is it normal for a therapist to blame everything on you??

[imbored21]

I've seen 2 therapists and some how everything is my fault and I'm always wrong. Their advice is go to a meetup group (sausage fest), go to a bar (lol at going to a bar as an autist), or tinder (fucking lol at tinder working for sub 6). Maybe women are bad therapists? Or therapy is just a scam?

 

[Deleted member 8499]

I've never seen a therapist so I can't confirm but if your problem is looks then why are you doing therapy for?

 

[Nunu]

Therapy made my social anxiety worse.

Their advice cannot work in real settings because you can't plan life out like they way they say you should expose yourself.

 

[Incellectual]

Therapy is a scam. You can get something from it but you could get the same thing from someone online/from talking to someone. Women are worse at therapy though since they can't relate at all. By the way therapists see you as crazy so they won't listen to what you have to say. They will always think you are wrong because you are seeing them for help. Its a waste of time at the end of the day since you could get the same advice on here or though someone else.

 

[Mainländer]

Therapy is just a scam.

It's not your fault at all if you can't get women on this day and age being ugly. You have no chances no matter what you do.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

I've seen 2 therapists and some how everything is my fault and I'm always wrong. Their advice is go to a meetup group (sausage fest), go to a bar (lol at going to a bar as an autist), or tinder (fucking lol at tinder working for sub 6). Maybe women are bad therapists? Or therapy is just a scam?

If you're an average or good looking autist, as you are since girls giggle and get nervous around you, then there is likely no fix for that. You can try to get better at socializing with practice. But autists seem to believe they can't learn to be better. So maybe they can't.

 

[Fontaine]

Very few therapists admit the great importance of looks in social relationships. That's a reason I avoid them like the plague.

A few exceptions occasionally. I once met a male shrink who was big into evopsy and was honest about looks.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

O damn it’s over for therapycels, self-improvementcels.

 

[Deleted member 6101]

Maybe women are bad therapists? Or therapy is just a scam?

See, it's not hard reaching the truth.

 

[Hunter]

disabled person must solve.

 

[Akkadian]

bro just blackpill your therapists

 

[FlyoverState]

Are you implying both of your therapists were women?
Therapy is bullshit all around but therapy from a woman is probably even worse.

 

[misanthropekun]

bro just blackpill your therapists

I tried this once, not a good idea.

 

[Raper]

Maybe women are bad therapists?

This. Instead of memorizing books everyday they chase Chads.

 

[Indari]

no. over4u

 

[rockwell1488]

Or therapy is just a scam?

Probs just a scam. I went to a therapist once, and this was 5 years ago. After that I felt confused. The therapist gave me too much shit to think about and I never went back, I started drinking Russian Standard Vodka every day and eventually I came right just because "time".

 

[AR15]

O damn it’s over for therapycels, self-improvementcels.

 

[Weirdcel]

Women either can't or don't want to underatand the struggles men go through. Doesn't matter her credentials. They all don't care about sub8s.

 

[Akkadian]

Women either can't or don't want to underatand the struggles men go through. Doesn't matter her credentials. They all don't care about sub8s.

all they care about is the thought of getting throated by chad

 

[Scott Norman]

Honestly you're probably being sent to those things because you are the problem.
I guarantee if I asked how many friends you have you'll say "none" and the only meaningful relationship you'll tell me you have will either be with a parent, or none at all. But i'm sure there's at least one person that is your friend, but you still consider them basically a stranger. If not and you just have no friends at all, well, that is exactly the same problem.
You need to learn to form relationships and dispel social anxiety through going out and forming relationships with people, regardless of sex.

People here are too focused on roasties and it's bad for mental health. Just look at what you put in your post, you literally don't want to do it because there are no females there. Is that really a healthy way to look at things?
Who knows, maybe you'd like one of those dudes in the "sausagefest" and become friends with them. That's the point. You can still do things that aren't roastie focused and gain something from it.

Just go and make friends with someone. Stick to it.
It's about going from uber-high inhib to low inhib over time. It's also about little steps.
It takes time and effort, and it might not feel like there's progress, but there will be. Put that effort in or you can just LDAR.

 

[Weirdcel]

all they care about is the thought of getting throated by chad

Every last one of them.

 

[uu76]

I tried this once, not a good idea.

what happened?

 

[Evildoer]

Therapy is just a scam.

Not a scam, rather heavy brain-manipulating to make you believe their bluepill agenda. Also, JFL at femoid therapists.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I've seen 2 therapists and some how everything is my fault and I'm always wrong. Their advice is go to a meetup group (sausage fest), go to a bar (lol at going to a bar as an autist), or tinder (fucking lol at tinder working for sub 6). Maybe women are bad therapists? Or therapy is just a scam?

