idk man I feel bummed about a woman holding back her disgust with me and shitting on me to her friends when she’s not getting paid to fuck me
 
they just want to get the experience over with
and have him fuck off
because they despise him
Morning View 166 of 211 ch8 Delusion Kouri belongs

I think there can be a middle ground between love and hate.
 
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I think there can be a middle ground between love and hate.
There is no middle ground
Even indifference hurts
I don’t expect a hooker to find me attractive but I get sad when anyone doesn’t like me so yeah I’d like a prostitute to actually enjoy the time and at least like me platonically
Also that hentai looks sad
 
Indifference hurts, but not everything that hurts us is due to hatred.

That hentai was CONFUSING AS SHIT. I had no idea wtf was going on in that chapter. I think maybe they were implying she was a ghost or something.

Neck

Rhyme
 
Indifference hurts, but not everything that hurts us is due to hatred.

That hentai was CONFUSING AS SHIT. I had no idea wtf was going on in that chapter. I think maybe they were implying she was a ghost or something.

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And now you know why I don’t want to see a sex worker.
Because I don’t want to be intimate with people who don’t like me or don’t care.
it hurts too much.
 
I've visited a couple of escorts who let me stay longer than the time I'd booked for, because I was the youngest client they've ever had and usually won't see individuals my age, and they were curious. One of them drove me to an airport because I needed to catch a flight.

But absolutely not. You must always remember that having sex with an escort is not a personal relationship, but a business one. Being friendly, warm, and social towards you is part of her job.

They all dislike you on some level. The cash makes them shut up, though.
 
While it is possible for a sex worker to like you, since there is a financial incentive for them to feign that, it is understandable being suspicious of it.

I think that's why we want uncompensated relationships.

At the same time, even "normal" relationships can get transactional. Like if not directly for money, it might also be done for security, like our ability to protect them from roaming coyotes or something.

The only way to be truly sure we are loved for ourselves and not our utility is to worthless, to offer nothing...

Yet if we offer nothing, we cannot be loved for ourself.

So we must offer that which is us, and not strive to offer things we do not identify with.

Things which are not utilitarian, things which are pure indulgence that we love, and only that indulgence which is of no general use save to those who love those things.
 
I've visited a couple of escorts who let me stay longer than the time I'd booked for, because I was the youngest client they've ever had and usually won't see individuals my age, and they were curious. One of them drove me to an airport because I needed to catch a flight.

But absolutely not. You must always remember that having sex with an escort is not a personal relationship, but a business one. Being friendly, warm, and social towards you is part of her job.

They all dislike you on some level. The cash makes them shut up, though.
I don’t want to pay someone who dislikes me to grin it and bear and fuck. That is soul crushing. I probably wouldn’t even enjoy myself because I know what she thinks.
 
If you're a regular that pays well and has good hygiene and a cordial friendly personality I'm sure she'd come to like you over time.

Other women don't give a fuck about your personality. It's all about looks. Why would prostitutes be any different?
 
I've never escortcelled before but for what I know escorts are very bitter and resent men and usually they only see them as human ATMs, so if you notice one is being nice to you it's probably to make you spend money on her.
 
Other women don't give a fuck about your personality. It's all about looks. Why would prostitutes be any different?

Because the prostitute due to her need and or love of money essentially forces herself to keep interacting with such a client and over time she very well likely could come to like and appreciate that type of client since he represents stability in many different ways ie steady income for her, steady safe personality meaning not prone to violence thus not being a threat to her life as many in this profession have to worry about (as we well know from various news stories about murdered and or severely beaten up prostitutes). She also forces herself to get to know you over time if you’re a regular client and if you’re like the kind in my hypothetical example she may end up liking you inspite of herself.

That’s not to say she will begin to like you romantically or sexually but rather in the way a person might look at a type of friend male or female that they feel sorry for or take pity on.

That or even how a person might look at a beloved pet.

LOL, btw at any potential incoming “Dog pill” responses to this post.
 
sorry OP but women don't feel anything for unattractive men.

don't get your hopes up, you'll only get brought back down again.
 

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