no man. its not impossible
I'm mostly a mentalcel too at this point. (I've looksmaxed, statusmaxed and moneymaxxed) but still feel like an incel on the inside. (and for now, am an incel.)
The problem is It's FUCKING TOUGH to change your mental outlook. bitches on reddit and other cuck sites will tell you that "you just have to be confidence bro" but that's fucking hard when you've been an invisible loser.
Here's the only way to do it. you have to change feedback loops. If you've been ignored by people all your life (me) you have to go out and get positive feedback. Most incel traits are due to negative feedback or no feedback. You have to force that shit..
so like, if you grow up and you're fucking fat and you lose weight, inside you will still feel like a fat person. you need to get used to people calling you fit and praising you for doing fit stuff until your brain starts to accept it.
funnily enough this is literally girl tier advice because girls just accept whatever they're told uncritically in a way guys don't.
but the reason chad is confident is because his whole life he's given a halo and can do no wrong. if you're a mentalcel, you're the opposite and you have to build your own halo.
"charisma" and "social likeability" are bullshit terms. just check out some of the chadfish posts here; you can have the shittest personality and if you have a halo, people will respond positively.
build the halo, maxx yourself it's the only way to ascend fucking seriously
Nerdy psychological explanation:
The reverting you describe are reaction patterns called Schemes in Schematherapy. They are developed over the years and are bascially an automated "macro" so you react faster to e.g. perceived threats. The patterns skip the analysis part of the situation and make you jump to conclusions and reactions, built on your past experiences in similar situations so e.g. you immediately start fighting the perceived threat. Spoiler: Not so helpful in social situations, when your schemas are formed by negative experiences. It takes a while to change them, by acting out a lot of those situation in the new way, forging a new pattern.
Great explanation wrote in better terms, same as I've said