I've seen many therapists over the years (been trapped in the mental health system for over a decade). This was always my experience.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

I mean it is your fault for being born incel, you should have just been born chad. Brilliant therapist.

 

[misanthropekun]

what happened?

Therapist started asking me about females and talked about how they can also have problems in society.. so I told her if she wanted to check the difference between male suicide and female suicide, bullying and homelessness numbers to see how we aren't equal, she stopped the conversation there and took me out.

 

[tentacla]

Female therapists are only good for female problems, that's all. They won't fix a mentalcel, that takes another male.

 

[KingOfRome]

I've heard stories about female therapists talking about clients to their friends, making fun of them for being whiny and ugly.

I've never been to a therapist, but I have been to numerous psychiatrists (all men, as psychiatry is part of STEM, which foids avoid like anal gangrene), and I can tell you none of them give a single fuck about their clients. If these people, who are better paid, better educated, and male, don't give a shit, I would be retarded not to assume female therapists don't give a shit, either.

Meetup groups work for foids because they're sausage fests. Bars and Tinder work for foids because they're full of thirsty men. She's telling you what works from the female perspective because she can't be assed to have even the slightest bit of empathy or perspective. As long as you're paying her, she's doing her job.

 

[4700euros]

1 - get in many activities as possible
Check clubs on internet (voleyball etc...)
More activities = more foids you know.

2 - If a foid becomes a friend you should latter talk to her about your hard time to have a gf.
Ask her if she knows someone.

3 - Repeat this until exaustion.
If you cant find a"friend foid" in the activity group then go to other one.
See at least 3 to 4 groups per year.

4 - if you try to seduce a foid and nothing happens in 3 months just move to another one.

5 - Dont seduce only one foid at a time.
Seduce several, each one in different places.

6 - You must reach at least 30 ( the better would be 60) foids until you start to slow down.

7 - ultimate (and saddest ) solution is betabuxxing an unemployed female

 

[Evidential]

Why go to therapy if your face is the problem?

 

[Raper]

I've never been to a therapist, but I have been to numerous psychiatrists (all men, as psychiatry is part of STEM, which foids avoid like anal gangrene), and I can tell you none of them give a single fuck about their clients. If these people, who are better paid, better educated, and male, don't give a shit, I would be retarded not to assume female therapists don't give a shit, either.

Psychiatry is just marketing for jew pills.

 

[Konon]

Every incel that goes to a therapist is low IQ.

Behavioral psychology is 100% pseudoscience and people who study it simply don't have skills or intelligence for anything else that's useful like CS or Engineering. And most of them are mean and bitter for that same reason and quite honestly, I feel sorry for their patients.

 

[Evildoer]

Every incel that goes to a therapist is low IQ.

Especially if you know it won't help, but still go visit them, for some reason.

 

[FortunateMilkman]

I've made a few therapist incredibly angry by being very bitchy and combative with them, but only the female ones. Male ones would bounce back and forth with me. I always felt a lot happier after shooting the shit with an older guy who was okay with my anger. It's made me realize that what I'm lacking and truly desire is just friendship, beyond females and good looks.

 

[Fontaine]

Meetup groups work for foids because they're sausage fests. Bars and Tinder work for foids because they're full of thirsty men. She's telling you what works from the female perspective because she can't be assed to have even the slightest bit of empathy or perspective. As long as you're paying her, she's doing her job.

This, unfortunately.

Never go to female therapists for advice on dating

 

[Deleted member 1983]

therapy is a scam tried that shit twice, its free here in the UK, both times they were post wall roasties spouting bluepilled BS

 

[Deleted member 250]

Therapist started asking me about females and talked about how they can also have problems in society.. so I told her if she wanted to check the difference between male suicide and female suicide, bullying and homelessness numbers to see how we aren't equal, she stopped the conversation there and took me out.

Oof, whore couldn’t handle the truth so she had to call a depressed Chad for his “therapy session”

 

[Deleted member 4760]

I've seen 2 therapists and some how everything is my fault and I'm always wrong. Their advice is go to a meetup group (sausage fest), go to a bar (lol at going to a bar as an autist), or tinder (fucking lol at tinder working for sub 6). Maybe women are bad therapists? Or therapy is just a scam?

''or tinder''


I sure hope you punched them in the face before leaving.

Online dating is suicide wish for the majority of sub-8 men.

 

[Erenor]

Different therapists use different approaches. Some try to be reserved and blame it all on you, but there are also ones that are more supportive and try to build up your confidence. Anyways I think a male therapist would be better, because a female ultimately can't really relate to what men and especially incels are going through, also if you feel some Kind of attraction towards her, this isn't good either imo.