Is fapping losing its edge for anyone else?

[Shower_Taker]

It's getting to the point where I can't try and masturbate without spending a good half an hour just trying to shake off the depression that rushes in before commencing. I just look at all these beautiful women and the mere sight is crushing; the thought of me ever having a chance to experience anything with a woman is so foreign that I can't stand to look at porn without feeling immense self loathing.

Does anybody else experience something similar to this? It's worrying because this might just be one step short of the final stage of depression, when mere consciousness feels like hell. I mean, if you can't even get a rush from the thought of an orgasm, probably one of the most basic forms of relief found in nature and throughout history, then I can only infer that this stage of depression must be really advanced...

 

[UltraFayJr.]

Try NoFap @Hunter

 

[LDARBuddah]

Fappin is a double edges sword my friend. Dopamine gets triggered inconsistently which makes your high and lows even worse

 

[Hunter]

embrace it and stop fapping

 

[gymcelben]

yes

 

[Welcumtotherealworld]

I haven't been able to get properly hard for over a year now.

 

[Zaetheus]

If your on nofap it’s a relapse but edging is the same as full on masturbation. It destroys your dopamine receptors.Youll get less and less hard and shorter erections.

 

[Shower_Taker]

This isn’t a no fap type of thread though; fapping is a symptom and not the root problem, that being well...inceldom. Not fapping or acceptance won’t change my basic biological need for love nor my circumstances.

It’s just that losing joy for most things, even simple biological functions, is so hard to cope with...what’s the point if you can’t even enjoy anything due to your status.

Having a gf is a life process; having the ability to access one, apart from the obvious looks threshold, does not consist of an attitude change but more of a natural aptitude to which you adapt as you grow up. If I don’t have that, as most of us in here, well...then life becomes pretty pointless in my opinion. Hence my loss of ability to receive pleasure from fapping.

 

[GetFucked]

I have a crazy high sex drive so i never really get tired of it. You should definitely try to at least limit it though, it definitely drains my motivation to get anything done.

 

[wizardcel]

Yesterday I was at a restaurant eating lunch when I saw this girl sitting on the opposite side. She had her back turned to me. She was wearing one of those low-cut jeans, so her ass crack was showing. I got immediately turned on. I have a thing for women's butts. I jerked off in the shower as soon as I got home.

I have to deal with a lot of crap every time I step outside. But sometimes I get lucked out when some random woman decides to dress scantily, that's when I get to have a glimpse of a woman's body.

Porn doesn't do it for long. You need to have real-life experience. Unfortunately, due to my genetic inferiority, it's unlikely I will ever get laid. But I make up for it by riding in crowded public transports. I always make to catch the bus on rush-hour because that's the time when women are making their way back home from work. They smell sour and ripe, just how I like it. You always get to "accidentally" touch a woman's ass and even breasts on a crowded bus. No one can blame you, especially if you are chunky like me. I make sure to remember their face, dress style ( usually slutty) and their smell as it helps me to masturbate later at home.

 

[Haywire]

at this point i just stare in awe at porn. sure id like to actually fuck a woman but fapping isnt doing much for me anymore.

 

[NeiboltStreet]

It's getting to the point where I can't try and masturbate without spending a good half an hour just trying to shake off the depression that rushes in before commencing. I just look at all these beautiful women and the mere sight is crushing; the thought of me ever having a chance to experience anything with a woman is so foreign that I can't stand to look at porn without feeling immense self loathing.

Does anybody else experience something similar to this? It's worrying because this might just be one step short of the final stage of depression, when mere consciousness feels like hell. I mean, if you can't even get a rush from the thought of an orgasm, probably one of the most basic forms of relief found in nature and throughout history, then I can only infer that this stage of depression must be really advanced...

Fapping has become a chore like doing the dishes tbh

 

[Pariah]

If you're at all turned on by hentai/3d animated porn, use that instead. Ive found it makes me feel much less depressed than fapping to real women.

 

[jeffyboi69]

Not for me bro, I'm heavily addicted to porn, though I do feel down sometimes afterwards. And the best I can manage on nofap is about 4 days, and even then I can't help staring at porn all day, teasing myself.

 

[ThotGenocide]

I'm a porn addict but I've been trying to limit myself, some nights I'll just edge for a while and a lot of nights I just won't bother. I bought an onahole and started exclusively jacking off to hentai which helped a lot. Onaholes feel pretty good and spiced things up for me at least

 

[Mr. Pajser]

Same for me.
It makes me more depressed than excited.

 

[Soothsayer]

I found the same is happening to me. My general tendency to fap went up over the years, however the quality of the orgasm suffered. I'm at the point where porn just doesn't do it for me and all I'm left with is my shitty imagination.